In today’s world, its very common in teenagers to have a boyfriend or girlfriend and they starts thinking that, that is their true love who will stay with them for lifetime and even goes against family, to convince them at any cost, and we also see many many cases of fleeing away of the girl and boy in news .
But do we know that what happens after that? The families finds them with the help of police and it doesn’t affect the boys, but it does affects the girls life, their whole life is ruined, they are stopped from studying further, they are stopped from going anywhere alone because their parents don’t trust them anymore. They may say that we were not mature enough, that’s why we took such step of running away from home, but were they really immature enough? If they were than why didn’t they think about it while confessing their love, why they didn’t they thought that they should stop, they are not mature enough to do these things. To be honest, they were immature, they really were but they didn’t realised that at the right time and took such steps.
So, here the duty of family comes under the play, they should provide love and care to their child, they should provide them such a environment that they can freely talk to their elders on such topics and instead of opposing them directly, parents should understand them and explain them the right thing. They should tell them the difference between right and wrong. And the most important thing is, they should change themselves, they must change their mindset with the era. Living in the modern world with a thinking of older eras ruins everything which needs to be changed. Become friends of your children and try to understand them, give them so much love, care and security that they won’t even think of running away from you and trust your decisions that their parents won’t do anything wrong.
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