Being busy

What a basic necessity to every relationship and to every other person it is time.
You know what is very appealing, very convincing, very sexy, it is humility. Being busy, being on the cloud and not having any sort of humility this is not how relationships work.
Now I know many people who organise slam me with comments like if we have work, we gotta work. now I’ll tell you this article is not for people who are being productively busy but this is for people who are being ignorant to the people around them into the relationships they are handling around them.
This article is also for those people who think that the people around them have gotten really ignorant and they think that they got no one to talk to.
Being busy and being ignorant is different just so you know. Being busy is working on making yourself better, being productive, working for your jobs, working for the betterment of your career, working on the betterment of your soul is being the productive busy, and being productive busy like this means extremely good, people who are indulging themselves into activities to make their career and life work should be supported no matter what.
The people who are ignorant and the people who are productively busy have a difference in them the people who are ignorant won’t be texting you for the entire day won’t be calling you instead will be indulging themselves into things like YouTube or Instagram or pubg or call of duty maybe or some other gaming channels on more entertainment sources instead of just working on the relationships.
The people who are ignorant and the ones who are productively busy have a difference in them the people who are productively busy will efficiently try and make efforts to maintain the relationships with everyone. The people who are ignorant will make absolutely no efforts to put into the relationship.
This blog contains this overview because I’m having my fair share of people who are ignorant and also those who are productively busy. Now as this overview is done I am going to tell you what to do to cope up with people like this.
we all know that being alone and being lonely so much different. Being alone is a choice sometimes being lonely is a situation you get stuck in. being lonely is like being in an extremely crowded room you are screaming on the top of a voice but nobody can hear you. being alone is like you are sitting in the quietest peaceful and beautiful hotel room reading a book with a cup of coffee or Coco and you can walk out any time and encounter in an adventure. Loneliness is not that, loneliness is something that keeps you entrapped it does not give you a choice.
that’s what you encounter when you have ignorant people in your life you do not get alone you get lonely. But it differs with the people if the person is productively busy all you have to do is understand, stay back and support.
But if the person is ignorant and you are getting lonely and you are just going up with the person my dear friend it is a Red flag.
when you have a person in your life who is extremely ignorant who pays no heeds and leaves you one question your mind gets questioned and you are jumbled up.
I’ll tell you when I do get lonely what is my solution. It is truly said tit for tat, I am not advising you to get ignorant instead get busy within building yourself. Paint portraits and landscapes, take up the hundred novel challenge, 30-day article challenge, cook the favorite meal challenge. Trust me when I tell you this cooking is therapeutic. Pick up the 30 ROM com movie challenge on Netflix. And of course, there are many more things you can encounter which will always keep you off your negative thoughts and definitely build up your own character and your own soul and you will have things to do with yourself which will form the base of your career.
Do not let others being ignorant to you affect your workspace. If the person is being ignorant it is the person who is Losing the relationship and trust me you are not at fault. Be proud of who you are and not ashamed of how someone else treats you. Owning your own story and loving yourself through the process is the bravest thing that you will never do. After all, you have to love yourself first you love someone else because you cannot pour from an empty cup.
Ciao.