Having a girlfriend/boyfriend is not acceptable but marrying a complete stranger and having sex on very first night is acceptable???? This is our so called society mentality.
Because sex has become cheap, easy, and worst of all, meaningless. Why bother with anyone’s emotions or opinions when you don’t have to?
The traditional mindset portrays men, especially young men, as hormone-driven beasts incapable of controlling their masculine urges. Women are tasked with protecting their sexual castle from conquest by one of these beasts. They are raised and expected to say “no,” and the beasts are expected to pull all the tricks, up to manipulation, pressure, and even force, to get “in the castle.”
In the worst cases, societies will pressure, mistreat, or even oppress women in order to satisfy this mindset. If a woman is raped, it’s her fault: What did she expect from a beast? Societies lock up the women to ‘protect’ them from the beasts out there.
If a woman accuses a man of rape, before any investigation, he is immediately taken into police custody and can be harassed for days if the woman has a good lawyer. A large number of rape cases recorded in India have been found to be fake. On the other hand, if a live-in is considered as marriage and the man has forcible sex with the woman, she cannot do much given that marital rape is not illegal in India. Again, a large number of rape cases in India go unrecorded for one reason or another. Further, the legal course is riddled with obstacles and confusions when it comes to inheritance, alimony, and rights of children born from such relationships. Girls also have feelings their emotions, dreams to live their life as they wanted to.why anyone wants to rulled her life?
society should understand this that girls are not an instrument or a toy to play with it. so please change your so called mentality towards them !! Because a girl is also a human being, she also has the right to live her life on her own terms whether you accept or not but the truth is that girls are the most beautiful creatures of the god and we all have to accept what she really wants and what things make her more happy. whether being with a boy she loves and spend her whole life with him or go with the parents choice. Thats only and only her choice.
Because being in a relationship is her business not at all society’s business !
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