As kids we go through a lot. By the time a person grows up enough to settle by himself and start his own family, be independent, he or she has already been through tough times. Be it bullying in school, academics, relationships, etc we have all needed emotional and mental support in our lives. This support may come from friends, family, teachers etc. sometimes in our lives, getting support is difficult, your best friend might betray you, your love interest might leave you, but one thing you can always rely on in life is your family. Family is one thing which will stand with you in happiness or midst a war against you.
Especially fathers, fathers play an extremely important role in our lives, they are just as important as mothers. If mother serves you food, father teaches you how to earn it. If mother teaches you how to love and respect others, father teaches you how to earn respect.
In India people often complain about their fathers being strict or over protective, what we fail to see is how they see us. To our fathers we are everything to them, if we are hurt or sad or happy they feel it too. So usually fathers tend to go into overprotection mode where they do anything and everything they can to protect their child. These measures they take or decisions they make might seem way too overwhelming but we need to understand that all they ever want for us is health and prosperity. Sometimes while doing this they annoy their kids off, we think that he hates us, he has a problem with us, at times we even shout at them or answer rudely to them because of the generation gap and different mindsets. Even tho shouting or being rude to them is wrong, fathers always forgive and forget as they know from experience what might be going in our minds
Most fathers work everyday so their kids can go to school, eat well, be healthy and happy. Sometimes, even if they are going through some difficult times financially they still buy you stuff, pay for your tuition. Our happiness is everything to our fathers. They always try to provide for their child what they didn’t have growing up as a kid.thats every father’s dream.
Today, 21 of june marks Father’s day of 2020. It is usually celebrated on the 3rd sunday of june. We as children usually spend the most of our time on our phones or with our friends. But for this one day, I hope every child spends some time with their father and shows them some appreciation and gratitude for what they do for us everyday. Let’s all make them feel special and tell them we love them for everything. Because it’s not often that we go to our parents unless we need something, or go to them just to chat with them or appreciate them. Let’s all make this one day about the fathers because they deserve it.
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