”log kya kahenge” is a word which underestimates one’s ability. it can’t let us allow to do what we want to do. In todays world this three words are one of the biggest barrier to success.
For example: if someone wants to marry a person of his/her choice. than the very first thing comes in our mind that “log kya kahenge” which makes our parents felt disrespectful. Also they think that they can’t stand in a society in the same reputation and dignity.
In India everyone lives together, really close. And that’s an amazing thing. But we are not able to mind our own business. We have so much to say and soo much to judge. Everyone on road to other places can easily make out when thier clothes, realationship status, job and etc. are not approved. We are so qualified in making others feel out of place and uncomfortable. We can easily crush confidence of a person by looking at them for just 5 seconds. We are “log” who make others feel self-conscious.
A girl wearing a crop to is being judged brutally by the society , specially by aunts. but when the same aunts wear sarees that displays their 6 inch stomach, why are the still taged as “sanskari”.why being so partial ?
This “ log Kya kahenge” becomes a major problem. But why do we worry that “log kya kahenge”. “ It is the work of people to say in other’s matter”. So best thing is to ignore them.
Now the solution is very simple; firstly you should stop judging people yourself. If you have any difficulty in coping, ask for advice from someone whom you trust and respect.
Teach yourself to accept that what they think isn’t your reality.
By confronting your fears, you help others confront theirs.
Be a little selfish. There’s nothing wrong with it.
Its your life; Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for living it your way!
Its your life. Run, scream, laugh, cry with joy. Do whatever the hell you want. How does it matter whether you wear tight or baggy clothes, or too much makeup or all you want to do is travel the world alone when the people around you are gasping at the thought of you dropping out of med school?
My father says-”Never get swelled up when someone praises you, Never get depressed when someone blames you”
Thus a ideal person is the one who remains unaffected by both praise as well as criticism. You just need to keep one simple thing in mind- You have no control over any kind of external situation, person, etc. You can only and only control yourself. So, that which you cannot control should not bother you at all.
Do the right thing without expecting any praise or criticism. Even if you get any of these as a byproduct of your work, you should remain humble, completely unaffected by them. Remember both praise and criticism are momentary. If you are in peace with yourself, that’s it all and you win.
“कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे, लोगों का काम है कहना
छोड़ो बेकार की बातों में कहीं बीत ना जाए रैना”
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