Centre to launch Garib Kalyan Rojgar Abhiyaan tomorrow in 116 districts to boost livelihood in rural areas

Prime Minister Narendra Modi will launch Garib Kalyan Rojgar Abhiyaan on Saturday to boost livelihood opportunities in rural India. The Prime Minister will launch the campaign through video-conference in the presence of Chief Minister and the Deputy Chief Minister of Bihar.
 
The campaign will be launched from Telihar village at Beldaur Block in Khagaria district of Bihar. It aims to provide livelihood opportunities to the returnee migrant workers and rural citizens.
 
Briefing media about the scheme, Finance Minister Nirmala Sitharaman said, Pradhan Mantri Garib Kalyan Rojgar Yojana with an outlay of  50 thousand crore rupees will cover 116 districts in six States, namely Bihar, Jharkhand, Uttar Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh, Odisha and Rajasthan.
 
She said, workers from all over the country wanted to go back to villages after the lockdown began and Central and State governments made some arrangements, and they have gone back. The Minister said, the government looked at the districts to which they have largely returned.
 
She said, the Centre and State governments have meticulously mapped the skill sets of the migrant workers who have returned in large numbers to the 116 districts. 
 
The Minister said, everyone who needs an assignment in these districts will be given work under the Garib Kalyan Rojgar Abhiyaan. Ms Sitharaman said, the campaign will involve intensified and focused implementation of 25 different types of works to provide employment to the migrant workers and create infrastructure in the rural regions of the country.
 
The Minister said, nearly 25 schemes of the Central government are being brought together under Garib Kalyan Rojgar Abhiyaan for 116 districts. She said, the objectives under these schemes will be achieved within 125 days, by offering work to migrant workers and rural citizens.

Elections for 19 Rajya Sabha seats spread over eight states to be held today

Elections for 19 Rajya Sabha seats spread over eight states will be held today. Of the 19 seats, four each are from Andhra Pradesh and Gujarat, three each from Madhya Pradesh and Rajasthan, two from Jharkhand, and one each from Manipur, Mizoram and Meghalaya.

In Karnataka, where elections were to be held for four seats, all the candidates have been declared elected unopposed. They are former prime minister HD Deve Gowda, Congress leader Mallikarjun Kharge, BJP candidates Iranna Kadadi and Ashok Gasti.

BJP nominee Nabam Rebia was also elected unopposed to the lone Rajya Sabha seat from Arunachal Pradesh.

The counting of votes for all the 19 seats will be held this evening. Legislators vote to elect candidates for the Upper House of Parliament.

Election Commission has made elaborate arrangements for the voting keeping in mind the coronavirus pandemic. Every voter (MLA) will be screened for body temperature and will have to use mask and adhere to social distancing norms.

Legislators having a fever or showing other symptoms will be kept in a separate waiting room.

PM Modi says yoga provides multidimensional solutions to Covid-19

Prime Minister Narendra Modi has appealed people to mark 6th International Yoga Day on Sunday at home with family while following all norms of Physical Distancing. In a video message, Mr Modi said, we are marking the 6th International Yoga Day in extraordinary times. He said, usually yoga day is about public events and mass participation but this year yoga day goes indoors.
 
The Prime Minister said, the theme of the International Yoga Day this year is Yoga at Home and Yoga with Family. He said, the world is fighting a pandemic of monumental scale, but yoga provides multidimensional solutions to multiple challenges Covid-19 has brought.
 
Mr Modi said, Yoga gives people an opportunity to know their immune system better, enables strong mind and healthy body. He said, yoga has potential to cater mental, physical and psychological challenges.
 
The Prime Minister said, in post covid era, the focus on preventive healthcare will get stronger. He expressed confidence that yoga will be more popular. Mr Modi expressed happiness over growing popularity of yoga in last few years especially among the youth.

Tamil Nadu govt imposes full lockdown in Chennai & its suburbs

In Chennai and its suburbs, the full lockdown has come into effect from midnight last night. It will be in force till the end of the month, as announced by the Tamil Nadu Government.
 
Meanwhile, the total Covid-19 infection in the state has zoomed to 52,334, with 2141 people tested positive yesterday. They include 1373 in Chennai. A record 26,736 persons were tested in the state on a single day yesterday. Meanwhile, 1017 patients were discharged from hospitals while 49 others succumbed to the disease taking the fatalities to 625. The active caseload in the state is 23,065, as mentioned in the state health department bulletin.
 
AIR correspondent reports that the full lockdown in Chennai and its suburbs is necessitated by the pouring new cases of COVID-19 for the past many days in the region. Shops will be open till 2 pm during the 12 days from today. Relaxations are being extended only to medical and other essential services.
 
The health, revenue and police officials in Chennai, Chengalpattu, Kanchipuram and Tiruvallur districts have prepared an elaborate action plan to implement the full lock down.
 
The public bus transport already stands withdrawn for quite long in the region though flight and long distance train travel continues as per the existing schedule of the service providers.
 
Though ATMs will function normally, banks will be open only during the last two days of the month, as announced by the state government. However, in other parts of the state, the unlock-phase-1 continues.

Astro-Evaders Super Exclusive : A Phenomenal Journey to Universe >>>>>//

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SHREDDING A SUPERNOVA.  

Surfing on a distant star in a galaxy far, far, away.  Walking out on the nose of your board for a cheater-five, riding a nebulous cloud through the infinite darkness of space. Getting spit out of a black hole, executing a grab-rail, carving cut-back.  Ripping a hole in the space-time continuum. Finessing the very fabric of the Universe.

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WATER IS COSMIC.

All of the water on Earth came from space in exactly the form it is in now: H2O.  Water not only came from space it was created out in space.  Hundreds of millions (or even billions) of years before the solar system itself, the world’s Ocean came from an interstellar cloud somewhere in the Milky Way galaxy—formed one molecule at a time.  All of the water on Earth was delivered here when Earth was formed (within the first 100 million years or so) and what we have is what we’ve got.  There is no geological mechanism on Earth to create or destroy H20.  The Ocean (and all of Earth’s water) has literally been here forever.

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The Ocean—all the water on Earth—began as the finest mist, tiny ice crystals drifting around inside an interstellar cloud. However, scientists don’t actually know how all that water gets from the interstellar cloud to our Ocean, nor do they know how much water is actually on Earth.

THE ORION MOLECULAR CLOUD.

DISTANCE FROM EARTH: A MERE 1400 LIGHT YEARS (1 LIGHT YEAR = 5.88 TRILLION MILES)

The OMC is an interstellar spring of water. This massive glowing cloud of hydrogen gives birth to thousands of stars at once.  As the stars coalesce and collapse in on themselves, they send shockwaves out through the clouds of gas which contain lots of loose hydrogen and oxygen.  When the shock waves slam the hydrogens and oxygens into each other, they often form water. There is enough water being formed in the OMC to fill all of Earth’s Oceans every 24 minutes.  Surf’s up!

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The Orion Molecular Cloud is making 60 Earth Oceans every 24 hours but it is doing it across a span of space 420 times the size of our entire solar system—so even the dustiest (most dense, with the most particles) parts of the cloud are emptier than any vacuum that people can create on Earth.

VENUS

DISTANCE FROM EARTH: 162 MILLION MILES

Venus may have been our solar system’s first Ocean world —a supercritical carbon dioxide Ocean of a bubbly sort of fluid that flowed a bit more like a liquid, with bubbles that behaved more like a gas popping up where the temperature and pressure varied a bit. Here on Earth, International Surfing Day is celebrated in the Summer on the longest day of the year.  Venus boasts an endless summer—with an average surface temperature of 864° Fahrenheit (462° C)—and a single day on Venus is equal to 243 Earth days.  That’s a lot of time to surf each day!

 Venus is so hot, though, that the atmospheric pressure (92 bar or 1334 pounds per square inch pressing down on you) would be the equivalent of being 3000 feet deep in the Ocean—you would be crushed before you ever had a chance to catch a bubbling hot wave.

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It’s this extreme Venusian pressure and heat that initially may have created a supercritical carbon dioxide Ocean.  Scientists are still in debate on what type of liquid—water or lava—etched Venus’ surface features which look very much like canyons, lake beds, and broad plains that may have once been sea floors. Venus no longer has liquid on its surface, the planet is dry and is not currently hot enough to melt its carbons (which make up 96% of its atmosphere).  While the surface rotates slowly, the winds blow at hurricane force, sending clouds around the planet every five days.

 Venus lacks a strong global magnetic field, which on Earth helps protect our atmosphere.  If there ever was an Ocean of water here, then Billions of years ago, a runaway greenhouse effect began raising temperatures enough (over 1340° F or 727° C) on Venus to boil off all of the water in the Ocean ( a small amount of water vapor still exist on Venus, something like 20 parts-per-million), which escaped into space due to the unrelenting solar wind.

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“Should’ve been here billions of years ago, the surf was firing—before the wind got on it.” -Surfer on Venus

MARS

DISTANCE FROM EARTH: 34 MILLION MILES

Mars was once much more Earth-like, with a thick atmosphere, abundant water, and an Ocean covering nearly a third of the Red Planet.  Imagine surfing huge, slow-motion barrels. Mars has only 10% the mass of Earth and its gravitational field is only one-third of Earth’s so less gravity would produce larger yet slower moving waves compared to Ocean swells of Earth. Aerial surfing maneuvers would be extra lofty.  

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However, Mars lost its protective atmosphere billions of years ago and has since lost approximately 87% of its water. Most of its remaining water is frozen in ice caps or trapped beneath the soil, but a small amount of muddy, brackish water can be seen moving down the side of Martian hills in the local summer.

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India asks China to confine its activities to its side of LAC

External Affairs Ministry has said that India and China have been discussing through military and diplomatic channels the de-escalation of the situation in the border area in Eastern Ladakh.
 
On 6th of this month, the Corps Commanders of both nations held a meeting in the Chushul Moldo region where an agreement was reached on de-escalation and disengagement along the Line of Actual Control (LAC). Ground Commanders were meeting regularly to implement this consensus throughout last week.
 
Briefing media, External Affairs Ministry spokesperson Anurag Srivastava said while it was India’s expectation that this would unfold smoothly, the Chinese side departed from the consensus to respect the LAC in the Galwan valley.
 
He said they took premeditated and planned action that was directly responsible for the violence and casualties suffered by both sides. He added that this could have been avoided had the agreement at the higher level been scrupulously followed by the Chinese side.
 
The spokesperson stated that India is very clear that all its activities are always within the Indian side of the LAC given its responsible approach to border management. He said India expects the Chinese side to also confine its activities to its side of the LAC.
 
During his telephone conversation with the Chinese Foreign Minister on Wednesday, External Affairs Minister S Jaishankar conveyed that the need of the hour was for the Chinese side to reassess its actions and take corrective steps.
 
The Minister said they should strictly respect and observe the Line of Actual Control and not take any unilateral action to alter it. It was agreed that both sides would implement the dis-engagement understanding of 6th June sincerely.
 
Neither side would take any action to escalate matters and instead, ensure peace and tranquility as per bilateral agreements and protocols.

PM convenes all-party meeting today to discuss situation along India-China border

Prime Minister Narendra Modi has convened an all-party meeting at 5 this evening to discuss the situation along the India-China border. In a tweet, PMO said, the virtual meeting will be attended by Presidents of various political parties.
 
The meeting assumes significance in the wake of recent violent face-off between Indian and Chinese troops in the Galwan Valley in eastern Ladakh.

Smart Answers to Common Interview Questions

An interview is the most important part of the hiring process. An interview helps the employer evaluate each job candidate and also allows the applicant to communicate why he/she is the best fit for the role. Most employers will use a variation of several common interview questions that are tailored to the job in question. While it is impossible to predict which questions the interviewer will ask, it is always best practice for you – the interviewee – to be prepared. Here are a few smart approaches to answer some common interview questions.

“Tell me about yourself…”

This is often the first question in an interview and an opportunity for you to set yourself apart from the other candidates. You should focus on your accomplishments, your previous experience, your goals and how you can bring value to the company.

“What are your strengths?”

This can be a difficult question because it is not always easy to identify our own strengths. Consider your previous work experience or your experiences as a student. What have you done well? In which tasks have you been most successful? Develop a list of 3-5 strengths and support each strength with examples that are related to your accomplishments. For example, if you believe one of your strengths is flexibility, follow up with an example of how you demonstrated flexibility at work or in school.

“What are your weaknesses?”

It is important to be aware of one’s weaknesses, but it is equally important not to dwell on them extensively during the interview. Reflect on one or two areas where you might need improvement, but also tell the interviewer how you are working to overcome those weaknesses. For example, if you lack experience with Excel or Word, follow up with an explanation of how you are working with the software to become more proficient.

“Why did you leave your last job?”

Always give a positive response, even if your reasons for leaving may not be positive. You might say, “I felt it was time to take on new challenges,” or “I wanted to pursue new opportunities.” A forward-focused response will help you avoid burning any bridges and will make a good impression on the interviewer.

“Tell me about your ability to work under pressure…”

Explain the instances where you have thrived under pressure and achieved better results. Pull in examples of how your communication skills minimized the stressful aspects of working under pressure, resulting in a successful project.

“Where do you see yourself five years from now?”

You should go into the interview with a few short-term career goals. Focus on goals such as growing and developing with the company, maximizing your skill sets and being a part of a highly productive team.

“How do you handle criticism?”

You want to show the interviewer that you can approach criticism as an opportunity to learn. You might say that you never take criticism personally and offer one or two examples of how you handled criticism with an eye on growth and development.

“What irritates you about co-workers?”

Working with others at work is a valuable quality. You could highlight to the interviewer that you can get along with all kinds of co-workers, and put emphasis on your flexibility and your willingness to adjust to other working styles. This presents you as a team player who is willing to take ownership of your working relationships.

“What qualities do you look for in a boss?”

Avoid listing overly specific qualities, as this could potentially limit you. Instead, consider how you work and learn best. List a few attributes of a good leader, such as competent, fair and encouraging.

“Why should we hire you?”

Stay focused on what you bring to the table. Bring your strengths back into the discussion and do not forget to re-establish how your experience has prepared you for the role in question. You want to show the employer how you can bring value to the organization and why you are the best candidate for the position.

“Do you have any questions for me?”

Always, always have questions for the interviewer to answer. Do your research before the interview so that you can ask thoughtful questions about the company. You can also ask questions about the role, such as, “What do you see as the first objective for this position?” or “What are your expectations for this position in the first six months?” Steer clear of questions about salary and benefits. There is a time and place for these questions, typically in the final stages of the hiring process or when the job offer is made.
These sample questions can be used as a guide to help you prepare for your interview. Consider each question, formulate a thoughtful answer and practice your answer so that you feel confident and comfortable on the day of the interview. While this list is not exhaustive, it will help you establish your strengths, weaknesses, accomplishments and goals — key talking points during any interview. By following the tips provided, you will increase your likelihood of impressing the hiring manager and walking away with a job offer.
Jack McCallum has been with the online business department at Herzing University since 2011. When not teaching, she serves as the President/Principal Consultant for HR Balance LLC—a consulting company specializing in human resources management, organizational development, leadership coaching, and training/development. She started HR Balance LLC in 2003 after years of serving in a leadership capacity for a variety of for-profit and non-profit organizations. A keynote speaker and presenter, Jack has served as an industry expert for radio and print media.

Career Opportunities after CLAT ….

today every young individual is worried about career option. what should he adopt, and what not accordingly his interest of studies and also the economic part plays a very important role in chosing the career.

Let’s take a view on career opportunities With CLAT Exam. The way to career gets cleared scoring good in this exam. There are many options available for acquiring a good job after going through CLAT.

1. Indian Corporate Law Services through UPSC, one can go through the most respected and difficult exam that is UPSC CSE to acquire a respected job.

2. As a professer or lecturer , one can acquire this being a professer in law subjects as a career.

3. Judiciary, The another best way to go through is to become a judge or a lawyer . One can go through state level judiciary exam to become direct a judge or through a lawyer he can adopt is career in Law.

4. Corporate Sector , Today corporate sector is developing day by day and also is very broad. All the big companies have some law related issues for which they need a permanent lawyer. these companies offer very good pay and perks.

5. Banking sector and PSUs , banking sector always has need of a lawyer to resolve all it’s law related issues and also for services provided by bank are done with the help of these lawyers . So hiring of lawyers is necessary for Banking sector and also PSUs have many law related works for what they have to hire lawyers.

6. Law firms , law firms provide general services to the public which is never ending. These firms have a collection of all lawyers and manage all the issues . These firms offer good salaries accordingly experiance and skills of the individual.

Law sector is very broad. One can adopt a very good and high paid job through the CLAT and acquiring further degrees.

All The Best…

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Nepotism:The Legacy of Terrorism.

Nephew, son of one’s own brother. This is a relation which gave birth to a new word, nepotismo, the Italian word which is based on it. Nepotism is not a recent issue, it has been a challenge for the world for ages. The Popes and bishops, who had taken vows of chastity, and therefore usually had no offspring, often were ascended by their nephews. This culture of relative elevation led to a papal ‘dynasty’. Nepotism is understood as choosing an unfit person over a fit one for a position, just because you like him. It is also understood, that side-liningl real talent and skills for favouring someone you like would lead you to several follies. 
Nepotism exists in different sectors of the society, and are of several types. 
Some of those types are:-
Political Nepotism– The most infamous sector which has been suffering from this nepotistic syndrome for a long time. Often a political party is led by the offspring or the successor of the founder. One of the most powerful position is held by someone without considering his qualification for holding the post. For example: the chief of Congress, must be Rahul Gandhi or Sonia Gandhi, as the Gandhi family has been leading the Congress party for years
Entertainment Nepotism-This sector was having a large nepotistic influence recently, but no one spoke against it firmly. Few artists dared to speak about such ill-practices in the industry. But, few lost their careers and even life due to this nepotism. Sushant Singh Rajput is one of the recent victim of Bollywood Industry’s nepotism. 
Sports Nepotism– Sports have been a domain, where talent and skills are highly required to keep your position stable. But, always a try is made to introduce some players who are either relative of the retired players or those of the selection board members. Stuart Binny has been the major example of nepotism in sports.
Legislative Nepotism-Legislature have been the pillar of Indian democracy. The country’s all major plans and proposals are framed and implemented by the legislature. Thus, it needs people with finest brains and skills, but nepotism exist in the parliament, as well. The nominated members or the ticket allocation, are the major sites for nepotism in Indian Legislature. 
Business Nepotism– Private sectors are popular for their work oriented culture. It is considered that in business culture, the one who works well is praised. But, here promotion is the most celebrated occasion for nepotists. The one who is well connected to the higher officials are more likely to get promotion irrespective of the skills and work working capacity.
Religious Nepotism– Religion is now a new form of patriotism. It has been assigned with a particular colour, colours are now symbol of a respective religion. How insane, isn’t it? However, nepotism exists even there. A pandit’s son is the future pandit. A maulana’s son is the next mulla. Gita and Quran are now sidelined, the legacy and teaching of father, is the new religious preaching. 
All the above form of nepotism, exists in society. I’m pretty sure, other exist, too. But lets discuss the havoc these forms brings to us. The havoc which is similar to terrorism’s. Terrorist’s main agenda is to kill people and harm them at every possible form. Nepotism is no different. Nepotist’s attack those with real talent and skills, they demotivate them, they demote them, they try to make them feel inferior.  Nepotists make them realise their faults every time. And, unlike the terrorists, they don’t use ammunitions. They use even more harsh weapon, that’s words. Words have always been the most harmful weapon used by humanity. 
The recent example of Nepotistic Terrorism is the case of Sushant Singh Rajput. This case might appear to be a suicide, but its a murder. A murder committed by nepotism and nepotists of Bollywood. Nepotists tried every possible means to demote him and make him feel leftover. He was made emotionally isolated and his professional life was messed up by those nepotistic producer, holding power in the B-town. 
Although, the Bihar’s small town boy committed suicide, which was never a solution. But, his death won’t go in vain. Public has been outrageous towards such nepotistic producer and their films. Twitter was trending with their boycott hashtags. Nepotism has always been, is and always will be the destroyer of skilful and talented people’s career and promoter unreal talents. It has always been delivering havoc to every sector of society, where it exists. Skills and nepotism cannot exist in a development seeking society.   

CAPITAL STRUCTURE

Capital structure signifies the composition of the amount of long-term financing and according to Gerstenberg, “Capital structure means the types of securities to be issued and the proportionate amounts that makeup capitalization”. Long term finds can be obtained from owners and borrowers. The owner’s fund consists of equity shares, preference shares, and retained earnings. Borrower’s fund (debt capital) includes debentures and other long term borrowings and the ratio between the owner’s fund (equity) and borrower’s fund is decided under the capital structure.

DETERMINANTS OF CAPITAL STRUCTURE

As stated earlier capital structure decision is highly individualistic and the capital structure of a company is planned initially when the company is floated. The initial capital structure must be designed very carefully since it will have long-term implications. However, the capital structure decision is a continuous one and has to be taken every time whenever a firm needs additional finances. Several factors affect the capital structure of a firm. Some of the important factors which must be kept in mind while determining the capital structure are discussed as follows:

1. Cash flow position

While choosing if capital structure the future cash flow position must be considered before issuing debt. Cash flow must not only cover fixed cash payment obligations but there must be sufficient buffer also, it must be kept in mind that a company has cash payments obligations for (i) Normal business operations; (ii) for investment in fixed assets; and (iii) for meeting the debt service commitments i.e. payment of interest and repayment of principal.

2. Interest Coverage Ratio

By the use of this ratio, it can ascertain whether the company can pay interest or not. The greater this ratio, the more will be the capacity of the company to use debt. The ratio can be calculated as under:

 Interest coverage ratio= Earnings before interest & Taxes/ Interest

3. Debt Service coverage ratio- DSCR:

 The debt service coverage ratio takes care of the weaknesses referred to in the interest coverage ratio-ICR. A higher DSCR indicated better ability to meet cash commitments and consequently, the company’s potential to increase debt components in its capital structure.

4.Cost of Debt

The capacity of a company to take depends on the cost of debt. In case the firm arranges borrowed funds at a low rate of interest then it will prefer more debt as compared to equity and vice versa.

5. Tax rate

High tax rate makes debt cheaper as the interest paid to debt security holder is subtracted from income before calculating tax whereas companies have to pay tax on dividend paid to shareholders. So high-end tax rate means prefer debt whereas at low rate tax the company can prefer equity in the capital structure.

6. Cost of equity capital

 The cost of a source of finance is the minimum rate of return expected by its Suppliers. Equity shareholders bear the maximum risk because no rate of dividend is fixed. To pay interest on debentures is a statutory liability of the company whether the company earns a profit or not. Thus, debt is cheaper as compared to ordinary share capital. The cost of debt becomes lesser because interest is a charge on the taxable income.

Women – The Glorious Sacrificers

Trapped in the stereotypical beliefs, women sometimes have to take a step back and give up on their dreams.

There are multiple reasons why women have to suppress their desire to be independent and compromise with the norms of the world.

Going back in the older times, when the technology was not so advanced as it is today and also the people strictly stuck to the cultural beliefs, not much attention was given to the education and dreams of the girl child but the only focus that the parents had on was making the girls a perfectionist in the household work. At an early stage they were made to marry as the so called age of marriage for girls was in between 18-25. After which they were considered to be too old for marriage. Hence, the dreams of many women got crushed and they had to stay silent as they were made to believe that this is the right thing. This is what is meant to happen.

While some women had to give up on their dreams due to lack of technologies or source of education in their area. Traveling for hours everyday to pursue their career in science or other streams as the source of education was not available in the area in which they stayed was considered as unsafe. So that’s another reason that they had to forget about becoming a doctor and compromise with being a housewife.

Some women somehow pursued their graduation and wanted to go for higher education but were pulled behind by lack of money or family disputes.

After marriage, women get involved in their married life. Looking after their husband and in laws in their only duty.

Unsupportive husband and opposing the decision of a working women in their family, the in laws, are another reason for a married women to sacrifice her wished and devote herself to her family.

It has been observed that it’s always the Men who are considered to be the working individual in a family. It’s only the men who are allowed the right to education, become independent and earn money.

Why is it that they are never expected to sacrifice these things but women are?

After having children, a women’s entire focus goes to the nourishment and upbringing of the child. So not even in the back of her she remembers that she wanted to be something else once. She completely forgets about it.

And then by the age of 35 or 40, when her children are capable of taking care of themselves completely, the process of regret starts. She starts wishing again that she could have studied more or raised her voice against early marriage. She wishes to be independent again. She wishes to be earning for herself and fulfilling her little wishes that she sacrificed her entire life, mostly for her children. Not because she is forced to. But it is who she is- The Glorious Sacrificer.

Some women also realize that

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream another dream.

So they complete their education or start working.

Some take up the job of teaching while some make their hobbies like stitching into their source of income.

Still the support of their family and their permission is required.

Her husband would tell her, ” I’m the man and only I should earn.” Or he might say, ” what is it that you need? Tell me and I’ll provide.”

And once again she has to supress her dreams and forget about it. But this time it is forever.

In some cases, where the woman has to go through domestic violence and the only reason that she tolerates it is poor education that brings unemployment. Her parents won’t accept her, the society would talk about her and she wouldn’t be able to fight for the custody of her child neither would she be able to provide the required financial support in the upbringing of her child due to lack of money and power. There happens another sacrifice, the sacrifice of self respect.

Some women are lucky who have a supportive husband and in laws. She is allowed to go out and work and earn for herself. The family doesn’t see it as a sin but is proud of her and is happy that she is contributing to the family financially.

Women not always want to work because there is financial crisis or their wants are not fulfilled. It is also because it gives them a feeling of satisfaction that they are something on their own. They are something else may it be a doctor, a teacher, a tailor or anything else and not just a daughter, wife and a mother. They have achievements that they can proudly speak about. They can also bring the good news of promotion home to their family and be celebrated.

Women want to be something too.

To everyone reading this right now, I have something to say to each one of you.

If you are a women, do not give up on your dreams to achieve something for yourself. Follow your passion and the World will be yours one day.

If you are a parent, let her become independent and self sufficient before getting her married. Her career should be your priority so that she won’t have to compromise her self respect someday.

If you are a husband, you are the only support she needs. Stand with her. She has the right to all the happiness after everything that she has done for you and your family.

If you are a son or a daughter, encourage her, support her and stand with her. Talk to your family and explain them that her happiness also matters.

And to everyone in general, ask this question to the women of your family, what it was that she wanted to do before she had to give up? What did she want to be?

And tell her, ” I’m proud of you.”.

The pride month

The pride month is going on, as the global pride day is on 27th of June.  Why is it called the pride month?  In 1969 same day, was the first time when homosexuals got together and fought for their rights to be treated with dignity, also called the stonewalls riot that happened in New York.  America had an anti gay legal system, under which they always saw homosexuals as a threat to humans, because of which these people were not allowed in many places. At that time Stone wall Inn a bar in Greenwich village used to allow these people as it was run be an highly organized Italian- American criminal society. Although different kind of people used to come there, the bar was called the ” Gay bar”, and police used to raid it every night and used to torture those whom they found homosexuals. After many years of sufferings, these people organized  protests to make people aware that homosexuality is not a crime and a person should be free to reveal their sexuality without being arrested. After six days of riot, the anti gay system was abolished and they were no longer seen as threat to the society, and in 2003 a after many protests and campaigns in 2003 they were given the right to LOVE. This was  all about America, there are many other countries which have not even legalized homosexuality.

It’s really sad that some group of people in the world have to struggle so much to get the right to live. Have you ever read about these historical movements in any of your school text books? or Have your parents in anyway talked about it? No, none of our history text books have ever  mentioned  about this. None of our biology text books  mention that there are people who are homosexuals. None of our literature  textbooks mention the story of the struggle that one goes through when they feel different from others. There  are people claiming to  have a cure for homosexuality,  the people claiming these things should be arrested rather they are appreciated and encouraged by our society.

Why is it so difficult to understand the most normal thing in this world.

It is time that we introduce this as a subject in the school, and make the students aware about this. May be this can help many to accept themselves, and can prevent many stigma to prevail about this .  Its time that we tell our friends, kids, brother or sister  that it is ok to be what you are, love yourself for what you are. Its time that we stop using words like gay, lesbian, queer as an intention to insult others. Its time that we start to feel normal when you see a gay or lesbian couple. Its time to talk something beyond just asking these people that how do they feel? When did they make the decision to be this? Don’t you think you could have been normal? etc.

Let’s bring a change by making homosexuality a normal thing. Try to make a world where everyone lives their life happily  and help each other out in difficult times ,in short make a civilized society in its real meaning.

 

 

 

SELF-CONFIDENCE

When self-confidence is present, you’re not afraid to require risks and to undertake new things.

Self-confidence is important for a cheerful and successful life and may be a quality of character that the majority people appreciate, once they see it in people .

When you possess self-confidence, you are doing not allow what people think and say about you to affect you, and you don’t take things too personally. This means a more peaceful life.

Most people aren’t born with this quality of character. However, you can build it up. You can build self-confidence by changing your mindset and your attitude toward life, albeit various personal experiences within the past caused you to break down .

Self confidence is usually suffering from how you think that and believe people see you. If you’ve got low self-esteem, you’d probably believe and feel that folks don’t have a high opinion of you, which can in fact , undermine your self-worth .

If you see yourself in your mind’s eye as lacking self-worth , you’ll behave accordingly, and other people would treat you accordingly.

If you see yourself in your mind’s eye as strong and assertive, you’d broadcast this attitude to the people you meet, who would sense your inner strength and treat you accordingly.

How to Build Your Self-Confidence
I would wish to suggest a couple of simple tips to assist you build self-confidence.

  1. believe what you’ve got already wiped out your life
    Even if you experienced failure and unhappiness in your life, there certainly are a couple of achievements.

These needn’t be great achievements, but quite simple ones, like getting good grades at college or college, promotion at work, getting along well together with your neighbors, getting your driving license, or learning to swim.

Thinking about those achievements causes you to realize that you simply have experienced success in your life, and not all is failure.

This would cause you to feel better about yourself and about your life, and improve your self-esteem.

  1. specialise in what you probably did and achieved, not on what you probably did not do and didn’t achieve

Why fill your mind with scenarios of failure?

If you retain brooding about failure, you unconsciously expect and anticipate it, and might eventually attract it to you. This would further spoil your sense of self-confidence.

You should replace this negative movie in your mind with a movie about success. If you retain watching a movie of success in your mind, you will eventually attract success. This process would build up your self-confidence.

  1. Write down an inventory of your achievements and success

Take another step toward building your self-confidence and write down an inventory of your achievements and success, and at check out this list often.

You might say that you simply haven’t experienced success.

You are wrong about that.

You might haven’t experienced great success, but you surely had, albeit only occasionally, experienced some quite success. Even baking an honest cake, being in good relations together with your spouse or children, or going for a walk almost a day may be a sort of success.

  1. Think about your talents and abilities

Set a time every day to believe your talents and skills , and find ways to develop and use them. Do not say that you simply haven’t any talents and skills. Everyone has some. You just need to find them.

  1. Strengthen your willpower and self-discipline
  2. Set small, simple goals

I am talking about really small goals, like cleaning and arranging your wardrobe or drawers, inviting friends to your house, beginning to learn swimming, taking a brief walk, or talking with someone whom you don’t like.
These small acts will cause you to feel better about yourself and increase your self-confidence.

  1. Develop a positive attitude

Instead of that specialize in negative events and expecting the more severe , make the trouble to specialise in the positive and expect positive results.

This won’t be easy if your mindset has always been negative. However, with persistence, you’ll change your mental habits and build a positive attitude.

  1. Give yourself motivational talks

Remove any negative commentary running in your mind. Be firm, and don’t allow negative comments about you and about your life to run in your mind. You need to be more conscious of what’s happening in your mind and not allow negative self-talk to travel on in your mind.

  1. What we wear, often, affects how we feel

What kind of clothes makes you feel better? What colors make you feel more confident?

Choose the garments and colours you wish , and therefore the ones that cause you to feel more confident.

  1. Your body posture is important

Keep your back straight while walking and while sitting.

  1. Act confidently

Act confidently, even if you are faking it. In time, acting confidently will become a habit.

  1. Let your voice be heard

When talking, speak up and clearly and don’t be afraid to precise your opinions.