Fragile inside & out.

Do you love both the sides of yourself? Or is it just a social obligation that you’re tending to maintain the same mask to the outer world. World is fragile and are you but where is the courtesy that is routing to your self worth each and every time you try to expose , put your actual self out there in the tough and robust world. People form families and live together to support one-another. Everyone is hyper-alert to one-another’s physical and mental well-being. Nothing is said; and nothing is done to darken the brighter mood of family and being together but it’s about the mask your wear here and the mask you wear before showing up to the outer world. Opening up to the world , showing who you really are , unleashing the true self of yours is way more peaceful than you lying about your own perceptions and mentalities Does it increase their subjective of well being? The answer is no, it does not, or not nearly as much as you expect. And here many of us have this sort of stern sadness. basically, most of the direction you’re going, with how you’re putting energy into things, what you’re applying for, what you’re stressing about, all that stuff, is just the wrong direction. Or maybe a more coarsey version of this is you are clueless about what is going to make you happy. Maybe your happiness just genetically set, and you just can’t change it around. Maybe you’re either a glass half empty person or glass half full person, and that’s it. Nobody guarantees you a set of happy hours about you crack opening your insecure shell in the society but it does give you sigh of reliefs abundantly. Genetically we’re just set, we can’t change it. Second is, life circumstances matter so much it trumps everything else or somehow the life circumstances balance out. Sometimes our mind delivers to us stuff that’s just like, factually incorrect. The key is that sometimes, even outside of vision, we’re getting these intuitions that our mind is delivering to us with full force, like that’s the right answer, that’s what’s going to make us happy, but it is just wrong.The “sometimes” what we’re labeling or addressing it to can differ at times , not everybody is very subjective about knowing your authentic self they rather prefer to adjust with the phony personality you maintain for the eyes and perceptions of society and its satisfaction. Particularly, people’s life circumstances where there’s been some sort of train wreck, for lack of a better term. Really terrible things happen, you become paraplegic , and that totally has nothing to do with you having your life happily made by showing your “once and for all” face to the world.