socializing is one of the very important things for survival . but not each and every one can socialize , u always have the introverts sitting at the back bench minding their own business whereas the cool kids of the class are radiating confidence and due to that they are ranking high in someone’s bucket and party list 😉 . people’s attention is not for everyone and , not everyone is made to grab it either . But there are few steps that can be followed to take a step out of your pajama pants and make some new friends , a good friendship bring many opportunities in life and every piece of cake demands a hand to grab it and take it to the mouth.
so here we get started with some minor things to making major difference in socializing .
1) take the first step
stepping in a group of you classmates or batchmates or a group of friends at the parks and saying hello ! or hi or just a wassup , can lead to a major boost in your confidence with their positive response and congrats you just gained some more people who know you exists.
2) wave at the people you know
apparently taking the first step in memory , the psychology says waving at people with a smile make you stay in their memory for a longer period of time and a few words of conversation with that wave can be a cherry on cake .
3) ask them about their life
with adding one more point in the MUST!! do list , here is a think when u accomplish the above two steps , u can try to reach their souls when you ask about their healthy and their goals their life in general and if they are doing good? it makes them kinda realize that you actually care for them and which makes you appear as a closer friend for them and you rank up in their list of consideration.
4) eye contact while talking
for being a keen listener and more like a good responsible friend , the eye contact also line up in the way . when u maintain the eye contact other then being busy with your phone the person opposite to you immediately distinguish you in the trustworthy list as someone who really cares for them .
5) outings
if you have done with the above steps , lets move forward with “outing” , it is yet another important step , go out with the people you wanna surround yourself with make memories , post on social media , tell the world then you list of friend is growing
6) social media presence
as i mentioned the social media , you presence on social media is another a must do thing you really dont wanna be a guy who just seek for someone’s attention , if you wanna know about people , they are also intrested in knowing about you , make an account on social media especially the instagram, facebook and snapchat load it yourself , you intrests , you fun moments and give other a chance to approach you as well.
7) wink
it may sound crazy but this thing can also bring a change , winking at your bestie or a girl can make you a reason behind their smile and a topic of gossip anyways who doesnt like to be famous
i hope you took some really neccessary information and gonna look ahead in your life as someone who had many friends with numerous friends .All the very best buddy…↽↾⇀
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