Category: Education

IMPORTANCE AND VALUE OF INTERNSHIPS

With the world changing daily, the people around it needed to be the part of that growth cycle too. Getting a job in today’s market is definitely challenging and that’s where internship makes a difference. An internship is probably the most important thing to get out of your undergraduate education because internships combine classroom knowledge and theory with practical application and skills earned in professional or community settings. This is the most significant aspect of internships. They also provide many advantages to students, both while pursuing a degree and afterward when looking for a job. Students also get numerous essential professional connections through practical learning opportunities such as internships before they even graduate. Internships not only help you gain professional experience, but they also help you build your character. When it comes to hiring, there are many businesses that prefer personal attributes over professional competence. Integrity, devotion, and self-motivation are just a few of the attributes that can be taught through an internship. During an internship, a student may meet a mentor who can assist him in a variety of ways. Even when you will become successful but these lessons you learned will stay with you forever. And employers will want college graduates who have more than just qualification when they leave school; they will want individuals who have the personal traits required to do a good job. An internship’s main value is that it sharpens one’s skills, but it also helps one develop character in the workplace. Internships are a great way to learn new abilities, put them to the test, and grow as a person so you can apply what you’ve learned in the classroom to the real world. Internships are essential for students to prepare for the workforce and most firms nowadays are looking for college graduates who have prior work experience and abilities in a specific industry. While everyone hopes to leave an internship feeling elated and enthusiastic about the opportunity, there is a silver lining if you don’t enjoy the work: you’ll learn what you don’t like. And that is equally important too.

It’s also true that the presence of internships benefits more than only students. Employers will benefit from a variety of distinct advantages when they hire soon-to-be graduates. When it comes to hiring new personnel, hiring is always taking a risk in deciding whether or not an applicant is a good fit. But an internship allows a company to assess how a candidate would perform in the real world. Organizations can utilise internships to teach the up-and-coming generation of industry experts to the distinctive elements, offerings, and needs of their brand, in addition to using them to acquire an in-depth review of soon-to-be graduates. Employers can learn from students’ fresh perspectives too.

It is undeniable that internships and other experiential learning opportunities are only beneficial for boosting someone’s career. But internships aren’t just for your resume if you’re about to graduate. Their advantages aren’t confined to fresh graduates; they can be felt at any point in one’s career.

UNIFICATION OF PRIVATE INTERNATIONAL LAW

Dictionary meaning of unification is “being united or made into a whole.”

Many lawyers believed a century ago that the law of individual nations could and would eventually be unified. In a well know speech made in 1888, Ernst Zitelmann advanced a case for “global law” (Weltrecht). Because the formalities of legal provisions are the same everywhere and policy goals are, or will be, shared by every civilized society, his argument goes, the law of every nation will eventually converge.

Now, it has been said earlier that the need for private international law arises because the internal laws of different countries differ from each other. There will almost certainly be no need for private international law if all countries’ internal laws provide uniform rules. But then, difference is not only in the internal laws of different countries but also in the private international laws of countries, on account of which sometimes conflicting decisions are pronounced by the courts of different countries on the same matter. Thus, the need for the unification of rules of private international law arises.

There are two modes for unification of private international law:

  • Unification of the internal laws of the countries of the world, and
  • Unification of the rules of private international law

The first step in the direction of the unification of internal laws was taken by the Bern Convention of 1886 under which an international union for the protection of rights of authors over their literary and artistic works was formed.

But this method of unification has not been successful in the long run because every nation differs from the other with respect to culture, religion, the upbringing of the people, public policy, etc.

On account of basic ideological differences among the countries of the world, it is not possible to achieve unification of all private laws. Therefore, another method of avoiding the situation where courts in different countries may arrive at different results on the same matter is the unification of the rules of Private International Law. Given the necessity of unifying Private International Law standards, various substantial international attempts have been made in this regard, some of which have been successful. Prior to 1951, the main focus was on unifying the principles of private international law of European Continental countries, as the vast majority of them have civil law systems. On the other hand, nothing could be done towards the unification of rules of private international law of the commonwealth countries and the United States on the account of fundamental differences between the two systems of law. However, following 1951, several significant attempts at unifying the rules of private international law of all countries of the world were attempted, with some success. In 1951, a permanent bureau of Hague Conference was constituted to look after this issue. The purpose of the Hague Conference on Private International Law (HccH) is to work for the broad unification of the rules of private international law. HccH creates and promotes international agreements in the areas of child protection, family and property relations, legal cooperation and litigation, and commercial and financial law.

This is now handled by the International Institute for Unification of Private Law (UNIDROIT). It is an independent intergovernmental organization with its seat in Villa Aldobrandini in Rome. And its purpose is to study the needs and methods for modernizing, harmonizing and coordinating private, and in particular commercial law, as between states and group of states and to formulate uniform law instruments, principles, and rules to achieve those objectives. It was set up in 1926 as an auxiliary organ of the League of Nations. The Institute was re-established in 1940 on the basis of multilateral agreement, the UNIDROIT Statute. As of 2014, UNIDROIT has 63 state members from over 5 continents.

BENEFITS

If the rules of Private International Laws are unified, it’ll reduce the amount of conflicts which arise when a foreign element is involved. Also the proceedings will be less time-consuming. The proceedings will run smoothly and move ahead in an efficient manner as the Courts would know which law to apply and would not have to spend time on that question. Also, in this era of globalization, unification of rules can bring the entire world on the same platform.

DRAWBACKS AND CHALLENGES

Internal laws of every country are different to each other as per their requirement. But now, the trend which can be observed is that even Private International Laws are very different from one another and not uniform in most of the countries. The foremost challenge in the unification of rules is to make different countries agree to the same rules. Secondly, for obvious reasons every nation would want the rules to be as per their needs. So such circumstances, the requirements of some/many countries may be overlooked even if uniform rules are agreed to. Another major challenge will be to enforce these rules in each and every countries of the world.

Since laws differ from one state to another often times, the conclusions for a defined problem are different, for different states. Now, unification of the internal laws of every country is practically impossible because the internal laws of every country are made only as per the requirements for their society. Therefore, internal laws differ from country to country.

But if rules for private international law are unified then it might solve the dilemma of deciding the applicable laws in a matter involving foreign element. As private international law rules are applied as the domestic rules of a country.

With the help of such unification duration of court proceedings could be reduced and uniformity among the countries could be brought. Also with the help of unification all the countries could be bought at same platform.

The fundamental concept of unification is that the final goal of all the courts of all countries of world is similar that is to bring justice. Thus, with the help of unification of rules of private international law justice could be served at a fast rate and conflicting judgments on same matter by different courts of different countries can be avoided.

Life : tragedy or comedy

When we are talking about life, we all know that God is the ultimate creator of our story, God not only creates this story but also all the characters of our story whatever villain, hero, and other side roles, all of them were created by the god. but with that god also give power to the main character so that he/she will change the story of the game. But the problem is that the so-called main character and I are sure you can understand who is this main character, we all are the main character in our life like you in your life and I am in my life.

But the real problem with that main character is since childhood, he/she will be introduced by various rules of the society ( the location where all these games take), but at that time the main character is a child, and he/ she was unable to understand any of these rules and how they can understand because they are so small, their brain also less developed, and the process of understanding about something is going on, but after sometime when he/ she is 5-6 year old, so curious about all the things in the world, they always have some questions about something, whatever the question will fit on the society rule or not. but who will give the answers to their questions?

Of course their parents, but for this parents also have some time for their children, but they are busy in their career, it’s not their fault, its the requirements of their home, so they are busy in earning money for their livelihood. And the main character is unable to get their answers, and what he/she saw at that time they understood that this is the pattern of life, then after some time he/she admitted in the schools, new atmosphere, new people, new rules a unique world, world change question also changed, before that they have 100 questions to ask , but now they have 1000 question, but the tragedy is who will answer all of them, no one, because in school they have their system which only creates two types of person one who secure 1 rank, who is intelligent and other who failed or get less Mark and their name change from XYZ to looser,

We all have one power, our unconscious mind captured things fast as compared to the conscious mind but it has a defect it never differentiates between wrong or right.

We all learn from our surrounding atmosphere.so in this way the main character will be developing.and with the time the habit of asking questions also reduced slowly and after sometimes completely stopped,

At the age, of 15 – 16, this main character completely free from question asking habit like the word why is only present in the language not in life.

At this age, when he/she is introduced to the world, and see the real world, real people, their moment changing behavior the main character become confused about is true? The fairy tale stories or these two face people.

Then, after their parents told, you are mature now, so you have to earn your living and follow the pattern of life, the pattern which was created by 4 people, but I am sorry you never have a chance to meet that 4 people.4 unknown people, neither we know them nor they know us. But if you have come into this world, you have to follow those 4 people

And that time, the main character will completely be trapped between the rules. He/she will never find out those basic questions about lifelike

1) what is the purpose of their life

2) what is the basic rules of life

3) why she/ he will follow these rules

4) what should be followed or what should be ignored

5) follow the pattern of life, is right or wrong

Childhood is one of the important phases of life.

Importance of Training and Internships

Education is not just about learning and acquiring knowledge bookish knowledge, it also includes training yourself to face the outside world, and also applying your knowledge physically to the outside field. So, as to keep in mind what actual education means, we can say that Training and Internship are an integral part of it.   

What basically training is, and why is it important? Training is teaching, developing skills, polishing skills to acquire a particular target or a task. It has the ability to improve one capabilities, capacities, performances, and productivity. It is the fundamental block of acquiring professional skills and knowledge in order to compete with the outside world. Training is basically a task-oriented activity aimed at improving performance in current or future jobs. Talking about why is it important, here are some points-  

1. It helps the trainee cope with the technical challenges in the environment, I.e., training helps the trainee be up to date about the technologies and related information and helps in acquiring such skills.  

2. Due to modern inventions, new technologies, and diversification of most of the organizations have become very complex, due to which there is a lack of coordination. To cope up with such situations and organizations, training has become an initial part of the process.  

3. It helps and gives experience in dealing with human relations. It provides us the core idea of what is to be done, and these days, most companies look for someone who has a certain experience in dealing with human problems.  

4. It provides the trainee with a great understanding of their responsibilities and the knowledge and skill required to do that job.  

5. Training is to develop specific and useful knowledge, skills, and techniques. It is intended to prepare people to carry out predetermined tasks in well-defined job contexts.  

Training alone does not make a person skillful, but internships are also part of it. Now talking about what is Internship, and why is it important? An internship is basically executing the skills and knowledge acquired by students or trainees in the past. It is a form of experiential learning and integration of knowledge gained in classrooms and physical application and skill development in a professional setting. It can be paid or unpaid depending upon the preferences, tasks, requirements, and many other factors. The unpaid internships are meant mainly for experience on how to work with different organizations, how to deal with public problems, how to manage things, how to take up responsibilities or to satisfy requirements for the qualifications. It can be said that it provides you with the reality of whether the field that you are working in is your interest or not? It gives you a clear idea about what you have and what you want. In addition, an internship can be used to build a professional network that can assist with letters of recommendation or lead to future employment opportunities. Also, it benefits the employer who was working as a part-time intern and now wants to work as full-time interns, as they will be already familiar with the working of the organization.  

Why are Internships important? They are important because –  

1. They provide real-time experience and exposure which is necessary for your working career. Also, it allows students to harness the skill, knowledge, and theoretical practice they learned in university.  

2. The experiences we go through are what shapes us. Your internship will not only encourage personal development, but also a greater understanding of self. To know yourself is to know your goals and how to best achieve them. It provides you with a fair idea of how you have to learn from your experiences.  

3. It enables you to connect with other people in professional terms. It helps to make a professional network, which leads to an exchange of information, knowledge, and services, etc. Sure, you can attend a networking event, but it would not provide you with such knowledge, connections, and experience and you would be limiting yourself.   

4. If you are really worried about how to develop your CV, or how to make it more effective, trust me the best way to do it is to take up an internship, it will not only make your CV better, but it will also reflect how responsible you are, and also you can manage things well.  

5. Sometimes, after graduating maybe you don’t get jobs, or doing a job immediately is not beneficial. Internships can help you overcome this problem. If you have never worked full-time before, the change may be difficult or overwhelming. In a working environment, not every boss is tolerant of mistakes. So, you can get a basic idea on how to work and you can know your mistakes through it and learn from them.  

So this what thing is important about Training and Internships. Both are an integral part of the process of learning.   

I would like to end this by quoting the lines of Eva Chen, director of fashion, Instagram  

“My advice for young people is, study what you love and intern in what you want to do. And I think it’s okay to pivot as many times as you need to.” 

IDENTITY THEFT IN CYBERSPACE

Cybercrime is one of the most pressing issues the world is facing right now. And it will be one of the greatest risks over the next decade, outpacing the likes of terrorism, political conflict and degradation of environment. Cybercrime includes unauthorized access of information and breach of security like privacy, password, and other personal information of any person with the use of internet. Identity theft is a part of cybercrime that involves committing theft via computers or internet. Identity theft is important in today’s world because of the increasing importance of identity-related knowledge in e-government, the economy, and socialization. Any internet user’s identity can be stolen in seconds, and the user may be unaware of it. There are various tools available in the internet which allows anyone to steal data of any particular user, if he/she is connected to internet. It is not necessary for the hacker to have extensive knowledge of internet technology or how networking functions. For most people who use the internet, identity theft is a big concern.

Cybercrime is defined as “offences committed against individuals or groups of individuals with a criminal motive to deliberately damage the victim’s reputation or cause physical or mental harm, or loss, to the victim directly or indirectly, using modern telecommunication networks such as the Internet (chat rooms, emails, notice boards, and groups) and mobile phones (SMS/MMS).” It is a modern-day crime involving criminal activities in cyberspace, in which any electronic communication device, database, or the internet is used as a weapon, target, or both. Cyberspace is a virtual environment where people interact through a computer network. As a result, it is a space that has no geographical boundaries and is open to everyone, anywhere in the world that has internet access.

Cybercrime is on the rise in modern times, as people become more dependent on computers, the internet, and related technologies, as well as the digitalization of different services, and it is rapidly becoming a threat that must be tackled. The internet has certainly many advantages, but it has also made the committing of such cyber crimes simpler. Identity theft in cyberspace is one such crime. Identity theft is a type of cybercrime in which a person’s identity is stolen in order to obtain illegal monetary benefit or deceive others, and in some instances, it may put the victim’s personal safety at risk. Identity theft that happens over the internet is referred to as online identity theft or identity theft in cyberspace. The name of the crime is a little misleading because when something is stolen, the victim is dispossessed, whereas when a person’s identity is stolen, the victim is not dispossessed. The identity of a person, whether alive or dead, refers to and includes their private info, such as their name, date of birth, e-mail address, bank details, IT returns, medical insurance details, and other accounts. Identity theft is a term used to describe a variety of crimes in which someone illegally obtains and uses another person’s personal information in any way that includes deception or fraud, usually for financial gain. Hacking accounts, phishing, spear phishing, denial of service, distributed denial of service, data theft, spyware installation, cookies, e-mail/SMS spoofing are just a few of the ways this crime is committed, and new ways are emerging every day. In the years 2014, 2015, 2016, and 2017, India reported 9622, 1192, 12317, and 21796 cybercrimes respectively, according to the National Crime Record Bureau. And there were 27248 cybercrimes reported in 2018, with 55.2 percent (15,051 out of 27248) being for the purpose of fraud. And in year 2019 there were 650,523 complaints of identity theft and the numbers increased it was more than 1 million in the year 2020. (Data as per Federal Trade Commission, Consumer Sentinel Network)

This trend shows that a change is imminent and preventive measure must be taken to curb this millennial crime and facilitate India’s growth into a trillion-dollar economy. One way to accomplish this is to educate the general public about the risks involved with using the internet and the importance of using standard protective measures such as using a safe WIFI network, firewall, and not sharing passwords, which are all commonly ignored.

Identity theft has become a major crime all over the world, posing a threat to both individuals and businesses. Thieves, fraudsters, and criminals use identity theft in a way to extract private information from people and make huge amount of money from them. As a result, it is vital to increase people’s awareness of how to protect themselves in online networks through education. In terms of public education costs, it is important to note that governments and other large businesses should view these costs as investments rather than expenses in order to create a safe society.

Banks, financial institutions, and retail stores, for example, are more vulnerable than most small companies or firms because they collect people’s personal information in their databases. As a result, these organisations must have sufficient strategies, policies, and actions in place to defend themselves from mass identity theft. Security awareness, education, technical control, and an effective information management strategy should all be part of a successful defensive system. Identity theft by insiders is a major concern for organisations, according to various reports. Thus, organisations should consider implementing a strict and reliable internal control to prevent identity theft. Organizations should inform workers about the most common type of attack, social engineering, and its consequences. Managers should also be conscious that poor performance and negligence for the effects of future attacks not only results in substantial financial losses, but also harms the company’s reputation. Individuals and organisations must agree that they are vulnerable to identity theft; as a result, implementing the most efficient security system should be linked to developing the understanding of potential threats, since “Awareness is the best defence.”

Learn something every day, important or not

Human is one of the most powerful creatures on this planet. Have you think what makes us different from others, we are also an animal, then what is difference between us and other animals. According to evolution, there are lots of species that came on this planet and after some time they destroyed and their places were occupied by another one.

This is the basic nature of the universe. But what is the unique thing about the human species, God also gives brains to the other animals and there are so many examples that prove that every animal has its unique nature.

Have you think that how we human-dominated on this planet what is the uniqueness about us, you become amazed that all animals have a mind, size different, difference in the complexity of the brain, but God give brain to all the species, of this world.

There is some uniqueness, and that is learning power, the capacity of thinking, I think these two things create differences between us and other animals. I am not talking about overthinking, this is our gift to us.

Why learning is important in our life, and what is the limit of it.

Learn something every day, this is the best and one of the most important things that we do in our life So, in this post, we discussed the importance of learning, and how we can learn something every day.

1) when you try to learn one thing every day unconsciously you change yourself every day,

2) when you have a learning mindset, you can not only learn from the positive things but also from the negative things

3) you have to develop the habit of learning something every day, due to this, you not only change yourself but also your surrounding atmosphere.

4) if you want to learn something, you are not required something so extraordinarily, you can learn with small things also.

5) have you try to find out that why we bored with this life after some time, because with time we remove the habit of learning something from our life, and due to this, the whole aura is the same in our life.

6) try to learn one thing every day for 1 week and after that take some time and you become amazed that how you are changed in your life, not only you will change, your life will also change.

7) this is the rule of life, you have to accept changes in your life,

8) in reality, if you see your life problem, they are not problems they are the opportunity to learn something.

9) how many of you notice that what is the difference between a normal person or someone who achieved something in life, between a happy person and the sad one

There are so many problems in our life, but the difference between a happy person and a sad one is that the happy one understands that problems are the nature of life, so why waste your precious time blaming God or some other, but on another side sad one will

always blame others for their conditions.

10) you can easily learn the basic rules of life from your own life, you can learn from your failures, your habits. You always have one problem that whenever you try to forget something, that things recall more and more time, you get one thing never try to forget it try to learn something from that particular and after that, you will that, your past will never affect you in your life. because at this time you are not running from your fears, you are facing them and they are from you.

I think this is the rule of life

‘When you are running from someone, they will run after you but when you start to run for them, they will run from you’

Hope so this will helps someone

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN

Abusing is something which is injurious, harmful or offensive to a person, animal or environment. Abuse is mainly of three types- Social, domestic and sexual violences.
Social abuse is something that prevents a person from keeping contact with friends, relatives.
Sexual abuse is the harrasment that is experienced sexually. Sexual harassment includes molestation, abusive sexual behaviour by one person upon another. Any sexual behaviour done by one person without another person’s consent is molestation. Trying to have sexual contact against another person’s consent is rape. (Woman rapes a man )- this percentage is much more than (man rapes a woman).
Domestic Violence is the torture a person face mentally, physically, psychologically, emotionally etc.
The most common abuse a person face nowadays are sexual harassment and domestic violence. Domestic violence is a crime but the laws vary between jurisdiction for men and women.

Domestic Violence Against Men:-
Domestic violence occurs when a family member, partner or ex-partner dominates the other one mentally, physically or psychologically.In maximum cases the victim is ashamed or afraid of further abuse.For this reason they don’t report the abuse. Domestic Violence has different ways of occurrence but the effects are always negative.
We all know as standard “man” is the abuser and woman is “abused”. There are many men who are suffering from domestic violence emotionally and physically from their partner. Domestic violence against men remains unrecognised in most cases since men are scared of embarrassment, lack support. Due to these stereotypical male images, men don’t have the courage to file a report against domestic violence. Society is aware of male victims but treats him as a joke thus making him feel insecure, ridiculous and embarrassed.
MYTHS :
There are certain myths regarding violence. We always expect men to take all the responsibilities of their actions. When a female is violent society has lots of excuses to support the woman like postnatal depression, mood swings, stress etc but when a man gives the same excuse we do not accept it even if he is really suffering from depression and stress.
PARENTING:
When a woman is violent we don’t say she is a bad mother but when the same thing happens with a man we automatically assume him to be a bad parent. If a man is a victim of domestic violence , during the separation with his partner the woman gets the legal custody of their children. The man is left with no other option except to leave the house. So we can also say that fear of losing the child is also a reason for which a man doesn’t file a report against domestic violence.
WHY DO MAN STAY IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
This question cannot be answered very easily. If a man is harassed physically or sexually by his wife or partner, no one will believe him.No one will support him and make him feel ridiculous.
There are many reasons why men don’t report abuse. They are as follows-
Fear of disbelief
Fear of being denied access to their children
Fear of being judged
Fear of revenge by the abuser
Fear of false allegations against him
Fear of being left alone and homeless.
EFFECTS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON MEN :
The adverse effects of the abuse can be very long lasting. Men who have been abused by someone often suffer from different traumas like low self-esteem, anger, sleeping problems, inability to work, depression, joblessness. Sometimes this effects become so depressing that it may destroy a man’s career causing him to attempt suicide.
UNRECOGNITION OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MAN :
Violence against men remains unrecognised because of many reasons such as-
It has taken years of advocacy and support to encourage women to report the abuse but literally no one is there to support a man.
People don’t even think that men can also be victims of domestic violence. For this reason many men don’t even attempt to report the situation.
In some cases physical damage becomes less apparent for which we do not believe them.
Even if they report, they don’t get any support and help from anyone, not even the social workers or the law and most importantly they are not believed by anyone.
SOCIETY REACTION :
If men file a report against the violence they are met with discrimination and disbelief. Usually people’s reaction would be about men’s size, that he may deserve this for his previous dids and all. Even the police don’t believe the man and say in support of a woman.
CONCLUSION :
Even if a man takes various actions to stop domestic violence, these attacks will not stop. Abused men are not cowards but their actions can be misinterpreted. It is a pity to see a strongest man succumb to the old fashioned way of thinking. If they report they will be seen as well. Laws should be applied regardless of gender so that many women will think twice before abusing a man if they knew they could be arrested like any men in the same situation.
Domestic Violence against men is a topic that many people will not be willing to start. Abuse is abuse no matter to whom it is done. Men are disadvantaged and the hurdles they are facing are almost impossible to overcome.
So to stop Domestic Violence against men at first we have to believe them.They are also human beings and they do feel depressed. So we must not be biased to a particular gender and must not ignore men’s emotions. Social workers and police must be educated about the fact that men can also be a victim.
Maybe this could change the lives of many men who are the victims of domestic violence.

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Domestic Violence against men

As standards “men” are the abusers and “women” are the abused. This is not always true.

Is it essential to understand yourself or not?

‘ no one in this world will understand me’ how can someone feel my pain? No one in this world will understand my situation?

There are lots of these types of questions that you may ask yourself once in a lifetime, or you saw people who are asking those types of questions from others, I am not saying that putting these questions is wrong but can you really try to find out the answer of these questions or you are always busy in blaming others.

When you blame someone for not understanding you? Will you realize that how many times you try to understand them. I think there is a chain of blaming in which we blame others for our situations and they blame us for their situations. Why we can’t understand that it is impossible to understand other people. In reality, no one will understand us completely, and also we can’t understand others completely.

There is a reason behind that problem that no one in this world will completely know about other person,

Take your example, people know about yourself only those things that you will tell them, or you know that what you will tell them,

And you will never be told about yourself completely to other people no matter how close they are,

So I think understanding yourself is a better idea to get rid of all these problems. Here are some ways that will help you to understand that how you will understand yourself. so let’s try to understand them one by one.

1) when you are angry, sad, depressed lonely, etc try to spend some time with yourself and understand your emotional life. and when you feel cry, please cry, don’t hold emotions. try to express them.

2) if you can understand yourself , your emotions you will definitely understand others feelings. At that time you are not have any expectation that somebody will understand you , so in this way your relations also become better.

3) understand that we all have some suffering in our lives, so don’t try to give the burden of emotions to others. Try to understand your emotions just like a responsibility towards yourself.

4) you know about yourself better than any other person, so if you have bad habit face them and get rid from them, and cheers yourself when you do something good.

5) always try to boost your confidence, never compare yourself with others this is the work of society, so do your work.

6) face all the struggles of your life with a warrior spirit, whatever the worst situation is you are the hero of your life.

7) you are the only one who have capacity to uplift your life so, whenever there is failure will come face that failure, and give your best to fight for your life.

8) whenever there is a mistakes will occur, don’t feel regret, but try to improve that mistakes because people only present not past. So don’t your time in regretting about something.

9) motivate yourself, the mind is like a child, if you feel that this work is hard mind blindly on it. and never think about that work, so treat the mind like a teacher.

10) try to be happy in this life, because the struggle is temporary.

Makar Sankranti – Sweets and Fun

Makar Sankranti is a festival in the Hindu calendar dedicated to the Sun God- Surya. Makar Sankranti is one of the few ancient Indian festivals that has been observed according to solar cycles. Makar Sankranti is set by the solar cycle of the Hindu lunisolar calendar, and is observed on a day which usually falls on 14 January of the Gregorian calendar, but sometimes on 15 January.  This festival signifies the arrival of longer days. As per a legend, Lord Surya forgave his son Shani and his son visited him on Sankranti. And that’s why people distribute everyone sweets and urge them to let go of any negative or angry feelings

 Every twelve years, Hindus organize the kumbh mela on makar sankranti which is one of the world’s largest pilgrimages, with about 40 to 100 million people attending it(too crowded right? Do not get lost!). At this event, they pray to the sun god and bathe in the ganga river. 

The festivities associated with Makar Sankranti are known by various names such as Magh Bihu in Assam, Maghi in Punjab, Haryana and Himachal Pradesh, popular amongst both the Hindus and Sikhs, Sukarat in central India, Pongal in Tamil Nadu, Uttarayan in Gujarat, Uttarakhand and Uttar Pradesh, Ghughuti in Uttarakhand, Makar Sankranti in Odisha, Karnataka, Maharashtra, Goa, West Bengal, Uttarakhand and Uttar Pradesh or as Sankranthi in Andhra Pradesh and Telangana. 

Celebrations:

On makar sankranti people conduct various social festivities such as decorating houses, singing songs in rural areas, organizing fairs(melas), performing dances, kite flying(my favourite) and feasts. Children go house to house distributing sweets.

In Maharashtra on Makar Sankranti,  people exchange multicoloured halwa (those yummy sugar granules coated in sugar syrup) and til-gul laddoos. Puran poli with pure ghee is also cooked . While exchanging til-gul as tokens of goodwill people greet each other. Married women invite friends and neighbours and celebrate Haldi-Kunku. Guests are given til-gul and some small gifts, as a part of the ritual.  While distributing sweets, the famous line “til gul ghya aani god god bola” (which means eat sweet and speak sweet words) is used in Maharashtra. 

My experience:

I remember dressing up in new clothes and then going to each and every house asking for sweets, receiving chocolates and laddoos. My friends and I  would wish everyone with “tilgul ghya aani gol gol bola” and it worked, just for a few days, after which the same old bitter quarrels began. Anyways, flying kites was certainly the best part. You can cut others’ kites and avenge yourself(or just have some good fun).  You can compete with your neighbours to see who can fly the kite better. However, be careful with those deadly strings. They are truly fatal if you mess with them. Once my friends and I competed to see who could get the most candies, and whoever won would get the candies collected by others. It definitely did not go that well for us except my clever friend who won(she was kind and did not take our candies so phew). Makar sankranti is all about fun!

I would love to know your experiences in the comments below!

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Why self-motivation is necessary for life

All of us need some motivation to do anything in our life, motivation is one of the most important keys that will unlock success in our life, but before that, we are also have some knowledge about motivation, you have any idea that when this word’ motivation ‘ will came in your life and become very important,

I am sure when you are in your school you have not any ideas about this word, and I am also sure at that time you were passed your school classes when you feel fear from something your teacher or your parents always said these types of a word like hey! Champ doesn’t afraid from these exams you will pass these exams, this is what if it is not motivation so motivation was always present behind every work in your life. but we become aware of that word by the social media, and also we become confused between the word inspiration and motivation.

When we learn from someone’s life situations it is an inspiration and when we do something from ourself it is motivation. The the following someone, or learn something from someone is very important in today’s life. This is one of the best things that we should learn in this life.

Learn from the great person is a very essential thing that we will do in our lives, for this we read great person biographies, see their interviews, meeting, learn their facts about life and also try to learn that how they see the problems of life and how they handle the problems of life. But this is an inspiration.

If you want to achieve something in your life, you have some purpose for that particular work, why behind the work, and you have to find out that way, if you want to be successful in your life.

In today’s world situation, when people see the interview of a successful person or his/her lifestyle on the social media and after that, they become so motivated they start the various project but after 1 or 2-week condition will be the same, disappointed, depressed and purposeless and in search of new motivation by the new person. and this process will continue.

So have you noticed that for doing something in your constantly you have required other thing instead of only motivation and that’s self-motivation which is inspired from someone life but have to work on your life purposes?

People say that they become distracted easily because they have to do something which they don’t like to do, if you are also having the same problem try one thing, do the work that you like most for 1 complete week, and after 1 week you will realize you also bored from this work. This is the nature of human beings that we will become bored after some time.

So the question is how we can work constantly, and for that difficult task self motivation is one most important thing, because whatever we are doing in our life we become bored from that work where self motivation will help us, there is always profit or loss, ups and downs takes place in the work, businesses or whatever we are doing for living, but with the help of self motivation, we will overcome these feeling and continue in our work.and one day will come that we will achieved what we dream in our life.

Try to find out motivation in your life and do hard work in order to uplift life from your present situation. if you are only trying to change the conditions day by day, one day you will definitely find out your true success.

So be happy in your life, and try to find out the real reason behind your work, when you have that particular reason, you will never distract from anything.

Why people prefer working as freelancers instead of going to jobs?

If you don’t want to go outside for work, Working as a freelancer is a very good option nowadays because people want to work According to them. freelancing is one of the great options when you want to work from home.

The pattern of work was changed, with the digital world development, now you can easily join the company, for this first you have to apply online for the position in some company according to your skills and after that, you get the job under few hours

But it does not mean that going outside for a job is a wrong pattern. In today’s world the pattern of work, selection criteria, and companies requirement changed with the development of the digital world. So there are points that will be focused on the fact that why freelancing is preferred by the people.

1) working as a freelancer, people have options to choose their schedules, they don’t have to follow other schedules, they can work according to their time. they don’t follow the office timing to complete the projects. The only demand of the projects is to be completed before deadlines, so people feel free and easy to work a freelancer.

2) when you are working as a freelancer, you can easily join the company by some online websites after that you can start your work from home by only sitting in front of a laptop or desktop. for this, you don’t have to go outside in the company. By this, you can easily work for extra hours and use that work to uplift your work.you have not any requirement to go outside and find out the work so in this way, you can use your travel time in work also.

3) when you are choosing to work as freelancers, you don’t have the requirement of higher academic qualifications. If you have some less academic qualification with that you can easily start your career, in the freelancing field there is the demand of skill, so if you have skills which have demand and also have future, you can start your career with that particular skill. and also learn new skills while working on different projects.

4) when you are working as a freelancer, there is not any limit of work, you can work according to your capacity, and as a freelancer, you are not limited for work only for the company where you live but you have options to work with any company which is located anywhere in the world. So by this option you also various other working skills and know some different work. For this first, you have to sign up for a freelancer online website. And make your profile and also write about your working experience, your skills, and after that place the project according to your skills and the charge that you will charge for that particular project also with the time in which you can complete that project.

5) freelancing is a very good option for students, housewives, and those who want to work and earn some money but have less time. This is also a good option for the college student who wants to work part-time and earn some extra money. For these people, freelance is good because in this you don’t have work for 7month or 1year to confirm your job if you have some skills that are demanding in the field so you can easily work on the project according to your time.

There are millions of people nowadays who work as freelancers and earn lots of money, they not only earn money but doing different projects they also have chance to polished their skill and increase their skills according to the competition.

If you’re someone who wants to learn some skills that are demanding in the world, you can easily find out them on the freelancer website without any extra charge. so by this, you can easily learn the demanding skills.

Hope so this will help you.

10 best things about life that everyone should know

Life is itself a great lesson, but the tragedy is we are so engaged in solving the problems of life so we have no time to see the real game. and we never try to understand the game of life that was cleverly designed by God. If we will be focused on our life we found out that from birth to death person always stuck between right and wrong, I am not saying that we are always wrong but can we try even one time to find out the ‘why’ behind every one single problem.

In this post, we try to point out some problems of life with the help of the 10 best things about life.

1) we all know that behind every single problem of our life. there is some ‘why‘ but how many times we question ourselves and will try to find out that, no we are busy, but we have time to be depressed.

2) we all know that if there is a problem there is a solution to that particular problem. but how many times we try to find out the solution instead of being stressed by the problems and busy blaming God that why they choose us for this problem.

3) when we have questions or doubts related to ourselves, we know that we have the answer but also with that we always try to get the answer from others, but with that answer, we are not even satisfied.

4) life is designed just like a game by God. and if there is a game there are some rules, and if we want to live life fully, we have to follow the rules of life whatever we are happy with them or not.

5) life is not a path of roses for anyone. So don’t increase your imagination about life. from history till now, life is a struggle for everyone who will come on this planet. So learn to enjoy your struggle and do work hard.

6) life has some universal rules like if you want to achieve something you have to made sacrifices. so don’t get emotional when there is a demand for some sacrifices.

7) Be happy in your life, whatever the conditions are, try to be the happiest person in this world. Being sad or depressed will not get something to you. so why are you sad? Be happy and enjoy the struggle.

8) To get inspiration from someone is ok but don’t follow anyone blindly, learn lessons about success and failures from others but try to apply them in your life.

9) if your a zero don’t get depressed, do work hard, and try to become one, but at least try and change your current situation. Because you are the only one who can change your condition. No one else can do that without your efforts.

10) and we all know about all of these above points but can we follow them in our lives, very few people follow, in reality, we are a good adviser but not a good follower. so try to follow not all but at least some rules in the life .

These are some points that I discussed hope so this will help you.

Why relations is important in our life

Relations are the pillars of life I think nobody in this world is happy without any connections or having someone, the relation is a type of bond between the two-person they may be parents and their child, maybe husband and wife, sister and brother, or maybe the two friends. We care about them, love them, and pampered them from all difficulties. And pray for their happiness.

Relations are not only in the human species but other species also feel that connection, when you see the other species of animals you can easily see the connection between them. And this is one of the best things that make all of us different from the machines. No person in the world does not have any relations. If there is any person who does not have any relations by blood from any tragedy they may have lots of friends. But no one is without relations.

But now, we are facing that somehow all the relations lack the real connections nowadays, and gradually all the relations become a type of formality for the people. Who they have to continue anyhow as possible as, there are lots of survey or researches will take place in different medical Institute to find out the importance of relations in individual life. And the result will amaze you that those who have better relations with others have a long life period as compared to those who don’t have better relations.

I am not saying that everyone has always good relations with others. but at least we will give some effort towards them, we never try to understand the importance of relations in our life but now there are so many crises that will directly put figure towards that there is a lack of real connection in our life. There are lots of people who suffer from mental health problems in this world. We understand that some mental disease is not curable but at least we try to cure those people who are suffered from depressions, anxiety, and stress, etc.

When we are talking about mental health problems, try to see the health report of previous years people, and pay attention towards the people from villages, you will find out that they not are only happy but also have a long and healthy life span.so there is something that we lack in our life.

Problems that will develop after lack of connection in relations.

1) there are lots of people suffering from problems like anxiety, stress, and depressions nowadays due to a lack of sharing their pain, thoughts, and feelings with the surrounding people.

2) there are a huge amount of problems will develop with the youngsters, they distracted from their paths. Even the friends know about their problems but they have no guts to share their life problems with their parents.

This problem is not only with the youngsters, but lots of people are suffered from different problems but they can’t share these problems with their loved ones. And when they share their problems with some strangers sometimes problems of taking advantage of that victims also takes place. So the person lacks the confidence of believing in someone.

3) every day there is news of suicide that will appear on the tv screen and the amazing thing is that nobody knows about the reason behind the suicide, not even the family.

4) nowadays, all people want to be happy so the question is why they don’t be happy in their life. We are human. We have not required relations for the photo frames but need a happy life.

Through this post, I only point out one of the problems of society, not condemn someone to so don’t take it personally.

How can anyone easily move on in their life

There are thousands of people in the world that are suffering from this problem. This is not problem that is related to the particular person but I think this is real problem we are facing now.

When we are talking about the move on first thought came into our mind that from the relationship but it is not true ‘move on’ means going forward from the present situations and the situation, maybe whatever for example, someone wants to move on from their failure, from their toxic relationship or any other problem. But whatever the dilemma move on is very important if you don’t want to waste your time. And you are the only ones who have the power to move from the present situations.

So in this post, we focus on some points that will help to move on in your life from the present circumstance.

1) understand the problem

when you are in any of this type of conditions like a breakup, career failure, or any other problem that trapped you in the past and not allow you to move with the present first of all, take some time and try to recognize yourself and understand your pain because no one will feel the condition of yourself, so try to understand it. You are the only one who will change yourself. So self-motivation is a very important thing in this phase of life and you have to try to maintain it, whatever the situation is.

2)Develop new habits

when you are suffering, you have to change your surrounding situation so that your mind has some distraction from the past feelings, for these, you should try to develop new habits like reading books, meeting new people or try to make one new memory per day. This is the only way when you get rid of the past sufferings.

3) Enjoy your own company

If you are the one who doesn’t like to meet new people so there is no compulsion that you have to meet new people. You can enjoy your own company tries to learn more about yourself, your habits, your goods and bad if you are doing the job and have lacking time so you can do this for only 1 hour . but do something that will motivate you, so that you become happy in this present situation.

4) learn some skills

If you have some spare time you can easily use it and try to learn some new skills, that will not only distract you from overthinking but also help you to enjoy various skills. there are lots of things that you will learn like painting, sketching, pottery, writing reading, learn a new language, etc lots of things that not only help you to learn some new things but also activate your mind.

5) avoid overthinking

Overthinking is just like a coupon that we all get after having a problem .there is a chance that we can forget the past situation but overthink never turned this to happen. so first try to avoid overthinking as much as possible. But for avoiding it you also have aware that you are overthinking so first of all try to know that when you are overthinking and that is not necessary .so at least try to avoid it.

Here are some best points that will help you to move on in your life and through these you can also learn some new ideas about how you can avoid being trapped in the past.

Why learning a new skill is important in today’s world

Well, learning different skills become very important in today’s world. Because there is huge competition in every field. If you want to compete in this world and achieve the success you have to surely learn some skills that is the only way to achieve victory.

Everything is changed nowadays like working pattern, selection strategy and also priorities, so if you want to compete with this new era you also have to change and explore some new skills that will help you to achieve success. At this time the pattern of work will change that does not mean the previous pattern is wrong but that pattern will not suit today’s life.

Some points will explain to you about the importance of skills, that how they are important in your life.

1) In today’s world the pattern of work will change. Since 4- 5 years ago, there will demand higher education, academic degree but now there is a demand for skills and the companies also want that their employees have skills, and they will increase the profit of the company.so if you have less Academic qualification this deficiency will be adjusted. But when you have fewer skills this will not a good for you so try to learn more skills.

2) Before 4-5 years, if you are not highly qualified you are not able to find out a good job or work somewhere. But now there is no problem of higher education if you are graduate or not graduate but you have some skills so this will not hamper your life.

3) if you are passionate about something you will earn a good amount of money from your passion. but for that, you have to learn some skills that are highly in demand or there is a requirement of that particular skill in the future. and you have to change yourself like a smartphone, update yourself with the demand.

4) sometimes ago, we see that people always complaints that they don’t want to continue further studies but they have to continue because there was no future without a degree but now time change if you are not interested in further studies you have the option to stop it and And start your career in whatever field where you have an interest, but you have to develop some skills so you will survive in that career because it is huge demand of skill and you have to develop that skills.

5) if you have time you can easily learn more than one skill and those skills will help you to uplift your financial conditions. you can easily handle one or two projects. And in this work, there is no burden because you can learn those skills in which you not only complete the work but also enjoy it. So in this way, you can also enjoy your life while doing work. you can easily understand the situation. And try to develop and evolve skills with time, so you can easily find out the demanding work.

6) The best thing about skills is that first, you have choices that you will learn this thing or not, and when you decide you can learn without any limitations, and if you have some skill that will increase the profit of the company you also have a choice regarding what you will charge for your services. If you are really good at that particular skill, customers have to pay according to the skill, so there is not any loss in learn some skills.

Developed more skills and become creative, there is the era of quality, not quantity because the machine is also doing work, so ask one question to yourself if the machine can do the same work that you will do then, why the companies will hire you .