There is no definition of beauty, but when you can see someone’s spirit coming through, something unexplainable, that’s beautiful to me. …
Let us live for the beauty of our own reality.
One difficulty for understanding beauty is due to the fact that it has both objective and subjective aspects: it is seen as a property of things but also as depending on the emotional response of observers. Because of its subjective side, beauty is said to be “in the eye of the beholder”.
It has been argued that the ability on the side of the subject needed to perceive and judge beauty, sometimes referred to as the “sense of taste”, can be trained and that the verdicts of experts coincide in the long run.
This would suggest that the standards of validity of judgments of beauty are intersubjective, i.e. dependent on a group of judges, rather than fully subjective or fully objective.
Conceptions of beauty aim to capture what is essential to all beautiful things. Classical conceptions define beauty in terms of the relation between the beautiful object as a whole and its parts: the parts should stand in the right proportion to each other and thus compose an integrated harmonious whole. Hedonist conceptions see a necessary connection between pleasure and beauty, e.g. that for an object to be beautiful is for it to cause disinterested pleasure. Other conceptions include defining beautiful objects in terms of their value, of a loving attitude towards them or of their function.
Why we all always give more importance to our looks, is it really that important? is someone’s appearance is more important than his or her actual nature?
Why does people judge someone by their looks and come up with an conclusion based on someone’s external appearance without even knowing them. People forgot that the “appearance can be deceptive”. If someone is comfortable with simple cloths and no make-up look, if he or she love to live that way then why others are so curious about that. It doesn’t matter that, what we wear or how we look it is not gonna affect our talent anyways. Take of the mask and face yourself, looks or appearance can’t hide your true nature for longer. Remember we were born to be real not to be perfect, be yourself even if you live for a day.
Appearance valued to much in our society and on every point people will judge you based on your appearance but, don’t give many thoughts thinking what others will say, if I wore this or if I look like this, what will others say, peoples will gonna talk behind your back no matter what you do, how you look, they gonna criticize you all the time, just live on your own way it’s your anyways and remember only one thing that, “kuch toh log kahenge, logonka kam hai kehna, chodo bekar ki baton main kahin beet na jaye raina” and keep going.
No matter who you are, how you look, your skin colour, your appearance it doesn’t matter, being beautiful has nothing to do with your outer looks or appearance, it’s about your nature, your character and how you treat others. Everyone sees what you appear on outside, but they don’t know that a person becomes more attractive not by their looks but by their act of kindness, love, respect, honesty and loyalty they show. They will judge you but after knowing your kind nature they can’t stop themselves from loving you. Always remember that the appearance for small time but your nature is for lifetime.
Sometimes we come across some people who love to live simple, who don’t give more importance to their outer look but their inner beauty emerges only when we converse with them and get to know them better.
Judging a person does not define who they are, also your self confidence didn’t come from your appearance, certainly not your appearance!!
Let’s learn not to judge a book by it’s cover and let’s try to understand and know someone based on their inner beauty not on their appearance because APPERANCE CAN BE DECEPTIVE.
Focus on your inner beauty. Outer beauty will draw people to you, inner beauty will keep them in your presence.
Jay has his first blind date today. But he was already super late as it was pouring rains outside. Somehow, finally he managed to reach at the place on time where he supposed to meet his date. He was really nervous. Then a beautiful girl came to him and said, “ Hi! This is Riya. And you are Jay right ?“ Jay stood dumbfounded and just nodded his head up and down.
Riya seemed a total opposite personality to him, she was one of them, who lives their life in present without any stress of future, who believe in enjoying the moment while we are a part of it because one never knows which moment would convert into our last moment of life. She was kind, cute and a bit moody too. Jay was already in love with her, say if it’s her smile, her cuteness, her selfless behaviour or her idea of living life.
Before the day would come to an end, they stopped by a coffee shop. Jay had already fell for her. So, he decided to confess that he liked her and as it seemed that she liked him too. Jay hesitantly said “ Riya, I like you. Can you be my girlfriend? “ Riya turned around and said, “Jay I wanted to tell you something. Just listen me up first”
A year ago, a guy and his family members came to my place for a marriage proposal. And like every girl does, I also wore my mom’s saree and did everything like a typical Indian girl does when someone comes to see her but that guy unfortunately rejected me and his reason was that I looked like an old fashioned typical village women that day. We didn’t exchange words or talked for a single second and yet he came up with a decision that I’m not his type. You tell me is it judge someone based on his clothes and outer look? Jay said “ NO, it’s really wrong, looks can be deceptive”. Riya smiled and said guess who was that boy was Jay Shrivastava, it was – YOU. Look at the irony, that you don’t even remember that a year ago you rejected me because of this silly reason and today after spending some hours talking to me you say you like me. Whoa time really flies. (Jay was just listening everything silently cause he knew that it was his mistake and he was ashamed of himself). Jay I want to marry someone who will love me and not my outer looks, someone who’ll love me no matter what, the one who won’t judge me cause of my looks. Sorry and thank you for this amazing time I spent with you but I can’t be your girlfriend. Riya *leaves*
Don’t judge someone based on their appearance because, appearance can be deceptive.
Hobbies are very common. Everyone have their own priorities and likes regarding the hobbies. My hobby is listening to the music.
Listening to songs is such a nice thing. Every individual starts listening to the songs when he or she is addicted to them and really cannot come out of it. The music the songs will change the mood of the person. The songs in the musical interrelated with the human beings.
It is so important to prioritize the positive things in and around us in the life. One of the positive things is the music. Music makes Man convertible. Whatever the situation may be, it it helps the individual to come out of the situation and also to move one and into a new situation. The music you listen motivates life. The lyrics in this song will motivate the individual and help the individual at anytime.
It is very important for an individual to prioritize the music and the songs in the life. Because the songs or the music helps the individual to feel stress-free. It also helps the individual to relieve the tension and all the depression he or she had.
Music is described for every emotion. Every emotion is described in its own way in mmusic. Every emotion is clearly explained by the respected song.
Hobbies can often also be very expensive. Luckily, there are still lots of cheap and even free hobbies that are fun, educational and rewarding.
Here some of fun and low-cost hobbies
DIY : Buy a book on DIY and start on anything that needs fixing around your house, make your own clothes or give your friends self-made presents.
WRITE A THEMED LIST, AND WORK THROUGH IT : Make a list of things you want to do or see. It could be anything from films you want to watch to local places you want to visit. Try to work through your list in a month.
WATCH ONLINE DOCUMENTARIES :
You can find lots of free documentaries on the websites of Tv channels, or even on youtube covering hundreds of subjects, such a history or the ocean. You could also finally watch your favourite actor’s ,author’s or musician’s biography.
LEARN NEW THINGS : Educating yourself doesn’t have to be boring. What are you passionate about? It could be science , the oceams or even horror films. Google your interests and become a knowledgeable as you can about your passions.
GO CAMPING :
Try going caming with your friends during the weekend. All you need is a tent, some snacks, and drinks. If you dont live near woods or a forest, you can even try camping in your back garden.
DISCOVER NEW MUSIC :
Look for new music on music websites or youtube or spotify by searching for your favouirte genre. You could find a band you love.
LEARN HOW TO COOK :
cooking is a useful life skill as well as a fun way to spebd your time. Invest in cheap ingredients and learn how to cook all of your favourite meals.
TRY DRAWING :
Drwaing is a really enjoyable way of expressing yourself. There are lots of different ways to draw, from painting to sketchibg to doodling, so choose one you are comfortable with and give it a go!
START INVESTING :
Investing is a great way to earn some extra money, just make sure you do your research properly when you first start.you don’t have to invest large sums, but small ones will be just as rewaeding if you have a plan.
WRITING :
Writing is one of the chepest ways to have fun. From blogging to trying your hand on a book, there are lots of different ways to enjoy writing. All you need is a pencil and paper to get started.PLAYING CARDS : Invite some friends over , and get a pack of cards. There are hundreds of different games. You can play with cards and a pack is fairly cheap.
LEARN TO DANCE :
This hobby is great for your body and enjoyable pastime. Use youtube vidros and tutorials to teach yourself new dance moves.
READING :
Reading is a great way to exercise your mind.you can choose to lose yourself in a fictional world, learn more about your own world, or read the autobiography of someone you adimre. If you decide to pick reading up as a hobby, consider getting a library card for your local library.
Remember , the secret of life, happiness and fulfillment is simple: ” Find three hobbies you love: one to make you money, one to keep you in shape, abd one to be creative” .
Beauty is an essential part of our lives even though we don’t always realise it. Beautiful in looks and quality is that special thing that make us wonder and fall in love with people and things. Sometimes people are beautiful not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are. Everything has a beauty but not everyone sees it.
What if we have a jasmine, beside a beautiful rose, will you still look for the beauty, when the the smell of the jasmine blows?
What we hear a cuckoo singing, beside a beautiful peacock, will you still look for the beauty, when the voice of the cuckoo evoke?
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