ATTENTION! ATTENTION!
Talk : Doesn’t this word look simple, but the simpler it looks, the more difficult it is for people to talk.
No matter however good you are in manifesting and expressing your feelings but at times, depression and stress makes it difficult for us to express and convey our emotions to others. No matter how pleasant we seem from outside, but the further you cover the more difficulties you encounter when you talk to others. That is why it is unquestionably very important to communicate and let others know about your thoughts and sentiments.
Reasons for not talking to about:
Due to their social atmosphere, some refuse to communicate only because of their family pressures, others withhold feelings from their emotions that destroy their livelihood in the future.Some couldn’t talk because of their previous experience where they were rejected or ignored or being judged either by partner friends or any family member which makes them more cautious about opening up in future. Whereas in some cases people afraid to talk because they are scared of accepting their fears or accepting themselves which indirectly will stop them to confront to others.Some worry that people may think they ‘re weird and leave them out. Some fear that they’ll be treated differently or targeted after opening up so that they don’t talk about their mental health or feelings. Some worry that people may spread rumors and use them as an advantage or make a lot of it..
As its old saying that ‘ A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALVED!’
The longer they hold their feelings hidden, the more they accept all of their body’s detrimental consequences that destroy their physical and emotional mental wellbeing.And then in such negative thoughts they start going through depressions which slowly makes it more worse by welcoming suicidal thoughts.So instead of ruminating the problems n our head for too long and making it worse , people should start working on them.
So thats why its very important for all of us to talk to communicate to open up to people. It helps us to gain perspective and find solutions which would have been more difficult by stressing on that alone. Just only by sharing we provide solutions to our problems and demonstrate how positive and beneficial it is to speak up. And the more we communicate the more we become less lonely and also that will make us feel like in this case you have somebody supporting you and will always want and support you and deter you from feeling alone.
Guidelines on how to talk or free yourself:
• Choose the right person with whom you are able to open up freely :
There are a lot of people who are surrounded by a lot of friends, but still alone inside, still lacking to find a person who can understand them. So instead of having an irrelevant company of friends, have somebody who actually understands you and acknowledges you.
• Be clear and concise on whats going on your mind :
People are depressed sometimes, because they don’t know what’s disturbing them. They ‘re not clear about their own thoughts, either. But if you overthink things with the pessimistic, you have to try to identify the underlying cause and by diagnosing their feelings, suggestions on paper on what they actually know can be really beneficial for those who genuinely struggle to talk to.
• IIf you don’t feel comfortable talking to your loved one, you can easily talk to someone who doesn’t know you, but who’s able to acknowledge you, such as a therapist or a psychologist: they make a major contribution to ones life.They will guide you in such way that will actually make you feel comfort.And it’s not at all wrong to visit them, as some also worry that others will criticize you or make fun of you. It’s just for your inner and mental peace, and to get your life back to normal.
• Be honest to yourself first:
If you don’t recognize your own vulnerabilities, worries, feelings, desires, it’s going to be much tougher to talk about all this to someone.
• Connect with family and friends more:
If things are troubling you in your mind start spending more quality time with your family or friends and interact about everyday topics. It will make you feel more free in opening up too.
• Opening up physically:
I know this might sound wrong, but sometimes it can actually help you with your partner verbally. By taking a deep breath holding up or stretching your chest or even doing relaxing yoga, all of these will help you to relax your mind and remove all fears and help you to open up.
How to help someone to talk:
• Be a good listener:
Even having that one, they still find it difficult to communicate in fear of being judged. Yes, it was JUDGED!!! We all want someone who just needs to listen to us on whatever we’re expressing our thoughts on our feelings without judging the others or giving them their opinion on closing them down. But most people are begin to respond and suggest them instead of understanding them.
• Choose the right time to talk to:
It you feel your partner or friend is going through some difficult times and not opening up to you for the same then choose a proper timing where he is relaxed and comfortable talking to you for the same.
• Share your own feelings:
Try opening up with your partner about their own feelings and struggles which will make them feel safe and strong to talk to you for the same.
• Do another bonding activity:
Do something different and enjoyable together, where your partner or friend will be willing to adjust them. Such an experience would concentrate not just on talking, but also on communicating and building a good connection.











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