Friendship is not about being inseparable, it is being separated but still nothing changes. When we spend time with friends we didn’t know that we are making memories we just thought we were having fun.

Missing our friend keeps us awake more than a tea or a coffee. If I write a single word for every time I think of you, I’m sure I would complete writing a book. Being your friend was the best choice I have ever made.

Friendship is the most unplanned thing on the face of this marble called earth. Life is full of surprises and one of them is finding the one best friend for you, in the most unexpected manner, and I found it.

A best friend can be found in unexpected places. Sometimes we go out in search of something and finally end up with what we are supposed to have. That is how I got you in my life.

A friend comes to you just at the right time, the time you never thought. Friendship is very hard to define, it is not something you learn in school or college but if you haven’t learnt the meaning of friendship, then you really haven’t learnt anything.

Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friend we choose. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of friendship. Find a person who challenge and inspire you, spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life…

You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consist of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life. There is nothing like deep breath after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reason.

Happiness is not something ready made. Sometimes it comes from your own action. Stop counting your life by tears and start counting it by your smile.

They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do and something to hope for but take responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in hands of other people.

You can’t protect yourself from sadness without losing yourself in happiness because no medicine cures what happiness cannot. Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries and grudges.

Life is too short too be unhappy. Be grateful to the people who make you happy, there are the charming gardeners who make your souls blossom.

Success is getting what you want but happiness is wanting what you get. Stop comparing yourself to other people, just choose to be happy and live your own life. The best way to stay happy is to make others happy. Do not set aside your happiness. Do not wait to be happy in the future. The best time to he happy is always now.

If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in present…

There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that weeds. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Tears shed for another person are not a sign of weakness. They are the sign of a pure heart and the pain that it holds.

Some old wounds never truly heal and bleed again at the slightest words. Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear.

The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden. It is easy to say” My tooth is aching” than to say” My heart is broken”. Mostly the pain you feel now is the happiness you made before.

Waiting hurts. Forgetting also hurts. But not knowing which decision to take can sometimes be the most painful.

When you compare the pain of real life to the pleasure of the imaginary one, you will never want to live again, only to dream forever. If you can learn to endure pain, you can survive anything ,some people learn to embrace it to love it.

Some endure it through drawing it in source or by making themselves forget, others turn it into anger. Pain is only what you allow it to be. Just like there is always time for pain, there is always time for healing.

You can take pain and turn it into something beautiful, into something that people connect to. And that is what good music does. It speaks to you . It changes you.

Time doesn’t heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go. Our pains are the openings of the best and most beautiful part of us.

In times of stress, the best thing you can do for yourself is to listen with your ears and heart and to be assured that your questions are just as important as your answers.

Nothing is worth diminishing your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety and fear. Just when you feel you have no time to relax, know that this is the moment you most need to make time to relax.

The mind can go either directions under stress: towards positive or negative. Think of it like a spectrum whose extremes are unconsciousness at the negative end and hyper consciousness at the positive ends.

The way the mind will learn under stress is strongly influenced by training. Your body needs laughter of stress. The biggest enemy of willpower is stress. Self awareness, self care and remembering what matters most these three skills are the foundation for self control.

Your stress, anxieties, pains and problems arise because you don’t see the world, others or even yourself as worthy of love. Behind under stress is like being stranded in a body of water. If you panic,it will cause you to flail around so that the water rushes into your lungs and create further distress. Yet , by calmly collecting yourself and using controlled breathing you remain float with ease.

Stress is the trash of modern life ,we all generate it but if you don’t dispose of it properly, it will pile up and overtake your life…

Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on it their lives, they would not have the time to sit around and talk about you.

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What is important to you is not others opinions of you but what is important to you is your opinion of yourself. Live the life of your dreams.

When you start living the life of your dreams, there will always be obstacles, doubters, mistakes and set backs along the way. But with hard work, perseverance and self belief there is no limit to what you can achieve.

Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution. If you think you can then you really can.

Everyone benefits from someone believing in them, because it helps them to believe in themselves but it doesn’t matter if thousands of people believe in you , unless you believe in you.

Until you believe in yourself nothing will be ,but the moment you believe in yourself everything will be. Your self belief is the magic mantra to get the strength to chase your dreams.

Lack of self confidence holds more people back than lack of opportunities. If you believe in yourself then you can do the impossible things possible.

There is more good in you than anything else. And you don’t see that because you are seeing everything else. To believe in one’s self is to take a worthwhile risk. The easiest way of making others believe in you is by believing in yourself.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF…

He who has a why to live for, can bear almost any how. You can easily judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers. The scientist is not a person who gives the right answer, he is one who asks the right questions.

Life is filled with unanswered questions, but it is the courage to seek those answers that continues to give meaning to life. You would rather have questions that can’t be answered than answers that can’t be questioned.

Courage does not happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.

Never give up on someone, sometimes the answers you are looking for are the same answers another person is looking for. Two people searching together are always better than one person alone.

Question are great but only if you know the answers . If you ask questions and the answers suprise you, you look silly. The wilderness holds answers to more questions that we have yet learned to ask.

Good books make you ask questions but bad readers want everything to be answered. There are no foolish questions and no man becomes a fool until he has stopped questioning. The most important questions in life can never be answered by anyone except oneself and that is you.

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At the end of the day, the questions we ask for ourselves determine the type of person that we will become. There are some questions that should not asked until a person is mature enough to appreciate the answers. Wait for the right person and right time…

The only limits in your life are those you impose on ourselves. You can never read all the books you want. You can never be all the people you want and live all the lives you have. You can never train yourself in all the skills you want but you want to live and feel all the shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in your limit.

Belive in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself. You are worthy of all that you dream of and hope for.

When you reach for the stars, you are reaching for the farthest thing out there. When you reach deep into yourself, it is the same thing, but in the opposite direction. If you reach in both directions ,you will have spanned the universe.

If you spend your life concentrating on what everyone else would think of you ,you will forget who you really were and the face you show to this world turns out to be a mask with nothing beneath it.

Your personal thoughts close off or open up your reality. Make a conscious choice to change the way you think. Your reality will then become limitless. A limit on what you will do, puts a limit on what you can do. When you choose to have limits ,you limit yourself for growth, knowledge and experience.

Everyday try to push your limits. Do this for small tasks and for your bigger long term goals. Develop the growth mindset ,everyone’s time is limited.

What matters most is to focus on what matters most. The number of ways to live in our lifetime is limitless. As the sun knows even the sky is not the limit.

Peace begins when expectation ends. Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are. I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine.

You are your own worst enemy. If you can learn to stop expecting impossible perfection, in yourself and in others, you may find happiness. Don’t swim in the sea of others expectation.

Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitments and respect because a wonderful gift may not be wrapped as you expect. The pretty once are usually unhappy. They expect everyone to be enameled of their beauty. You can’t be content when your happiness lies in someone else’s hands.So don’t give your happiness in others hands in the name of expectation.

It is good when all you have is hope and not expectation. The fruit of expectation is more bitter than the saddest truth. The key in letting go is practice . Each time you let go, you stop expecting and start accepting things as they are.

Expect more from yourself than from others because expectation from others will just hurt you. Don’t blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them. Life is easier when you stop expecting things to get better.

Sometimes we create our own heart breaks through expectation.

There are two ways to be happy : improve your reality, or lower your expectations.Choose one and lead a happy life…

Your dreams have footprints. They could be beautiful or they could be uneasy. Footprints get life only when you breathe them right. You breathe in the destiny and breathe out a plan hence giving life to footprints in front of you.

The footprints you left behind are so important that a right footprint you left behind could create a thousand more right footprints. If you have opened a very important path for humanity, all you have to do now is to protect your footprints.

Definitely some will doubt you but don’t doubt yourself. Surely some will hate you mission but don’t change your vision. Surely you shall meet obstacles but learn to overcome all obstacles. You may meet the rocks but climb the rocks,you shall feel the fresh air. Truly you shall hear so many things but know what to listen to. Surely some will misunderstand you but learn to understand yourself. You may definitely have so many things to do but mind what is more important.

There is no great journey without issues but learn to overcome all issues and get to the end of the journey with distinctive footprint and a good sense of fulfillment. Sometimes even a thousand waves hitting the shore continually one after the other also can’t erase few footprints on the shore.

Studying the footprints on existing roads enables you to create a new path with fulfillment expectation.

We walk on the moon. We made footprints somewhere no one else had ever made footprints and unless someone comes and rubs then out, those footprints will be there forever because there is no air.

I think that is what we all want, in the end, to know that we left footprints. You were for a purpose! Live it ! Love it ! Achieve it ! And don’t forget to make your footprints…

Your love grows stronger when it is among rocks and thorns of life. Love speaks in flowers but trust requires thorns because when petals fall off the stem ,only thorns try to catch them.

Some people are like thorns but you have to let them be thorns because thorns can’t turn into petals. The trick is not letting them prick you. A rose does not stop looking beautiful, because of the thorns around it , so never allow weakness to stop you from admiring your own strength.

If you don’t feel the pointed things in life, you will soon take the soft ones for granted. The more the thorns on the way are sharply pointed, the more intensely the fire burns for quenching the great destination.

This heart ,sometimes it is like a flower spreading fragrance but most of the times it is like thorns pricking you with your past memories and make you realise this heart is not made of flowers. Don’t always grumble because roses have thorns, be thankful that thorns have roses.

Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them. Not every thought is a flower, some are thorns but while a flower may make you fall asleep and too see dreams, a thorn will wake you up and make you to think more.

Pain is like a rose, it amazes you with it’s beauty untill and unless you don’t try to pluck it, it makes you bleed when you try to own it. Life is uncertain. Today you get a rose. Tomorrow you feel the thorns.

A life with love will have some thorns but a life without love will have no roses.

There is darkness in light, there is pain in joy and there are thorns on the rose. There is no rose without thorns and no life without pain, your thorns are the best part of you.

If you enjoy the fragrance of a rose, you must also accept the thorns with a smile and move on.

Challenges are meant to help you know who you are, they hit your weakness, but unlock your true strength. Always believe in yourself and always stretch yourself beyond your limits.

Your life is worth a lot more than you think because you are capable of accomplishing more than you know. You have more potential than you think but you will never know your full potential unless you challenging yourself and pushing beyond your self imposed limits.

Every challenge you face today makes you stronger tomorrow. The challenge of life is intended to make you better but not to make you bitter.

Finding the lesson behind every challenge will be the one important thing that helps get you through it. Life throws challenges on you not because you are playing games but because you must realise you are worth the extra effort.

Challenge is not always given by others, sometimes it is given by ourselves, whenever I think of something but can’t remember of what it was, I can’t stop thinking until I think ,I’m thinking of it again.

when you least expect it, life sets you a challenge to test your courage and willingness to change, at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that you are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait.

Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for you to decide whether or not to accept the Challenge. There are no negative in life, only challenge to overcome that will make you stronger.

Some fish love to swim up in stream likewise some people love to overcome challenges.

Being challenged in life is inevitably, being defeated is optional. It is your choice to be inevitably or to be optional.

Would ‘sorry’ have made any difference? Does it ever? It is just a word but one word against a thousand actions. Anyone is not perfect, we all make mistakes, we hurt people but when we say sorry ,we really mean it.

The art of a sincere and heartfelt apology is one of the greatest skills you will ever learn. When anger and bitterness overpower your goodness, you can neither apologize nor forgive.

Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other one is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego. If you apologize to your true relationship then you will never apologize for your apology because it is worth.

Apologies are great, they don’t really change anything when it is just a word instead it changes everything when it becomes action.

If an apology is followed by an excuse or reason, it means they are going to commit same mistake again they just apologized for, the only correct actions are those that demands no explanations.

“I’m sorry” is not just a word, it means take me back into your arms, hold me close tightly, feel my heavy breath , hold my hands and never leave me alone.

Never try to dominate the one who says sorry to you for their mistake because they understand that you are more important than their ego. Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you have never got.

Learn to apologize and also learn to accept apologies when it is sincerely made…

It is never too late to say a sorry… somebody is waiting for yours…

Live the life of your dreams. When you start living the life of your dreams,there will always be obstacles, doubters, mistakes and setback along the way , but with hard work , perseverance and self belief there is no limit to what you can achieve.

The three great things essential to achieve anything worthwhile are, first: hard work; second: stick to your dreams, third: common sense. Believe that talent means nothing, while experience, acquired in humility and with hard work, means everything.

The major difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra hard work. There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work and learning from failure. Success is not always about greatness , it is about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness comes automatically.

Don’t give up after sometimes of your hard work, perseverance is the hard work you have to do after getting tired of doing the hard work you already did. Hard work always pays off, whatever you do.

Everybody wants to become famous, but nobody wants to do hard work. At the end of the day ,you put all the hard work in and eventually it will pay off .It could be in a year, it could be in 30 years, but your hard work never fails.

It is wonderful how much may be done, if you keep on doing. The fruit of your own hard work is the most sweetest thing in this world. Wait for the right time to taste it…

We all start as strangers and sometimes we also end that way too. Strangers can become best friends just easily as best friends can become strangers.

It is weird how you go from being strangers, then friends, then more than friends and then strangers again.It is sad when friends become enemies but what is even more worst is when they become strangers.

It is sad how the people you were once, so close to each other ,can become just as another strange you don’t even know. As time goes by , things change and people also change.

Those you knew becomes strangers and those you did not know become your trusted once. Sometimes friends are the once becoming strangers, whom you thought would always be close to you.

When two people really get to know each other: their secrets, their fears, their favourite things, what they love , what they hate, literally everything about them but one day when people change everything changes , the saddest part is and then they go back to being strangers.

Wait for them…

Those who do not weep, do not see.Crying is all right in it’s way while it lasts.But you have to step sooner and then you have to decide what to do next. Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.

Laugh even when you feel too worn out or tired. Smile even when you are trying hard not to cry in front of others but still your tears are blurring your vision because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the person whom you are going to be in future.

When someone is crying, ofcourse, the noble thing to do is to comfort them. But if someone is trying to hide their tears, it may also be noble to pretend you do not notice them , because a good, long session of weeping can often make you feel better, even if your circumstances have not changed a bit.

When pain bring you down, don’t close your eyes and cry ,think that you are in the best position to see the sun shine. What makes you brave is your willingness to live through your terrible life and hold your head up high the next day.

The worst type of crying was not the kind, everyone could see the tears on the clothes but the worst kind happens when your soul weeps and no matter what you do, there is no way to comfort it .

When you feel like you need to cry , when you want to just get it out and remove some of the pressure from inside, that is true pain. Because no matter how hard you try, how bad you want to, you can’t . That pain just stays in the same place. Then, if you are lucky, one small tear may escape from those eyes that water constantly. That one tear , that tiny, salty, droplet of moisture is a means of escape. Although it is just a small tear, it is the heaviest thing in this world.

Do not apologize for crying, without this emotion we are only robots.