๐‘ด๐‘ฌ๐‘จ๐‘ต๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฎ ๐‘ถ๐‘ญ ๐‘ด๐‘ฐ๐‘บ๐‘ผ๐‘ต๐‘ซ๐‘ฌ๐‘น๐‘บ๐‘ป๐‘จ๐‘ต๐‘ซ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฎ

Misunderstanding are so powerful that they can break the most beautiful relationship just in a second”

Human beings have the basic need to be understood. Some of our closest relations are forged on the basis of mutual understanding, trust and respect. In our life sojourn, we tend to gravitate towards people with whom we feel understood and share a mental wave-length. Being emotionally in sync with another human being helps us thrive and keeps us happy.

So, it came as no surprise to me when found myself falling rapidly in love with โ€˜heโ€™ walked into my life. Here was a person who didnโ€™t need to be told/expressed what my heartโ€™s deepest desires were. He was so invested that it came

The record straight our love was star-crossed right from the outset. Ours was an inter-community thing, which in the remotest by-lanes of a small town held a lot of significance. His parents who were dead opposed right from the start, made it amply clear that they would have nothing todo with us in case we went ahead.However, the man was steadfast in his decision and we set up to our own abode based on the love we had for each other, as the only as set.

Social conflicts often involve some misunderstanding. Parties in conflict communicate by what they say (or do not say) and how they behave toward each other. Even normal interaction may involve faulty communication, but conflict seems to worsen the problem. When two people are in conflict, they often make negative assumptions about “the other.” Consequently, a statement that might have seemed innocuous when two parties were friends might seem hostile or threatening when the same parties are in conflict.

SOURCES OF MISUNDERSTANDING :

All communication has two parts:

a sender and a receiver

The sender has a message he or she intends to transmit, and s/he puts it in words, which, to her/him, best reflect what s/he is thinking. But many things can intervene to prevent the intended message from being received accurately.

If the communication is verbal, tone of voice can influence interpretation. The boss’s words, “Hey, I noticed you were taking an especially long break this morning,” could be interpreted as an attack if she or he said that in a disapproving tone, while the comment might be seen as a minor reminder about office rules if it was said in a friendly way. If the employee has a health problem that sometimes requires long breaks, the comment might have even been a friendly inquiry about what was happening and whether the employee needed any help. Here, tone of voice as well as situational and relationship factors would influence the interpretation of the message.



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