Currently, Rajasthan govt released an amendment “Rajasthan compulsory Registration of Marriage Amendment Bill 2021” it allowed registration of child marriages, it’s 21 century and we all are aware of how heinous child marriage is, here are some of my views on this act
In my views law is not wrong Those who commit or help in child marriage will still be punished, but those who already had marriage were not allowed to have registration and so they were not able to avail all govt schemes and benefits, those saying it will make it easier to do child marriage remember availing govt benefits are everyones fundamental rights.
Those saying it’s illegal look it like this rape is illegal but rape victim and culprit both have some rights that we can’t snatch, like culprit must be allowed to go court etc, ofcourse child marriage is as heinous as rape and here victims are both boy and girl but why they suffer whole life for it, they can’t get rashion, jobs, water, now as everything is more and more digitalizing and you can’t prove you’re married, it will become more hard to avail services like jacha bacha Suraksha and this are thee parents who most need it.
Also one negative point is it will make child marriage easier, but many people will not be able to avail fundamental rights isn’t it totally wrong also we can make child marriage hard by making strong rules. As we have data of child marriage we can ask govt employee who are posted there why they let it happen like police or magistrate, they will become more accountable this way.
If I’m missing some points or you want to share your views here’s my email soni362002@gmail.com
Maya Angelou quoted, “I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life. ” It is indeed the truth. Lately I have been thinking a lot about relationship between parents and child nowadays.
Though we love our parents more than anything in this world and so they do. It is of no question that our parents took care of us and will always do, no matter how old we become. But, don’t you think that these days parents-child conflict are increasing way too much? What could be the reason behind that?
The first thing that comes in our mind is obviously generation gap and it’s true. Why generation gap? It is basically age gap between parents and children. However, the major issue arrives due to the mental gap in terms of thinking and current trends. These days, children, mostly teenagers believe that they are grown-ups and it’s high time for them to be independent. This helps them to gain more self-esteem. On the whole, both parents and children do not see things from the standpoint of each other and thus leads to conflict.
Some teenagers feel that their parents should trust them and give them freedom but they also know that parents are more concerned about their safety, which sometimes make children irritated.
Technology also affects the relationship between them. Technological ability is also important. Parents might not learn technology as quick as teenagers and when they try to learn from them, they get impatient. Our world keeps changing and developing, things rarely stay the same, causing generation gaps between the parents and their children.
Below are some of the significant points which need to be understood.
• Parents often do not tolerate mistakes and tend to tell their children off. They need to understand that this is their learning phase and making mistakes will make them grow in life, but if they only get punished for it, it widens the gap and creates a lack of proper communication.
• Children are expected to be replicas of parents often have dreams for their kids. They should not impose their wish on them without knowing what they want.
• Comparing children to each other or telling them how you were as a child also widens the gap. Due to this, they lose confidence and enthusiasm they may previously had.
• Lack of understanding is also the major cause. Listening and understanding what a children is trying to convey could be a good step. But, it is lacking these days. Parents often feel like because they have already been the age their child is currently, that they understand how their child thinks. They should understand things have changed from then to now.
Now, how to solve these problems? Here are some ways :
Keep an open mind – The way that kid think is different from how parents do. Keeping an open mind and not assuming that they are same as you were at their age is very important. You must also understand that there are some things that are acceptable in society and therefore acceptable to your child that may not have been acceptable when you were the same age.
Communicate – Taking out time to communicate with your kids will be very helpful. Your child must feel comfortable to talk to you about anything. The children must be assured that they can approach their parents with anything and can speak freely without any fear. And this way parents need not to worry about their children hiding thing from them.
Listen – Parents need to allow their kids time to talk without interruption and listen to what they have to say. Learning your child’s thoughts and opinions makes them feel like what they want or feel matters to you, which in turn makes them feel much closer to you than before. Having a parent who listens as well instead of only talks and lectures will give your child more encouragement to listen to you in return.
Understand – With listening comes understanding and this means that you have to learn to put yourself in your child’s shoes and trying to understand how they feel and what they want from what they tell you. If you are able to understand where your child is coming from, you will be able to close that generation gap to some extent.
Unconditional Love – Love has a way of crossing boundaries and bringing people together if acted upon. So show your children how much you love them. This unconditional love and support that they get from you is very encouraging and makes children more inclined to show that same love and understanding back.
In the end, I would like to mention that children should also treat parents with love and affection because they did and are doing a lot for you everyday that is unnoticed. Your one word of affection can make their day. No matter how miserable you feel while they’re scolding you, never stop respecting them.
When the topic of consumption arises our mind usually wonders about food. But today food is not the only thing that we consume. There is term “Content Consumption”. Briefly , it is the social media post or post in any other sites, that a person views or reads.According to a data average daily time spent consuming content is 6 hours and 59 min ( Not so surprisingly, it is accounted as normal these days)
The fact that we spend almost all the day using our phones in not so problematic but what we watch is a serious issue. Is the content we consume worth consuming??
There are thousands of tik tok videos, instagram reels that are available in the net. According to data an average person spends average of 21.5 hours per month scrolling through reels. The statistics seems very low , but when you realise that reels are just about of 30 secs, it will hit that people consumes 645 of such videos per month. Not only reels, consumption of Netflix, Amazon, Hulu and many other OTT platforms ,have increased tremendously since the start of pandemic. Binging shows and chilling is quite a fun idea of relaxation but it traps a person into a loop of entertainment.Many people don’t get good night’s sleep , why?? Because they were watching series or scrolling through social media. At first it seems fun way of escaping daily life challenges , but what we don’t realise is that we are becoming mentally weak. Now everytime a challenge comes down , instead of facing it, we would like to watch a series. For the sake of forgetting , we are burdening our works , thus, leading to mental stress, anxiety and depression.
Now, is it worth watching a series instead of doing work? Being attracted to glorious content and consuming it for hours , without having the knowledge of time , is not worth it at all. It is making us unhealthy in many unknowing ways. What we consume today decides what our personality and mindset will be. Internet is a vast world in its own. There are millions and millions of content . It varies from educational to news to entertainment. Everything that we want is at our finger tip. Just one click and you will have whole world in front of you. Now, what we want to know, what is beneficial for us depends on us!!!
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