‘ no one in this world will understand me’ how can someone feel my pain? No one in this world will understand my situation?
There are lots of these types of questions that you may ask yourself once in a lifetime, or you saw people who are asking those types of questions from others, I am not saying that putting these questions is wrong but can you really try to find out the answer of these questions or you are always busy in blaming others.
When you blame someone for not understanding you? Will you realize that how many times you try to understand them. I think there is a chain of blaming in which we blame others for our situations and they blame us for their situations. Why we can’t understand that it is impossible to understand other people. In reality, no one will understand us completely, and also we can’t understand others completely.
There is a reason behind that problem that no one in this world will completely know about other person,
Take your example, people know about yourself only those things that you will tell them, or you know that what you will tell them,
And you will never be told about yourself completely to other people no matter how close they are,
So I think understanding yourself is a better idea to get rid of all these problems. Here are some ways that will help you to understand that how you will understand yourself. so let’s try to understand them one by one.
1) when you are angry, sad, depressed lonely, etc try to spend some time with yourself and understand your emotional life. and when you feel cry, please cry, don’t hold emotions. try to express them.
2) if you can understand yourself , your emotions you will definitely understand others feelings. At that time you are not have any expectation that somebody will understand you , so in this way your relations also become better.
3) understand that we all have some suffering in our lives, so don’t try to give the burden of emotions to others. Try to understand your emotions just like a responsibility towards yourself.
4) you know about yourself better than any other person, so if you have bad habit face them and get rid from them, and cheers yourself when you do something good.
5) always try to boost your confidence, never compare yourself with others this is the work of society, so do your work.
6) face all the struggles of your life with a warrior spirit, whatever the worst situation is you are the hero of your life.
7) you are the only one who have capacity to uplift your life so, whenever there is failure will come face that failure, and give your best to fight for your life.
8) whenever there is a mistakes will occur, don’t feel regret, but try to improve that mistakes because people only present not past. So don’t your time in regretting about something.
9) motivate yourself, the mind is like a child, if you feel that this work is hard mind blindly on it. and never think about that work, so treat the mind like a teacher.
10) try to be happy in this life, because the struggle is temporary.
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