After childhood, introducing oneself to a teenage lifestyle sounds so thrilling, full of opportunity. Yet the more pleasurable it looks from the outside, the more terrifying it becomes from the within. Delighted only for those who know how to treat things skilfully without getting influenced by the teenagers around. Terrified for others who make themselves hate their peers and turn their lives unbearable.
So let talk about life of teenage:
A teenager’s experience appears to evolve every day. It’s the worst phase of your experience to be a adolescent in certain respects. This is the period of your life in which you seek to describe who you are not only to those around you, but even to yourself. The teens are grappling with appearance, gender identification, self-confidence, and lots of emotional issues.
One minute a adolescent appears to be involved in a new activity, a topic at school, or a form of music, just to totally change their gears to the next. Before their teenage years, these teens concentrated on learning, playing, and getting their parents’ permission. Yet today, as teenagers move towards becoming young adults, the previous aspirations are supplemented by a hunger for freedom.
When we reach adolescent years, both males and females are going through difficult periods. With men, they are going through improvements in their bodies and speech. We encounter conditions involving hormones, and other “masculine” substances. People are thoroughly brainwashed into thinking they must be tall, strong and attractive with as much muscle strength as possible and as little overweight as possible.
Yet I believe the focus of teen struggles falls more on females. There is such a desire in the culture and in our everyday lives for females to be the perfect, 5′ 10,” 100 pounds, white, blue-eyed, big-haired model.
They are frequently overwhelmed with videos and ads to become someone that they can’t really be. Teenagers are also depressed. They forget they are always not isolated, because everyone is supporting them: their mother, their teachers or their peers.There are challenges with the life of a teenager but I believe they are essentially part of evolution and maturity. Which does mean all these issues aren’t genuine challenges, so it’s just the manner they are managed.
Parents and teachers are sometimes unable to cope with them because they do not realize and know teens, particularly their desires, concerns or various moods, in a short period. Parents do not understand that being adult and more accountable is always very challenging, so teens must first fix their problems. So, they ‘re rude and insulting, antisocial or insane. They aren’t any longer self-confident.
FRIENDS:
Friendships and relationships may be challenging to obtain, develop , and sustain. Problems like gossip, rumours, and manipulation can destroy lives in a moment.
Like many colleges, rumor spreads faster than a disease.
Sometimes I believe teenagers’ lives begin in the emotional way.
We want to be loved by a girl or a boy.Our friends are more important than everyone. They have got similar problems and they understand us. But we have to solve our problems on our own. We want to be free, we want to do what we think is right.
PEER PRESSURE :
There are a number of items that might distract or encourage a adolescent to do the wrong thing.
Peer pressure will quickly drive teenagers into drinking, sex, and drugs. Many teens realize it’s inappropriate, but they seem that they’re doing these things to match in and be popular. Luckily, though, most teenagers know how to do things by saying no.
I think some of the hardest issues teenager face are what’s “acceptable” and what’s “expected.”
Teenage years are a time when the sole decision of right and wrong is based on what we see and hear. Peer pressure is more and more present, and the need to “fit in” can outweigh the “right” decision.
DRUGS:
Another issue is drugs that are sometimes used by teens currently.
Many who take these medications don’t realize why it’s a dangerous idea and that they can damage their life.
This dilemma can be overcome with the help of teachers, parents or even peers who will try to hold them safe from the dangerous ones. For certain instances, teenagers are affected by the people who waste their leisure time doing negative things.
Sexuality is another of nowadays problems of the teenagers and not only. They are interested on this thing and sometimes becomes more important than family or school. If they have a sexual life they should protect themselves from AIDS or another disease.
In my opinion, those are the most important and the most serious teenagers problems.
Most of us look and act completely fine but everyone is going through something mental health problems.
Nowadays it seems like everyone is having sex which has become a huge issue for teens to pressure themselves about. If you haven’t had sex yet you a loser but if you’ve had sex, everyone looks at you differently and silently judges you.
It’s too hard to be a teenager that several of us think we could just skip this segment, and get it all figured out. The reality, though, is that you can’t run through. You’ve got to get through this phase and eventually come out safe and satisfied.
In an ideal high school world everyone would be happy with the way they look and wouldn’t force themselves to become something else. None of us would have attempted to suicide because we would all have unexpected support for each other
We, teenagers have to bind together and strive for these things to happen and we all just have to push through our issues. If we just keep pushing and hoping we will come out on the other side victorious.
We are never going to have everything figured out, not even when we are adults, so we just have to except that and remember this chapter will end. We will move on. High school is not the end of us, it’s the introduction to real life, and real life is what matters.
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