Nurturing Bonds: Exploring Family and Social Structures

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Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you.

Family and social structures serve as the cornerstone of human society, providing support, guidance, and a sense of belonging. These intricate webs of relationships shape our identities, influence our behaviors, and contribute significantly to our overall well-being. Understanding the dynamics of family and social structures offers insights into the fabric of society and the mechanisms through which individuals interact and thrive.

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The Importance of Family: Family, in its various forms, plays a pivotal role in shaping individuals from early childhood through adulthood. The nuclear family, consisting of parents and their children, forms the basic unit of society. Within this unit, familial bonds are nurtured, values are transmitted, and emotional support is provided. Beyond the nuclear family, extended families, comprising relatives such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, offer additional layers of support and interconnectedness.

The family serves as a primary agent of socialization, imparting cultural norms, values, and traditions to its members. Through interactions within the family unit, individuals learn essential life skills, develop their identities, and acquire social roles. Moreover, the family provides emotional security and serves as a buffer against the stresses of life, fostering resilience and cohesion.

Variations in family structures exist across cultures and societies, reflecting diverse norms, beliefs, and practices. While some societies emphasize extended family networks and communal living arrangements, others prioritize nuclear family units and individual autonomy. These variations underscore the adaptive nature of family structures in response to socio-cultural contexts and economic realities.

Challenges and Transformations: Despite its significance, the traditional notion of the family has undergone considerable transformation in recent decades. Socioeconomic changes, such as urbanization, globalization, and economic disparities, have reshaped family dynamics and roles. Factors such as increased mobility, dual-career households, and shifting gender norms have altered traditional family patterns, leading to greater diversity in family structures and functions.

Challenges such as family breakdown, divorce, and single-parent households highlight the complexities inherent in contemporary family life. While these changes may pose challenges, they also offer opportunities for redefining family roles, fostering inclusivity, and promoting resilience. Moreover, alternative family arrangements, including blended families, same-sex partnerships, and chosen families, challenge conventional norms and expand the notion of kinship and support networks.

Social Structures and Community: Beyond the family unit, social structures encompass broader networks of relationships and affiliations within society. These structures include friendships, community organizations, religious institutions, and professional networks, among others. Social structures provide avenues for social interaction, cooperation, and collective action, contributing to social cohesion and mutual support.

Communities serve as essential extensions of the family, offering additional layers of social support and belonging. Within communities, individuals forge connections, share resources, and collaborate on shared goals and interests. Moreover, communities play a vital role in fostering social capital, promoting civic engagement, and addressing collective challenges such as poverty, inequality, and social injustice.

Conclusion: Family and social structures form the scaffolding of human society, shaping our identities, relationships, and experiences. From the intimate bonds of the family unit to the broader networks of community and society, these structures provide the foundation for individual growth, collective well-being, and societal resilience. As society continues to evolve, understanding and nurturing these bonds are essential for fostering inclusive, thriving communities where all individuals can flourish.

Understanding the Dynamics of Caste and Creed: A Societal Examination

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What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

Caste and creed are two intricately intertwined concepts that have deeply influenced societies across the globe for centuries. Both terms carry significant weight in shaping social structures, cultural identities, and individual experiences. While often discussed separately, understanding their interplay is crucial for comprehending the complexities of societal dynamics.

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Caste: An Ancient Social Hierarchy

Caste refers to a hereditary social class system prevalent in many societies, notably in South Asia. Originating from ancient Hindu scriptures, caste delineates societal stratification based on birth, occupation, and social status. Traditionally, society was divided into four main castes, namely Brahmins (priests and scholars), Kshatriyas (warriors and rulers), Vaishyas (merchants and traders), and Shudras (laborers and artisans), with Dalits (formerly known as “untouchables”) marginalized outside this system.

Caste dictates various aspects of life, including occupation, marriage, and social interactions, often determining an individual’s opportunities and privileges. Despite legal abolishment and efforts towards social reform, caste-based discrimination and prejudice persist, perpetuating inequalities and hindering social mobility.

Creed: The Essence of Belief

Creed encompasses a set of beliefs or principles that guide an individual’s religious, spiritual, or philosophical convictions. It transcends mere religious affiliation, encompassing ideologies, values, and worldviews that shape one’s identity and interactions with the world. Creed influences moral conduct, societal norms, and cultural practices, providing a framework for individual and collective behavior.

Religious creed, in particular, holds immense significance in shaping communities and societies worldwide. It fosters solidarity among adherents, serving as a source of comfort, guidance, and communal identity. However, creed can also be a source of division, leading to sectarianism, intolerance, and conflict when differences are perceived as threats to established norms or power structures.

Interplay of Caste and Creed

The intersection of caste and creed profoundly influences social dynamics, particularly in regions where both concepts are deeply ingrained in the fabric of society. Religious communities often align with specific caste groups, intertwining religious identity with social status and cultural practices. This intersectionality manifests in various ways:

  1. Caste-Based Exclusivity within Religious Communities: In some societies, caste serves as a determinant of access and participation within religious institutions and rituals. Certain castes may be marginalized or excluded from full participation in religious activities, reinforcing social hierarchies within religious frameworks.
  2. Inter-Caste Marriage and Social Stigma: Inter-caste marriages challenge traditional social norms and face resistance from families and communities adhering to strict caste boundaries. Religious creed may exacerbate these tensions, as marriage is not only a union of individuals but also a merging of social identities and cultural practices.
  3. Political Mobilization and Identity Politics: Caste and religious identities often intersect in the political arena, with leaders mobilizing support based on shared caste or religious affiliations. This exploitation of identity politics can deepen divisions and perpetuate social inequalities, hindering efforts towards inclusive governance and social cohesion.
  4. Resistance and Reform Movements: Despite the entrenched nature of caste-based discrimination, religious creed has also been a catalyst for social reform movements advocating for equality and justice. Leaders from marginalized caste groups have drawn inspiration from religious teachings to challenge oppressive systems and promote social change.

Challenges and Pathways Forward

Addressing the complexities of caste and creed requires a multifaceted approach that acknowledges historical injustices, respects cultural diversity, and promotes inclusive social policies. Key considerations include:

  1. Legal Protections and Enforcement: Robust legal frameworks are essential for combating caste-based discrimination and ensuring the rights of marginalized communities. Efforts to enforce anti-discrimination laws must be accompanied by awareness campaigns and capacity-building initiatives to foster social inclusion.
  2. Education and Awareness: Education plays a vital role in challenging entrenched beliefs and fostering empathy and understanding across caste and religious divides. Incorporating diverse perspectives into curricula and promoting interfaith dialogue can contribute to building more tolerant and cohesive societies.
  3. Community Empowerment and Dialogue: Grassroots initiatives that empower marginalized communities and facilitate dialogue between different caste and religious groups are crucial for fostering social cohesion. By promoting mutual understanding and cooperation, communities can work towards dismantling barriers and building inclusive societies.
  4. Promotion of Intersectional Approaches: Recognizing the intersectionality of caste, creed, gender, and other forms of identity is essential for developing holistic solutions to social inequalities. Policies and programs should address multiple dimensions of discrimination to ensure that no individual or community is left behind.

In conclusion, the interplay of caste and creed shapes the social, cultural, and political landscapes of many societies, presenting both challenges and opportunities for social cohesion and justice. By addressing entrenched prejudices, promoting inclusive policies, and fostering dialogue and solidarity, societies can strive towards a more equitable and harmonious future.

Seven Ages of Man: Summary

In the poem, Seven Ages of Man Shakespeare compares the entire world to a theatrical stage, where all the human beings perform their allotted role given by the God. Every individual has to go through seven acts that are seven stages of man’s life. Shakespeare has divided human life into seven stages, with each stage having its own qualities and characteristics. Shakespeare considers the world a stage and men and women actors on the stage of life. They play seven roles on the stage depending upon their age.

The first stage, in this phase of his life man, appears as a child in the world. As a child, he is a helpless creature. He cries in the arms of his nurse for one reason or the other. He cries and vomits.

The next phase of his life man appears as a child in the world. He goes to school with a bag hanging from his shoulder. He goes to the school creeping like a snail. He marches to the school unwillingly.

In the third stage of his life, a man plays the part of a lover. He grows into a young man full of desires, ambitions, and dreams. He becomes a romantic young man. He falls in love and sights like a furnace. He begins to write sad poems to his beloved he cannot control his sad feelings.

In the fourth stage of his life man becomes a foul-mouthed soldier who has learned queer words at this stage, he tries to give himself a formidable look with a beard like a part. He is emotional and jealous. He quarrels with others for his honor and grace. He hankers after temporary and bubble fame.

In the fifth stage of his life, he becomes a judge. He becomes mature and experienced in his thoughts. The heat of youth has completely cooled down and he becomes very realistic. He wishes to grab wealth by foul or fair means. He begins to accept bribe and thus adds much to his material comforts. He becomes ease-loving and therefore becomes fat. His belly becomes round. He eats healthy fowls and chicken presented to him as a bribe. His eyes become severe and he grows the beard of formal cut.

Then, in the sixth stage of his life, man grows old. He looks quite ridiculous in his movements. He wears glasses because his eyesight is weak. His shoes become wide for his feet. His voice suffers a change. It becomes a shrill and quivering whistle

However, in the final stage, the man turns into a child once again. He seems to forget everything. He becomes ‘toothless’. His eyesight is weakened and he is deprived of taste. He is ready to leave this world.

Shakespeare has the seven stages of man’s life with a touch of satire and cynicism. In each stage, man imagines himself great and important, but there is something ridiculous in his behavior all through his life. Shakespeare has described each of the man’s life stage with great economy of words. He uses living and concrete images to describe the different stages of life. The use of the word ‘mewling’ of the infant’s cry and the school boy’s reluctance for going to school described in phases ‘creeping like a snail’ are examples of living images.

SDG 2 : Zero Hunger.

In 2012, at the United Nations (UN) Conferences on Sustainable Development in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, world representatives created the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs). The purpose of creating SDGs was to produce a set of universal goals that meet the urgent environmental, political and economic challenges facing our world, according to the UN Development Programme. There are 17 SDGs that the UN hopes to meet by 2030, the second of which is Zero Hunger. More than 800 million people around the world are hungry. The United Nations’s second Sustainable Development Goal, Zero Hunger, aims to end world hunger by 2030.

Hunger is not caused by food shortage alone, but by a combination of natural, social, and political forces. Currently, natural resources that are necessary for human survival—like freshwater, the ocean, forests, soils, and more—are dwindling. Climate change is contributing to the degradation of precious resources, as severe weather events, like droughts, become more common and affect harvests, leading to less food for human consumption. Poverty and inequality are also two drivers of hunger, affecting who can buy food, as well as what kind of food, and how much, is available. Hunger is also a product of war and conflict. During periods of unrest, a country’s economy and infrastructure can become severely damaged. This negatively affects civilian access to food by either driving up food prices, interfering with food production, or forcing people from their homes. Some governments and military groups have even used starvation as a war tactic, cutting off civilians from their food supply. In 2018, the UN declared this tactic a war crime.

The total number of persons suffering from severe food insecurity has been on the rise since 2015, and there are still millions of malnourished children. The economic slowdown and the disruption of food value chains caused by the pandemic are exacerbating hunger and food insecurity. In addition, the upsurge in desert locusts remains alarming in East Africa and Yemen, where 35 million persons already experience acute food insecurity. Owing to the pandemic, some 370 million schoolchildren are missing the free school meals that they rely on. Measures to strengthen food production and distribution systems must be taken immediately to mitigate and minimize the impacts of the pandemic.

The world is not on track to achieve Zero Hunger by 2030. If recent trends continue, the number of people affected by hunger would surpass 840 million by 2030. According to the World Food Programme, 135 million suffer from acute hunger largely due to man-made conflicts, climate change and economic downturns. The COVID-19 pandemic could now double that number, putting an additional 130 million people at risk of suffering acute hunger by the end of 2020.

ROLE OF FAMILY,SOCIETY AND EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS IN INCULCATIONG VALUES

Family, society, and educational institutions play a very major role in building one’s character or personality. These institutions impart value to an individual and help them become a better person in society. One learns what one listens. Young children very much learn what they see around them. If they see good they learn good and if they see bad they will learn that as well. The role of family is important because an individual lives there and learns from there, society influences an individual’s behaviour and educational institutions are where an individual learns. Now we’ll see how these factors help in inculcating values in an individual.

ROLE OF FAMILY

Family is a place where one grows, and learns the most. Just like the saying charity begins at home similarly an individual’s education starts from home. It is like a foundation where values are built. Values like respecting elders, honesty, justice, respect for both genders all taught at home. If within a family there are differences or if the home environment is not healthy then this also affects the individual. The values practised by the other members of the family also shapes the child’s attitude towards other people or towards the society. Values like love, care, protection all these start from family. If a child experiences love, care, comfort then he/she will have a positive attitude toward others and will behave the same with others and will inspire others as well. Family’s environment will help a child to socialise and progress in the society.

The system of joint family that is the presence of elder family members also has a great influence on an individual. It helps in developing social and moral values. They learn human values and respecting elders and this will help in eradicating negative mental tendencies when they are among elders. In a family an individual not only learns about values but also about their customs and culture and enhancing one’s culture proudly is also a very good value. The attitude of one family member towards another also affects individual behaviour. For example if child see his father not respecting his mother then he may feel that this is how it is supposed to be and he may also do the same thing with his wife but if he sees his father respecting her mother, giving her importance which she deserves the he will also treat his wife in respective manner so it is very important for a family to not just inculcate good values to the younger generation but they themselves should have good value so the future generation could learn from them.

The values that are taught in the family helps a child to learn, grow and progress in the society. Family values enhance a child’s personality and character and help them in becoming a better human being.

ROLE OF SOCIETY

When we grow older our social world also expands, now not only family but we become a part of society. Society also plays an important role in inculcating values. When a child grows it goes outside to make friends and share each other’s thoughts. Society also shapes an individual’s character. Societies follow certain traditions and customs and being a part of the society, we are also a part of these customs and traditions. These customs and traditions are being followed from generations and these are based on values such as loyalty, courage, love and brotherhood. We celebrate different festivals together which portray love and happiness and we not only celebrate festivals of one tradition or religion, but being part of such a diverse country we get to enjoy festivals and customs of different religions which shows mutual respect towards each other and toward different individuals in a society. Religion is a very important social institution in our Indian society and these religions are embedded with cultural values. Society creates social order, the diversity present in our society teaches mutual love, respect and inculcates a variety of values and holistic development of individuals. The social influence and the urge to become an inspiring personality in a society helps in developing good values in an individual. The great inspiring personalities, influencer leaders and celebrities also have a great influence in society. Young individuals learn and get inspired by them so it is also an important job for these powerful personalities to set a good example for the younger generation.

ROLE OF EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS

Apart from home, a child spends most of his/her time at school. The first formal place of socialisation and the first and foremost important value that it teaches is discipline. The educational institutions have a proper disciplined environment. In an educational institution, the day starts with the prayer which teaches gratitude. Different school activities inculcate different values such as teamwork, sportsmanship spirit, competitiveness, etc. Different programs of Community work help in inculcating values like empathy, care, unity, etc. Peer groups also play an important role, students often get feedback about their behaviour from their fellow classmates or friends. Teachers also act as role models for the students, when a teacher asks students to behave in a certain manner then they tend to take it more seriously as compared to any family member or friend. The reward and punishment system also helps as children behave in a good manner for rewards and to protect their self esteem from getting punished. Every school or educational institution has their philosophy or motto and these help in inculcation of good values.

“Intelligence plus character, that is the true goal of education”. – Martin Luther King

Value is something that is not restricted to a certain age or gender or place. It is something which is lifelong, it can be learned at any age and be practiced throughout one’s life. Good values build one character and make an individual a better human being . A man with good values is respected everywhere in the society so it is very important to inculcate good values in life. There are different characters in an individual life that add to his/her character and personality. The influence of family, society and educational institutions have the strongest influence upon an individual and thus it affects in developing an individual personality whether positively or negatively.  

Sources: diyethics.forumias.com

What is society?

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Man is a social animal. Psychologists like McDougall say that man is social because of the basic human instinct called gregarious instinct. Gregariousness refers to the tendency of man to live in groups. He lives in social groups, in communities and in societies. Various cases show that ‘man can become man only among men”. Man is biologically and psychologically equipped to live in groups and solitary life is unbearable to him. We very often use words such as groups, community, society, etc., in our day-to-day life. These are not merely words, they are concepts. They carry some precise meaning.

The term society is derived from the Latin word ‘socius’, which means companionship or friendship. Companionship means sociability. As George Simmel pointed out, it is this element of sociability which defines the true essence of society. It indicates that man always lives in the company of other people. Man needs society for his living, working and enjoying life. Society has become an essential condition for human life to arise and to continue. Human life and society always go together.

Some definitions of Society:

1. Morris Ginsberg said, “A society is a collection of individuals united by certain relations or mode of behavior which mark them off from others who do not enter into these relations or who differ from their behavior.”

2. MacIver defined society as “a web of social relationship”.

3. G.D.M. Cole said “Society is the complex of organized associations and institutions with a community”.

Characteristics of Society:

1. Society consists of people: Without people there can be no social relationships, no social life and hence no society.

2. Mutual interaction and mutual awareness: Mutual interaction refers to the reciprocal contact between two or more persons. An individual is a member of the society so long as he engages in relationship with other members of society. Social interaction is possible because of mutual awareness. Social relationships exist only when the members are aware of each other. Society exists only where social beings ‘behave’ towards one another in ways determined by their recognition of one another.

3. Society depends on likeliness: Likeliness refers to the similarities. Just as ‘birds of the same feather flock together’, men belonging to the species called homo-sapiens have many things in common. Society in brief, exists among like beings and likeminded.

4. Society rests on differences too: If men are exactly alike, their social relationships would be very much limited. There would be little give-and-take, little reciprocity. Life becomes boring, monotonous and uninteresting if differences are not there. However, differences alone cannot create society. It is subordinate to likeliness.

5. Co-operation and division of labor: Likeliness and differences create division of labor. It involves the assignment to each unit or group a specific share of common task. Division of labor needs specialization. Society is based on co-operation. It refers to the mutual working together for the attainment of a common goal.

6. Society is dynamic: Change is ever present in society. Changeability is an inherent quality of human society.

7. Social control: Society has its own ways of regulating the behavior of its members. These ways can be formal such as, law, legislation, police, court, etc., and informal such as customs, traditions, manners, etc.

8. Culture: Culture refers to, as Linton says, the social heritage of man. Culture is not society, but an element of society that binds together its component individuals.

Man depends on society for protection and comfort, for nurture and education from old age to death. Society makes our life livable. Society is, therefore, as MacIver puts it, more than our environment. It is within us as well as around us. It liberates and controls our talents and capacities. It stimulates the growth of our personality. Emotional development, intellectual maturity, satisfaction of physical needs and material comfort are unthinkable without society.

The Anti-Apartheid Movement

Apartheid means separateness. Apartheid was a system of legal racial segregation enforced by the South African National Party government between 1948 and 1994. This system created a society of enormous repression for black South Africans. Apartheid was characterized by an authoritarian political culture based on baasskap, which ensured that South Africa was dominated politically, socially, and economically by the nation’s minority white population. According to this system of social stratification, white citizens had the highest status, followed by Indians and Coloureds, then black Africans. The economic legacy and social effects of apartheid continue to the present day.

The anti-apartheid movement was the first successful transnational social movement in the era of globalization. The movement began after a massive turnout by rural Afrikaners gave Rev. Daniel Malan’s Nationalist Party a majority of five seats in the whites-only Parliament of the Union of South Africa on May 26, 1948. The Nationalists won on a racist platform that played on white fears of the “black threat” and promised to establish strict “apartheid” or separate development policies to counter it. British Anglican archbishop Trevor Huddleston was a leader in the campaign against apartheid, an official system of discrimination against non-whites in South Africa. His efforts helped bring that struggle to the world’s attention

What is unique about the anti-apartheid movement is the extent of support it received from individuals, governments and organizations on all continents. Few social movements in history have garnered anywhere near the international support that was mobilized against the racist apartheid regime in South Africa. Although national liberation and Marxism might both be considered as successful, trans-national social movements, neither of these had the global support that the anti-apartheid movement garnered.

There were two main aspects of the anti-apartheid movement: the internal campaign to destabilize the racist apartheid regime in South Africa, and the external campaign for political, economic, and cultural sanctions. At the heart of the movement was the struggle of black Africans to end white supremacy in South Africa. This internal movement was both a catalyst for actions at the international level and the critical link that gave coherence to the movement as a whole. The external effort can be divided into two fronts: (1) regional efforts to provide military bases, material, and diplomatic support for liberation movements; and (2) the diaspora movement, which focused on seeking international sanctions against the regime and providing direct aid to the liberation movements.The internal struggle within South Africa was the core of the movement, and it served as a catalyst for regional and international support movements. This effort emerged to oppose apartheid legislation imposed after the all-white election of 1948.

Nelson Mandela’s contribution

The man we know behind this movement is Nelson Mandela.  Under apartheid, the South African population was divided into four distinct racial groups: white (including Afrikaners, who speak a Germanic language called Afrikaans), black, colored, and Indian. Strict residential, economic, and social segregation was enforced on the basis of these racial categories. Non-whites were not allowed to vote in national election. Moreover, apartheid saw the institution of the “homeland system,” in which the government sought to establish separate states for members of each of the country’s many black ethnic groups. This often involved the forced removal of families from their original homes to the newly-created “bantustans” (or ethnic states). In other cases, it meant breaking up interracial and inter-ethnic families. While non-whites were confined to squalid ghettoes with few decent educational and employment opportunities, whites were afforded the basic privileges of life in a democracy.

 In a 1955 article, Nelson Mandela—then a leading activist in the growing fight against apartheid—described the horrors of the system and the brutal means by which it was enforced:The breaking up of African homes and families and the forcible separation of children from mothers, the harsh treatment meted out to African prisoners, and the forcible detention of Africans in farm colonies for spurious statutory offenses are a few examples of the actual workings of the hideous and pernicious doctrines of racial inequality. To these can be added scores of thousands of foul misdeeds committed against the people by the government: the denial to the non-European people of the elementary rights of free citizenship; the expropriation of the people from their lands and homes to assuage the insatiable appetites of European land barons and industrialists; the flogging and calculated murder of African laborers by European farmers in the countryside for being “cheeky to the baas”; the vicious manner in which African workers are beaten up by the police and flung into jails when they down tools to win their demands; the fostering of contempt and hatred for non-Europeans; the fanning of racial prejudice between whites and non-whites, between the various non-white groups; the splitting of Africans into small hostile tribal units; the instigation of one group or tribe against another; the banning of active workers from the people`s organizations, and their confinement into certain areas.

Because of the injustices it perpetuated, the apartheid system gave rise to a broad resistance movement. The primary organization leading the struggle against apartheid was the African National Congress (ANC). The ANC was founded in 1913 in response to the oppression of non-white South Africans at the hands of the white ruling class. In 1943, Nelson Mandela—then a law student—joined the ANC and co-founded its youth division, the ANCYL. Mandela and other young activists had begun to advocate for a mass campaign of agitation against apartheid. In 1949, the ANCYL gained control of the ANC and a year later Mandela was elected national president of the ANCYL. Around this time, Mandela’s political outlook began to shift: while he had previously opposed cross-racial unity in the fight against apartheid, he came to be influenced by the writings of socialist thinkers who supported organizing across racial lines. He was also influenced by the nonviolent strategies of Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi was himself a resident of South Africa for more than 20 years, from 1893 to 1914.

Mandela and other political prisoners engaged in many political debates and discussion.  The prison on Robben Island, where Mandela stayed for 20 years, was sometimes called “University of Robben Island.”

Although he was sidelined from direct participation in the movement while in prison, Mandela became a symbol—both in South Africa and internationally—of the struggle against injustice. During his imprisonment on Robben Island,  the fight against apartheid continued. New organizations and leaders emerged to advance the cause, and thousands of average South Africans risked their lives to resist the brutal system.  A powerful international movement included  boycotts and bans of South African goods; protests, including massive civil disobedience; and an explosion of music and art demanding the end of apartheid and the freeing of Nelson Mandela and other political prisoners. 

Violence and instability grew within South Africa. The apartheid government faced increasing domestic and international pressure. In 1985, then President P.W. Botha offered to release Mandela from prison if he agreed to “unconditionally reject violence as a political weapon.” Mandela refused the offer. He wrote: “What freedom am I being offered while the organization of the people remains banned? Only free men can negotiate. A prisoner cannot enter into contracts.”

Despite his recognition as a central figure in the fight against apartheid, Mandela has always been quick to note that he was not personally responsible for its overthrow. As he said upon his release from prison in 1990: “I stand here before you not as a prophet but as a humble servant of you, the people. Your tireless and heroic sacrifices have made it possible for me to be here today. I therefore place the remaining years of my life in your hands.” Mandela’s courage is inspiring and his story is dramatic, but he did not end apartheid alone. In South Africa and around the world, people were inspired by Mandela’s example. They recognized that there would never be freedom in South Africa unless many people took action. In South Africa, many died in the struggle for freedom.

Sexual Harassment

Sexual harassment include a refers to any sort of sexual behaviour that is unsolicited, overawed, abhorrent, disrespectful and humiliating. It took over decades for people to recognize sexual harassment as a real serious issue. However, it is still overlooked in the rural areas.

It is not just a single form. Any way of unwanted touch, grab or attempt to make physical contract without one’s consent, all are considered as inappropriate behaviour. Even staring and leering, someone asking for sexual favours and display of offensive and rude material by the perpetrator for others to see it also counts in. Another form may include cracking of sexual jokes and comments and making of sexual signs or gestures towards oneself. It is unacceptable for an individual to question oneself about their sexual life or humiliate oneself by absurd sexual remarks. Further, the sexual harassment also counts in indecently exposing of oneself or making salacious phone calls. Any of such form of sexual harassment is against the law.

Such inappropriate behaviour turns out to be much fatal. Sexual harassment leaves a deep impact on oneself. At times, the victims are so much stressed out that they even suffer from depression or anxiety. Apart from these, the victims often suffer by several significant psychological effects such as sleeping disorder, headaches, sexual dysfunction, plunked self esteem and many more. Furthermore, it can also cause them to withdraw from social situations. As a result, the victim starts loosing confidence and pride.

In this world, none deserves to be ill treated or be victim to any form of inappropriate behaviour and this implies to both men and women. Each and every individual has the right to live a life free from bullying, any sort of discrimination or harassment. Therefore, sexual harassment is illegal. As mentioned in Section 354 (A) of the Indian Penal Code-“A man committing any physical contact, advances involving unwelcome and explicit sexual overtures; or demanding or requesting sexual favours; or showing pornography against the will of a woman; or making sexually coloured remarks, shall be guilty of the offence of sexual harassment. It entails a punishment of rigorous imprisonment for a term which may extend to three years.”

It is essential to notice the signs or gestures if oneself feels that someone is harassing them sexually. One of such significant sign is if oneself feels uncomfortable and experience any unwelcomed physical contact. One must keep themselves updated with the policies and procedures against sexual harassment. If anyone unfortunately comes out to be a victim, then that person should try to get external information and acquire advice from people who can help them in filing a lawsuit. Similarily, one must make sure to save any evidence they get which would help them with their complaint. Likewise, one must never deal with it alone, rather try to share it with closed ones to lighten the burden.

To conclude, sexual harassment took a long time to be recognized as a real issue but now ii is no more un acknowledged. Thus, it is necessary to take effective measures against such practice and try to prevent the fatal damage that it causes to the victims. People need to understand that if someone says no it means no. However, if an individual’s no does not have any impact and is continued being subjected to sexual jokes then, its high time to realize that he/she is being sexually harassed. Therefore, it is essential to help out those who are being victim to such harassments and make the perpetrator liable for their repulsive act.

“It’s not consent if you make me afraid to say NO”

-Anonymous

Student Suicides: What are the deep rooted problems?

In India, as the word ‘suicide’ is heard, one assumingly conclude the reason to be some exam failure. However, in the recent years, the pandemic was quite traumatic for the students as their number of suicides spiked to high numbers pointing to some entirely different facts. In India, the rate of suicides among the youth is one of the highest worldwide. According to various surveys, it has been observed that about 72% of the students (today even more) are not capable of handling pressure and as a result have fragmentated relation with family and friends. The pressure of the society has seemingly been reduced to near 14 years from 19 years of age.

  • Mental Illness

Today, one of the important cause of suicide is mental illness. Mental health was earlier considered a taboo subject in India but few recent instances has made it the talk of the town. The lives ended by students were more in the recent pandemic years as stated by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB). The mental health issue was identified as due to COVID lockdown, the students were compelled to stay at homes being debarred from emotional socialisation and physical classrooms for about more than a year. The students were traumatized by uncertainty of things happening around. They were unwillingly compelled to deal with fear and tension.

  • Forced Career Choices

The decision to choose the specific course or career has always been very pressurizing for the students. As a result, many submit to such pressure made by the family and teachers. The students must be allowed to lead a dream of their desire. It is believed by the parents that medical, engineering and law are the only prestigious career options. However, they fail to recognize that Arts and other courses are also interesting and they also offer a well paying career ahead. Thus, it can be inferred that in the society, there may be awareness about new subjects but the basic acceptability is still absent.

  • Silence

In many suicidal cases, the cause of suicide remains undiscovered. The students fail to communicate or rather express their emotions to anyone. They find it difficult to share their feelings and the pressure bothering them even to their parents. The gap between the generations sometimes seems so wide that the child feels uncomfortable in expressing their concerns to their parents even for once. Many questions arises, such as why was silence chosen by them, why they had to suffer, why could they not seek help even from their closed ones?

  • Poor Education System

Our education system is also a cause for such suicides. The desire to get admission in the top-notch universities build so much pressure inside the students that some succumb up to such stress and are forced to take some serious steps. The exposure of the students to such do or die situation and the fear to end up doing nothing haunts them terribly. The measure to secure a seat in a decent college by requirement of minimum percentage effects the students in large scale.

The deep rooted problems such as the pressure of the society and the various loopholes in the system of education needs to be concentrated thoroughly. The colleges should provide a friendly and healthy environment and also there is a need for a counselling center in every institution. The capability and caliber of every individual must be understood by their teachers and parents. The students should not be judged on their poor academic performance, rather they should be encouraged to perform better. As blaming and holding them responsible would only add up to their miseries and they might suffer in silence lonely. The students must be made aware of the various possible outcomes in life and also the methods to deal with problems. They should understand that suicide is not a solution to such problems, rather it brings much more miseries. Apart from subjective studies, great emphasis should be given on emotional strength. If one seek for help, look around there are psychologists, counsellors, special friends who are more than willing to help in order to endure it.

” Suicide doesn’t solve problems. It only makes them infinitely, un-countably worse.”

– Sinead O’ Connor

Indian spirituality

In India there is a discipline prescribed for the gradual evolution of the human individual by stages of

(1) education,

(2) adjustment of oneself with the demands of natural and social living and,

(3) an austere detachment from the usual entanglements in life and

(4) final rootedness of oneself in God. This last mentioned stage is known as Sannyasa and the first two stages are the religious disciplines preparing a person for the third and the fourth stages.



Religion has its various restrictions imposed on a person, keeping all human activity confined to specific areas of living with its several do’s and don’ts – ‘do this’ and ‘do not do that’. There cannot be any religion without these two mandates imposed on man. People in the first two stages of life mentioned above are placed under an obligation to follow these dos and don’ts of religion in social behaviour, in personal conduct and dealings with people in any manner whatsoever. Every religion has these ordinances defining the duties, which are religious, whether in the form of ritual, worship, or pilgrimage and even in diet, daily ablution, and an exclusive literal devotion to the word of the scripture of the religion. These restrictions are lifted in the third stage where the life of a person is mainly an internal operation of thought, feeling and understanding and not connected with human society in any way.

Communication, but non-verbal ones!

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Communication is an important tool for us to share our thoughts and ideas with each other. When we use this tool to associate with strangers, it has to be done skillfully. Thus the term communication skills became generic and many people began teaching them or learning them. However, communication need not be confined to typical speech and verbal boundaries. Your facial expressions and gestures also communicate your thoughts to the intended audience. Thus, proving the existence of non-verbal communication. 

Non-verbal communication 

The key to a successful personal or professional relationship lies in your communication skills. But it is not simply the words you use that counts. The non-verbal communication you make with your facial expressions, mannerisms, and gestures brings a lot of difference in a situation. These non-verbal cues are often expressed in a subconscious state of mind. 

While communicating with a person, you send silent messages apart from a typical speech with your expressions, tone of speech and posture. These non-verbal cues have the power to attract and draw the audience’s attention towards you or leave them confused and withdrawn from you. 

Sometimes, the message we convey from our verbal communication is different from the one we express through our non-verbal communication. For example, saying you are happy as you put up a sad face. This renders the audience in a confused state of mind regarding believing the verbal or non-verbal cues.  Finally, they may choose to follow the non-verbal cues as it is often expressed in a subconscious manner. 

 Segments of non-verbal communication

Now that you may know the importance of non-verbal communication, let us look at some of the segments of non-verbal communication in detail. 

Facial Expressions

Whether you are happy or sad, most probably your peers can identify the way you feel. How is that possible? It’s your facial expressions that give your feelings away. Facial expressions are a significant part of non-verbal communication. There are so many things you convey with your smile or frown. People’s forms of expression differ across different regions and cultures. But facial expressions conveying basic emotions such as anger, fear, happiness or sadness are universal. 

Gestures

Although non-verbal communication is said to occur in a subconscious or an un-intentional manner. Some deliberate gestures also help convey a message or statement. We may wave our hand to gain someone’s attention or point a finger somewhere to give out directions to a person. These are some of the deliberate non-verbal communications we make in our day to day lives. 

Paralinguistics

Paralinguistics is a form of verbal communication that is seperate from the language quotient. It is inclusive of vocal factors such as tone of voice, pitch and loudness. To put it into perspective, the tone of voice alters the effect of the linguistic communication that you make. A statement being produced by a strong and confident tone gains approval and enthusiasm from the audience. The similar statement provided with hesitation receives lack of enthusiasm and support. 

When your friend asks you how you’re feeling, you may say you’re fine. But your certain degree of fineness is revealed by the tone in which you delivered your statement. 

Eye Gaze

Our eyes do speak volumes. When you see someone or something you love and adore, your eyes start to blink and your pupils begin to dilate. Thus forming an important segment of non-verbal communication. Blinking, staring and simply looking are some of the ways we communicate with our eyes. 

On the other hand, people may observe your eye gaze to determine your degree of honesty and trustworthiness.  By maintaining a steady and normal eye contact, you are perceived as an honest and trustworthy person. But the inability to maintain eye contact or having a shaky gaze may be considered as unreliable. 

Hoptics

Hoptics is a mode of communicating through physical touch. It also forms an important segment in non-verbal communication. A gentle touch or pat on the shoulder conveys warmth and affection. This form of communication is intense and must be treated with immense care. We tend to utilise this form of communication with people we know very well. A touch can be perceived as both appropriate and inappropriate based on where and how a person is touched. 

Appearances

Does the guy wearing a suit, sitting across you give out professional and business vibes? It is because that is what he communicated to you silently through his choice of clothing. Your choice of colour, clothing, hairstyle and overall appearance makes a non-verbal communication with others that allows them to have first impressions about you. That’s why we would prefer going shopping for a new attractive attire for a potential date or party to make a positive first impression. 

  “Few realize how loud their expressions really are. Be kind with what you wordlessly say,” says Richelle E. Goodrich, which stands true in regards to non-verbal communication. 

References

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/nonverbal-communication

https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-nonverbal-communication-2795397

Role of Women in Shaping Society

Women plays a crucial role in developing any society. Freedom of Independence has been suppressed from the ancient times but, the woman have fought for their rights in the history and fighting for themselves in today too. Now this need to be taken into consideration that even today the women have to prove themselves that they worth being treated equal to their mens counterpart.

Women have fight for everything which the men automatically gets as their birth privilege, because of which women they have value for each of these things. The situation good in urban areas but the womens in rural area face domestic violence, mental torture, not allowed to work or study. The are forced to limit their world in a small house.

In this I does not mean that every women are facing this level of injustice in rural area, but even if one of them is facing this that is going to impact the whole family of her, as if she have a daughter she will suppress her and if she have a son he will be learning same thing to disobey women. As one rightly said that have men gets educated he gets educated alone, but when women gets educated a whole family gets educated.

In some or the other sence always a women gets questioned for her deeds, she always has to prove herself better than a men to get appreciated. We have to actually change the mentality that be like a boy, no just be yourself. We have to change a stereotype that she walks like a men, he walks like a girl, this is the work of men, that is the work of women.

Is the world becoming a meme?

I feel in today’s time, you are truly successful if a meme is based on you.

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Made this meme as soon as I decided to write on this topic.

What is a meme?

The word meme is the short form of greek word mīmēma which means ‘imitated thing’. According to Wikipedia, a humorous image, video or text that is copied and rapidly spread by the internet users. It has become a lifestyle through which people give out their creativity. The reason it has become so popular is the connection viewers feel between them and the events portrayed.
With the rise in meme culture, meme makers that are known as memers have increased incredibly since, its not a tough task to make a meme, but being consistent and up to date is an important and must to have skill. With the decline in humour of COMEDY industry memes have come as life saviors.

How it came into existence

Memes have literally evolved with the internet and they became a thing in the mid 1990s. Memes in the form of short clips were shared by peope in usenet forums. People put their humor into the right place or as we see a right template. Earlier they were shared via mails, messages or even newspapers and as the electronics took over social media became a meme hub. It has become an important aspect of marketing strategy. Whenever a movie is about to be released, memes related to it are all over the internet, a very smart move by the marketing people because what’s better than meme when you want your stuff to be known by the audience.

Pros of meme

Meme shared by Dominos_india on twitter.
  1. Gives us a reason to SMILE: Feeling bored? Scroll through social media memes. Sad? Obviously memes!! Sometimes we are feeling down and really have someone to talk to, thats when people start looking for relatable things and memes provide them the feeling of satisfaction that there are others just like us, who go through similar things. They are meant to be funny even with the darkest of humor.
  2. A source of income: Big brands like Domino’s, IPL, are hiring professionals memers for their marketing. It helps them in popularity and also gives their fans a chance to interact with them via internet. Not only brand but celebrities share memes nowadays. Big meme pages get paid promotions regularly. Meme accounts, which these people started a few years ago have become a good source of income for them.
  3. A link between friends: You can’t talk to your friends everyday but you can share memes. Sharing memes has become a trend. There are groups for this single purpose where this small happiness is shared everyday and people connect to each other without having a proper conversation.
  4. Free of cost! This is the best thing about memes. You can get them anywhere and anytime without spending a single penny. Who doesn’t like to get things free?
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According to psychologist paul Thagard in a 2013 web article, memes are not a good way to express extreme thoughts.

Cons of memes

  1. Offensive: memes that are funny to some might be offensive to others. With time they have become controversial, though hurting other’s sentiments should be avoided but you never know what can hurt people. This offensive side of meme culture gets unnoticed. People don’t understand the depth of it.
  2. Negativity: lately everything that goes viral becomes a meme and with it goes hate. People hate on others who they dislike or disagree with. For example, few days ago a lady was seen slapping a guy and soon as the matter was discovered, people got their fresh meme material much of which was funny but a small portion if it was purely bad taste. Abusing or hating should never be considered right in memes.
  3. Short lived: memes get famous for a short period of time and are replaces by others as soon as something new comes in market. They are forgotten easily and sometimes you just get bored of them because there are so many similar memes they don’t appeal to us the same way others do.

Conclusion

Despite the pros and cons, it’s important for the public especially youngsters to understand that memes are just a means of making people laugh but within the limits. We need to understand that mocking others or using the memes to laugh on sensitive topics should be avoided. There have been many incidents in the past where people have made meme without acknowledging the seriousness of the matter. Just yesterday I saw a meme on people who got killed by clinging to the plane in Afghanistan.
On the other hand there have been cases where memes have saved people in their gloomy days. And they have also been helpful in spreading information on a wide scale. We get the news of an earthquake from meme fater than the media. Funny but true.
Meme culture can have repercussions on our mental well being, it affects the way we see our society and sometimes stops us from changing by approving our toxic traits.

Let’s not make this world a meme and keep it real. Laugh at funny but be serious when required. Laughing about negative aspects of human life is not ok. Making memes on suicide, depression and other such matters is not ok. Turning these serious matters into trivial ones is not ok!! Let’s enjoy memes that are really funny and within the limits.

On a lighter note…

Pic courtesy: HumorNama

Reference: https://smeharbinger.net

https://www.wikipedia.org

An unexamined life is not worth living

 by Shashikant Nishant Sharma 

                                                       (Photo: Motivation Mentalist)

Well said by
Socrates.

An
unexamined human life is deprived of the meaning and purpose of existence. The
ability to introspect removes the individualistic absurdity by invoking a
commitment to moral integrity and social solidarity.

 Just like a seed
needs soil, sunlight and water for its germination, human life needs
introspection and examination for its growth. A greater understanding of the
experiences gained in the life at any particular time, enriches one’s
engagement with self and the universe.

Mahatma Gandhi’s
examination of self through his autobiography, “My experiments with
truth”, highlights the significance of reflection on life. Mahatma Gandhi
was not only able to map his weaknesses and vulnerabilities through the
examination, but was also able to question his prejudices and understand his
strength as a human being.

 This very ability
to reflect on life adds more depth to the character of Arjun in Mahabharat than
most of the other characters. Instead of following the norms and fighting with
his clan, Arjun questions the meaninglessness of the war and the purpose of his
life.

 The fast-changing
societies and consumerist culture in the contemporary world leave less time for
human beings to examine and think about the changes. Adaptation to changes have
become automatic and unquestionable.

 The quotation has
strong relevance in the present times where human beings are burdened with the
histories of war, colonisation, nationalisation, erosion of morality in the
scientific and technological advancements and the sense of spiritual
uprootedness. 

It is in these
times that one needs to dwell deeper into the conscience to find the purpose of
existence and engage in a more meaningful manner with the society.

 

Co-operation is the Development of the Country

Co-operation 

The proverb “Unity is Propitious” is something we all know. Nehru said that “Co-operation” was the first step necessary for people to achieve equality. In this article we will look at the benefits of such a co-operation in detail.

Co-operation – Introduction

The purpose of the cooperative is to fully realize the “Single tree makes no forest”. The co-operative system was introduced in India by Frederick Nicholson Betts. He is also hailed as the “Father of the co-operative movement in India”. The law for these co-operative systems first came into force in India in 1940. It was in 1940 of the same year that the first co-operative movement was started in the village of Tirur in the Thiruvalluvar district.

The Movement and Purpose of the Co-operative

The work of the co-operative began to run with activities similar to those for towns and villages. They operate in the villages as the Primary Agricultural Cooperative Bank, the Central Cooperative Bank and its branches. Similarly in the cities Arbor Co-operative Bank and Labor Co-operative Bank are functioning. As such, there are more than 125 branches of the Co-operative Bank operating throughout Tamil Nadu. Similarly, there are about 4,600 start-up agricultural cooperative banks and about 23,000 co-operative banks.

The symbol, like the joining of the two hands of the co-operative societies, can be felt emphasizing their policy of uniting for the good of the people. 

Benefits of Co-operation

The truth is that “United we stand, divided we fall”. The benefits that people get from doing so are many. Poor farmers are able to benefit as start-up agricultural co-operative banks use a number of options, including five-year plans, to improve agriculture. Thus, the co-operation not only provides quality milk to all through dairy farms, but also benefits those who depend on cows. Similarly, the co-operative helps in earning a good income in the rural business of Kadar. The co-operative helps sugar mills, fertilizer companies and fishermen at various levels.

It is no exaggeration to say that the co-operative is a good friend of the people who helps to diversify the various industries including the farmers who have taken loans through the co-operative. If the town is pulled together, how many big chariots will come and get the beauty. The rise of the country is due to the co-operation that extends from the village to the town to help any poor simple people live upright. Let us rise and let our country rise! Long live the co-operation! Its missions to develop!