Written by Priya Acharya
Introduction
14th February is globally recognized as Valentine’s Day, a celebration of love, affection, and companionship. Couples express their emotions through gifts, roses, and heartfelt gestures. However, in India, this day is not just about love; it also carries a painful memory that turned it into a Black Day for many.
For some, it symbolizes love, while for others, it reminds them of an immense sacrifice. So, is 14th February a day of romance or remembrance? Let’s explore both perspectives.
- Valentine’s Day: The Celebration of Love
Valentine’s Day originates from the story of Saint Valentine, who was believed to have secretly helped lovers unite. Over time, this day became a global festival dedicated to expressing love.
Why is Valentine’s Day Special?
Expression of emotions: Couples confess their feelings and strengthen their relationships.
A festival for the youth: Youngsters celebrate it with excitement, exchanging gifts and planning special outings.
Beyond romance: It’s not just for lovers; it also symbolizes love for friends, family, and humanity.
Shayari on Love: “Love is not just a moment, it’s a lifetime of care, It’s found in every smile, in every silent prayer.”
- 14th February: The Black Day of India
While the world celebrates love on this day, for India, 14th February is also a day of mourning and remembrance due to a tragic event.
(A) The Pulwama Attack (2019)
On 14th February 2019, a deadly terrorist attack in Pulwama, Jammu & Kashmir, shook the entire nation.
A suicide bomber targeted a CRPF convoy, killing 40 brave soldiers and leaving the country in grief.
Since then, many Indians have started observing 14th February as a Black Day to honor the martyrs.
Shayari for the Martyrs: “They gave their today for our tomorrow, We remember them not just in pain but in pride and sorrow.”
(B) Cultural and Social Resistance
In India, traditional values and modern love celebrations often clash.
Many groups believe that Valentine’s Day is against Indian culture and have protested against its celebration.
Some organizations have declared this day as “Parents’ Worship Day”, urging youth to respect their elders instead.
Shayari on Values: “Love is pure, love is divine, But never forget where your roots entwine.”
- Love vs. Remembrance: Finding the Balance
The debate around 14th February continues—should we celebrate love or mourn the loss of our heroes?
The Ideal Approach
Respecting sentiments: Those celebrating Valentine’s Day should also acknowledge and pay tribute to the fallen soldiers.
A day for both: Love and sacrifice can coexist—one should not overshadow the other.
True love is beyond one day: Instead of limiting love to one date, we should practice compassion and gratitude every day.
Final Shayari: “Love is not just about roses and wine, It’s found in sacrifice, in the stars that shine. Honor the love, cherish the brave, Let 14th February be a tribute, not just a wave.”
Conclusion
14th February carries two different meanings—one of love and another of sacrifice. While some celebrate relationships, others remember the sacrifices of soldiers who laid down their lives for the nation.
Whether you see it as a day of love or a Black Day, what matters most is respecting both perspectives and ensuring that love, in any form, is never forgotten.
Final Thought:
“Love is eternal, and so is the sacrifice of the brave. May we always find a way to honor both.”
Written by Priya Acharya
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