We often hear a lot of things about the creation of women. But what exactly is the truth?

The truth is….We don’t know. According to the Hindu theology,due to the period of Kaliyuga,many misconceptions and misunderstandings have arised amongst the people. What is Kaliyuga? Well,Kaliyuga has its own history and its own theory and prediction. But…let’s not delve into the concept of Yugas just yet. 

Various theologies have various descriptions about the creation of women. Hindu theology was chosen because  we always like to write about the things which we know. And if we don’t,then we learn and explore. One should never mislead the people’s beliefs. And which is why one should do utmost research about the concept before writing it down. The creation of  Woman,described in  Matsya Purana is as follows:

Lord Brahma is said to be the father of the creator of this universe.  After he created the first man (Manu),he started the creation of the first woman. It is said that even the Gods were sometimes mistaken in the terms of understanding women. So, when Lord Brahma was in the middle of creating the generation of women,a devduta came to Brahma. He asked the lord who created the whole universe in just a minute,why did the creation of a women  took him 6 days!? Brahma said that  this  creation was going to be his best creation until now. Because she,upon completion would be extremely cherishing towards her family. She would be determined and calm in every situation no matter any calamity that arised. Devduta then went to examine the lord’s creation. And then he came to order and exclaimed ,how weak she was! Brahma said that there is a difference between the property of being delicate and weak. Women have the property of being delicate. That does not mean that she does not have the strength to stand for herself. Maybe she is delicate externally,but look inside,she is strong as diamond and will not break. This is women. After this, Devduta  asked , why exactly was she filled with moisture when he touched her? Brahma explained that the moisture was actually the tears that were shed by her. Women,when upset sheds her grief in the form of tears. After her tears were shed,she again returned to be the same,determined and strong as ever. Not only women,but anyone,when someone cries does not mean that they are coward or not strong enough. When one cries,we should not patronise them,but help them during their hardships and if they need some alone time,we should be sensible enough to give it to them that time. After which,Devduta asked that whether she would

have the ability to think wisely. Brahma said that she would be the face of intelligence,who would leave her legacy to her children and would be the educator of the family.

People often criticise one another for not being good at one or the other things. This makes one feel extremely insecure about themself. The thing is,when we talk or converse with anyone,one should think about the consequences and the influence of his talk on the other person. As said by the wise ones,’Words are sharper and cause more harm then most of the weapons’. While talking,we often tend to say many misguiding things which we may not be aware of. We are mere humans,and will make mistakes through our lives,but does that mean to continue those mistakes just thinking that we are merely humans? Life is a teacher when you don’t learn from it,it repeats your own mistakes. We come across many such quotations in our lives. The importance which is actually remembered? Hardly some of them. But does that mean to stop trying at all . And this question remains unanswered. Because this is a space which we have to fill. The question is…Will we?

Thus was the creation of women,and the birth of the first Kshatriyas. We learn many things from our theologies,but the day when we start to apply them in our lives,we change. This does not mean to continue the inhuman practices. Traditions and cultures are bound to be changed with time,because the time has changed,and so will the rituals.

Note: If the above article offends you in any way,kindly tell the reason for it. There is absolutely no  intent to mislead the people in the above article .

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The condition of the stock market has once again become similar to the month of March. In March, the stock market was going through a huge decline due to the spread and lockdown of Corona. In the last few days, once again there is a period of tremendous selling in the stock market. During the fourth trading day of the week i.e. Thursday, Sensex dropped by 1100 points to 36,550 points during trading.
Talking about the Nifty, it fell below 350 points to 10,800. At the end of trading, the Sensex fell by 2.96 percent or 1114.82 points to 36,553.60 points. Talking about the Nifty, it fell 326.30 points or 2.93 percent to 10,805.55 points.

Banking, IT, Auto shares all rolled down
During the trading, all the shares of the BSE index were on the red mark. IndusInd Bank shares fell 8 percent in the last hour of trading. The shares of Bajaj Finance, Tech Mahindra, TCS, Mahindra & Mahindra are also included in the top losers. Stocks of Tata Steel, Infosys, Axis Bank, Maruti, Airtel have also declined.
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Market condition on Wednesday
Despite the signs of strength from global markets, the decline in the stock market on Wednesday fell for the fifth consecutive day due to weak sentiment. The Sensex ended 65.66 points, or 0.17 percent, down at 37,668.42 at the end of trading. Similarly, the Nifty of the National Stock Exchange closed down 21.80 points or 0.20 percent at 11,131.85 points.

Telecom shares fell
Shares of telecom and financial companies were sold, while the strong market intermediary Reliance Industries and HDFC Bank increased the market losses to some extent. Bharti Airtel was the biggest loser among the Sensex stocks. Its stock was down 7.89 percent. The share of Vodafone Idea has also come down by more than one percent. The company’s stock has come down after the announcement of the aggressive postpaid plan of Reliance Jio a day ago.

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President Ram Nath Kovind said on Sunday that a committed effort should be made to make Jammu and Kashmir a center of knowledge, innovation, and study by literally implementing the new Education Policy (NEP 2020). He said that there is no shortage of intelligent, talented, and innovative children in Jammu and Kashmir, and students will come out with sharp intelligence from the new education policy. Kovind said, “Committed efforts should be made to make Jammu and Kashmir a center of knowledge, innovation, and study by applying NEAP literally. These steps will once again make Jammu and Kashmir “the paradise of the earth and the shining jewel of the crown of Mother Bharti as it used to be in the medieval period.”
The President made this remark during a conference on the implementation of NEP in Jammu and Kashmir. He said, “India has the unique demographic advantage but it can be used positively only when a substantial part of the population is skilled, professionally competitive and genuinely fully educated.” Cited the example of the Mahayana sect of Buddhism, which was popular in Kashmir and said that Indian culture is incomplete without considering them.

He said, “It is important to understand our tradition and rich cultural heritage and this can only happen in our mother tongue. This is the mother tongue that has been encouraged in the new education policy, as it is linked to the cultural ethos of our country. “It is worth mentioning that NEP was approved by the Union Cabinet in July and it replaced the 1986 National Education Policy Will take.

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Due to the harmful air pollution affecting the natural, our youth is getting more chest, they are often away from home. And in the atmosphere, the smoke of the existing factories, mixed in the air around the clock, comes out from the poisonous smoke. Which causes us to breathe. Mumbai’s news has shown that when clothes are put on the roof and when they bring clothes, black and black earrings get fixed in those clothes, and like this, Karna goes into the lungs of humans with the breath. This air pollution is most tolerated by our youth because it is often read outside.

Air pollution
Man has not only polluted the water but has also polluted the air by using its various activities and technical items. The amount of all types of gases in the atmosphere is fixed. There is no specific change in the amount of these gases when there is equilibrium in nature, but due to some reason if the quantity of gases changes, then air pollution occurs.

The effect of air pollution is immediately visible as compared to other pollutants. If there is poisonous gas dissolved in the air, it immediately shows its effect and takes the life of animals and animals nearby. The Bhopal gas scandal is a direct example of this. Different modes of transport have also evolved due to the development of various technologies.

On the one hand, while the new means of transport make traffic smooth and easy, on the other hand, they play an important role in polluting the environment. Petrol and diesel are used as fuel in the modes of transport used in the cities. Smoke resulting from the burning of petrol and diesel pollutes the atmosphere.

The era of industrialization is full of industries. Sulfur dioxide and hydrogen sulfide gases are found in the atmosphere due to the smoke emanating from the chimneys of various small and large industries. These gases reach the earth with rainwater and make sulfuric acid, which is harmful to the environment and its organisms.

Foul gases from the leather and soap manufacturing industries pollute the environment. In industries like cement, a lime, mineral, etc. excessive amount of dust flies and gets into the air, which pollutes the air. By breathing in the dust mixed air, people working and living there often have blood pressure, heart disease, respiratory diseases, eye diseases, and TB. As the chances of getting disease increases.

Due to the huge increase in population, the place of living of human beings is getting smaller day by day, so man is constructing a habitat for his living in deforestation. In cities, LPG and kerosene are used for cooking, which spread a type of foul air.

Some people use wood or coal for firewood, which emits excessive smoke and mixes in the air. Humans do deforestation for places and firewood. Deforestation is decreasing the amount of oxygen in the atmosphere and increasing the amount of carbon dioxide and polluting the air. Explosions, shelling, war, etc. are carried out by humans using various types of technical equipment.

Due to the explosion, an excessive amount of dust is added to the atmosphere and pollutes the air. Due to the use of guns and excessive firing, the smell of gunpowder spreads in the atmosphere. Presently humans use plastic items for their comfort and throw them around in the event of a break or break. Cleaning workers often burn plastic with all types of waste, which causes a foul smell in the atmosphere.

Many types of explosions are carried out and gases are tested in order to make new technological experiments. During this time many types of gas dissolve in the atmosphere and pollute it. The excessive emission of harmful gases leads to ‘acid rain’, which is fatal to humans as well as other living beings and agricultural activities.

Refrigerators and air conditioners used in office and home use produce chloro-fluoro carbon, which damages the ozone layer protecting our skin from ultraviolet rays emanating from the sun. Excess firecrackers also pollute the air on various festive occasions. The environment is highly affected by air pollution.

Water Pollution
Pollution by water, the contaminated water of kal-factories, together with the rivers and rivers, causes severe pollution. If ever a fence comes, this polluted water spreads all over the place, and it dissolves the water, and this dissolved water dissolves in all the sewers and produces many diseases. Which hurts our youth.
Due to the excessive population in cities, the trend of building flats is increasing, so that three to six families can live in a flat easily. These flats require more water at fewer places and there is increasing pressure on the underground water reserves. Deepwater is being exploited while constructing deep boring.

Contaminated water, leftovers, chemical waste, etc., released from excessive construction of industries are dumped into the river through drains. The waste generated by the daily activities of the people living in the flats is dumped on the river, polluting the water of the rivers.

Settlements near the city do not have proper toilets, or even if it does not function properly, people often use the river or pond land or drains to defecate there. In the rain, all this dirt goes to the rivers or ponds.

Due to the lack of proper waste disposal in the slums, people often dump the waste in the pond or river water. In addition to bathing and washing the water of ponds and rivers, it is also used for bathing animals, due to which the dirt of their body dissolves in water. Clothes are washed, garbage, feces, and urine are poured, old clothes are put on the ashes of carcasses, rotten-knotted materials, not only that, sometimes bodies are dumped in rivers.

Humans have polluted the water of rivers, ponds, and groundwater. It also did not release ocean water to pollute. Tourists are visiting many places along the sea, due to which many small and big settlements have been settled along the sea. The people live there by selling various types of materials to tourists.

There is no provision of toilets in those settlements, even if they are not functioning properly, due to which the people of the town defecate in the ocean water and the waste and waste of the house also flow into the ocean water. They pollute the water of the ocean. Due to the development of various technologies, large ships move in the waters of the ocean, which carry the movement of passengers and the materials from one place to another.

Ships after their cleanliness often dump the dirt in the seawater. Sometimes a ship accidentally sinks, then the chemical substances, oil, etc. are found in the seawater and they affect the health of the animals living in it for a long time.

Some organisms die instantly due to water contamination and further pollute the water. Humans also fall ill by consuming aquatic organisms living in contaminated water. Developed countries often dump their country’s dirt and e-waste, due to which water is badly contaminated.

Initially, when technology was not developed, people used to live in harmony with nature and the environment, but due to technological development and industrialization, there was a competition in modern man. In this competition, man can only see his selfishness.

He has forgotten that his existence on this earth is due to nature and the environment. It is also a major cause of environmental pollution. Naturally, water can be polluted only by the death of organisms and bathing of animals, but man uses water not only for his selfishness to bathe and drink but also the waste of household, the waste of industries Also puts.

Farmers use different types of chemical fertilizers in the fields so that their crop is good, there are no insects in the crop, so pesticides are also sprayed. All these chemical elements along with the rainwater go into the ponds and river-drains and pollute the water there.

Industries dump their waste directly into rivers and streams, as well as their smoke is not properly drained, causing the oily fraction of smoke to accumulate as a black layer above the surrounding accumulated water reserves Lives and pollutes the water.

Land pollution
Land provides the basis for all living organisms. It is also not untouched by pollution. Due to population growth, man’s living space is getting reduced, due to which he is fulfilling his need by deforestation. Continuous deforestation is not only increasing the amount of carbon dioxide in the atmosphere and decreasing the amount of oxygen but also deteriorating the balance of living organisms.
Trees protect the top layer of the land from blowing through the wind and flowing in the water and the land remains fertile. Continuous cutting of trees is increasing the chances of the land becoming barren and desert. In this way, deforestation deteriorates the balance of nature. Changes in the balance of nature are the major cause of environmental pollution. Demand for grain has also increased due to population growth.

Farmers use chemical fertilizers for excessive crop production and also spray pesticides to protect the crop from insects, which pollutes the land. Groundwater is being heavily exploited and garbage is being scattered here and there. Excessive exploitation of the minerals present in the land apart from groundwater creates the problem of landslides.

Plastic does not decay as waste. The plant in the place where it is in excessive quantity is not able to grow properly, which contaminates the land. In the technological age, modern humans have invented many new weapons, so that the enemy can be easily destroyed. Due to the use of these weapons in war, there are many people on the battlefield.

Noise pollution
Humans like to live in a quiet environment but nowadays disturbed by the noise of vehicles, noise of factories, traffic noise, noise of motor vehicles, loudspeakers, has created stress problem for our youth.
Noise pollution was not a serious problem in the early stage of the development of human civilization, but as human civilization developed and became equipped with modern equipment, the problem of noise pollution has become acute and severe. Presently, this pollution plays an important role in making human life stressful. The loud voice not only affects our hearing, but it is also the cause of blood pressure, heart disease, headache, insomnia, and mental illnesses.

In the process of industrial development, a wide variety of industries have been established in every corner of the country. The noise emanating from the various devices operating in these industries is polluted. Different routes, be it waterways, airways, or land routes, all produce a loud sound. The horrific roaring of airplanes, rockets, and helicopters in the airways helps in increasing noise pollution.

The noise of ships plying on the waterways and the sound of the engines of vehicles plying on the ground along with their horns are the main causes of noise pollution. Sound is transmitted in a loud voice by various means of entertainment and mass communication. Loudspeakers address the gathering by speaking in the meeting and the processions and information is sent. Songs are played aloud on various festive occasions.

Loudspeakers are also used for public relations campaigns and information is sent to the public. Advertisers also sometimes promote their products in a loud voice. In order to have deep boring done, there is excessive noise in the order of running the crusher machine, digging with the dozer. The excessive noise of musical instruments pollutes the sound on the occasion of marriage, marriage, or religious ritual. In addition, they generate unnecessarily uncomfortable, and unusable noise.

Now many companies now working remotely. A significant number of employees are now working from home.  For many of us , working from home provides a lot a benefits and reduces the cost of travel.

Despite this positive changes for many of us, the overnight pivot to remote work has thrown up challenges for leaders, who are now needed to show resilience, determination, commitment and provide support and re-assurance in many other ways.

In this article, we are going to reveal the most important three key ways to keep the team enthused and motivated as a leader while everyone is working from home. Scroll it down to read the three key ways.

So without any further delay, let’s begin.

Channels of communications

Employees need a quick and easy steps or ways to start their work. So you have to provide them with proper equipment or best technologies to ensure  the best productivity. It can Microsoft Teams, Zoom or Skype- as everyone now needs to adopt more agile way of working. You have to put in place technology that can facilitates working and also keep in mind that you have to choose a secure or reliable channel. If you are using your home WI-Fi network to get online, it the time to make sure it is as secure as possible.

The sudden shift to working digitally has changed the way we before.  So you have maintain a proper channels  of communication with your colleagues and clients as effectively using the right technology.

Encourage more connections

The style of remote working can be isolating and boring for others, while others like to work independently. So it very much important to be much sensitive to employees performances because some just try to cope with remote working while others need much support. Leadership actually means putting structure in place having a proper scheduled teams check-in times and days.

Virtual visibility and directions from employers , so that people feel connected and the leader there providing re-assurance. It is the gaining of various of tools that caters to the whole work force and work environment. Create virtual meetings in this uncertain times really encourages more connections and it also tailor the needs and preferences of that connections.

Carrying out your culture

Creation of virtual water-coolers are utmost important during times of remote working to keep your company culture thriving.  Try to give your team members the opportunities to share things that are really not related to work. This will allow them to create connections with other members of team and it will help you to carry your culture forward. You can set up a channel for the whole team where people can share experience. This can help a lot to your team to connect virtually and drive the culture of the business.

Even more positives reviews can come when you try to create virtual quizzes, virtual yoga and fitness sessions.

As our working practices suddenly changed dramatically-the rise of new tech has made it far easier to work remotely and flexibly.  So you can try these three key tips. We assure you, it will really a lot in the leadership while working remotely.

Working remotely should be embraced to create a whole new opportunities for the employees as well as the employers to achieve a better work-life balance and reduce stress factor.

We often tend to blame credit cards for poor credit score and falling into the trap of debt. The bitter reality that low credit score and debt cycle can cause lack of financial support and self-control.

A well- chosen credit card is, in fact, an effective tool to increase your credit score.

Read this article to find the best way to credit cards to increase your credit score. Scroll it down. Have a happy reading ahead.

1. Use credit card to build credit history: The best way to build credit history is without incurring cost to avail a credit card. Just like loans, credit cards do not incur any interest cost as long as you pay back the left over dues in full or do not avail any EMI or loan option. Credit cards offer benefits like cash backs, discounts and many more. It this is used wisely, you can come up with wide profit margin. If you cannot avail credit cards, take an option for security cards.
2. Try to pay back bill by due date: Credit card issuers have a report card transactions to the bureaus for calculation credit score. Delays and default often leads to low or reduction in credit score. So it is better to use your credit for the expenses that  can be repaid by the due date. You can convert your credit cards to EMI if you have a huge amount to pay.
3. Your credit utilisation ratio within 30% : This ration is the percentage of the total credit limit used by you. Lenders usually prefer lending to those having credit utilisation ratio is within 30%. So try to aim at limiting your credit utilisation ration with 30%. But if your credit utilisation percentage exceeds 30%, you can request for an additional credit card.
4. Try to avoid multiple credit card applications within short time span: If you use multiple credit cards within a very short time span, you will end up with low credit score. Instead of making direct application with multiple card issuers, you can visit various online sites to compare your credit offerings. It can actually increase your credit score without having bad impact on them.
5. Close your old credit card very carefully: While closing your old credit card, there can be the average reduction of your credit facilities and can also lead lenders to reduce your credit score. So to reduce the impact on your credit card score from closing old credit cards, request other credit card issuers to request their credit limit.

So these are best 5 ways to increase your credit score by using credit cards. Try these ways, we assure you that you will end up with high or wide margin.

Stay connected with us for further updates. Till then goodbye. Have a nice day.

Being a start-up company in the era of mass-oriented, large business is like fighting a Goliath. It can be difficult for start- up companies to establish their own business.

But if you prepare a proper planning, you can actually achieve success. But it is very unfortunate that the rate of failures of start-up companies is very high. If you are goal-oriented person with firm belief and foresight, you have no reason to worry. Being start-up is not so easy. You have to face a lot challenges to find your place in the market.

How to outwit Big Companies

Success may not come so easily to the start-up companies but if you are persistent and is goal oriented, you are moving on the right track.

But there are 4 things that you must know before taking any kind of risk. These 4 small bur effective ways will surely help you to compete with big companies. Keep scrolling the article down to read. Have a happy reading ahead.

1. Carefully choose your Niche: According to the survey, 40% of start-up companies fail because they lack market need for their products. The creation of that product which will be in no demand in the market can actually ruin your business. First of all you have to think about who you are aiming at and how the customers will get benefit from this product. You have to be very specific regarding your choosing your niche. It can be anything product or service that will customer’s life easier and lavish.
2. Be very Flexible: Rigidity is of no use when economy is at stake. When things seem unstable, you can easily readjust and temporarily change your marketing strategies and policies. This is a great opportunity. You can apply different kinds methodologies but it is not that you have to stick to it forever. So these changes can actually bring positive views for start-ups.
3. Create a Strong Company Culture: You have to know what you are basing your company. The culture of company is the fundamental base of success. Its core values and mission are what the employees work. Creation of strong company culture makes a sense of belonging and creates a friendly atmosphere. Employee morale will be high and there will a strong bond and team work will there in such environment. If the employees are happy, customers will automatically be happy.
4. Establish more Connections: Sometimes getting the right people and right track, is the key to the door to success. When you are a start-up, you really need supporters, advisors, and the most important- investors. Therefore it is very important to establish new connections. The same thing goes for searching employees also. Sometimes the best ones are those whom you hire by accident.

Failures happens in every company but these minor and common mistakes to prepare you for the bigger challenges.

If you try or implement these 4 ways into planning strategies, we assure that you will start climbing up the ladder of success and business.

Millennial communication is very different from the past generation. Communication now-a-days have been shut down in a chat box full of  GIFs, videos, stickers and many more. When we have to solve a problem, we search in You Tube for video tutorials to solve that issue.

Many millennial prefer methods of connection and communication involving an abundance of emojis, GIFs, memes and acronyms.

How to create business in this generation? How do to create a customer experience that will make an impact and create a loyal customer out of this this generation? Here is the ultimate guide to create experience with a millennial mind.

Scroll it down to keep reading.

Actually there are five key terms or concept that is very helpful in breaking the noise and tailor, your customer

• Be authentic
• Show but do not tell
• Work around their schedule
• Try to speak in their language
• Know your audience

Be authentic

Create a trustworthiness and transparency. It allows you to create a connection with the customer in an authentic. Think beyond your tagline and provide as much as possible information. The millennial knows the better from the best.

Every product has its own story to tell. Convey that story in an unique way to the customers  and create a brand story. Have engagement to social media and be very careful while choosing your AI to replace customer support.

Show but do not tell

This generation is the generation of convenience, quick, efficient and speedy. Create your own ways to showcase your product through videos, images and it can create a brand loyalty. Provide a clear message to the customer as lousy messages can create a lot of confusions.

All customers have their own preference –but your millennial customers are special  and you must to know how to reach them. Use videos, GIFs to promote your product and create brand loyalty. Today’s customer are 95% more likely to remember a call to action after watching video, compared to 10% who can read a call to action in text format.

Work around their schedule

Millennial are willing to work ever after their work schedule. Therefore there is huge demand for cloud based tools, digital communication.

Providing visual references to your customers makes the customer feel that you are aware of  their precious time and their specific time. You can nurture the journey of the customers.

Try to speak in their language

Adopt a right way to communicate with millennial customers. Sending quick videos, recording actually prevent the reputation of your company. Visual communication actually saves time and is very appealing to the customers. As a picture is worth saying than 1000 words. It has a great memorising value.

Companies can save time by using various ways like: on boarding new customers, proving feedback of customer, answering the questions of customers, explaining the complicated work flows of the company and many more.

Know your audience

Generation Y and Z  are extremely visual creatures. Young people today are growing up with internet, android phones, smart phones and social media as a rule. It is not an exceptions.

Millennial still may remember the sound of dial-up internet but the generation does not even know the life before Wifi.

Use this facility to connect more deeply with your customer. We assure you that you will create  a millennial-approved, positive and future foresight thinking customer experience.

Hope you liked this article. Do not forget to stay connected with us for more updates. Till then goodbye. Have a nice day ahead.

We all have a finite amount of energy to use each day and we’re exposed to people who either fill us with energy or drain us of energy. People who drain our energy are known as energy vampires. These people could be colleagues, friends, family members – even people we encounter while out running errands.

Some people bring unexpected lightness and comfort to your life. They crackle with energy, practically electrify you with their presence. And then there are those who leave you feeling stressed out. Or guilty. Or exhausted down to your very last molecule. They are called energy vampires, and obnoxious or meek, they come in all forms.

The sobbing people, always considers themselves the victim. The world is always against them and they’ll recount every horrible thing that has happened to them, wallowing in every perceived slight.

The charmer is a constant talker or joke-teller who has to be the center of attention. The blamer, on the other hand, doles out endless servings of guilt. And then there’s the drama queen, the co-worker who claims that he/she almost died from a high fever or the neighbor who lives in extremes of emotion—life is unbelievably good or horrifically bad.

No matter which type of energy vampire you’re dealing with, you’re allowed to walk away. Many of us find this really hard to do. We’re afraid of being thought of as impolite; we don’t want to offend people. But there are plenty of ways to remove yourself from a killing conversation. When leaving isn’t an option, you can still maintain your energy level by making a few minor adjustments.

One of the first things to do is to recognize when you’re being drained, and that begins with tuning in to your physical reactions. Is there a tightening in your chest when a certain person enters the conversation? Do you feel tired when you hang up the phone after speaking with someone?

Setting boundaries is one the ways of protecting yourself; you draw a line saying, for instance, “This is what I can do for you, and this is what I can’t.” You don’t have to convince the vampire of the rightness of your stance. Getting defensive simply adds to the negative charge of the encounter. You want to remain neutral. When someone starts pushing your buttons, and you start sizzling inside, you’ve got to make the decision not to react.

One of the first things to do when dealing with these people is to figure out if they are a temporary vampire or whether they are inherently an energy vampire. Temporary energy vampires might be going through a difficult time in their life (divorce, loss of a family member, job, etc.). In the short-term, they need to lean on others and that’s okay, even though it may be draining.

Conversely, inherent energy vampires are always this way; and they aren’t looking to change. The easiest way to identify this type of person is to assess how you feel after you walk away from them. If you feel exhausted, then chances are that person is an energy vampire.

In  most cases, you have the freedom to excise this person from your life entirely. This may seem dramatic, but you have to remember that you’re protecting yourself in the end.

By recognizing the toxic behaviors of these people and trying to put an end to it, you’re protecting yourself, your health, and your overall well-being.

No one deserves to be mistreated or used in this manner. It’s certainly not your fault.

Some people refuse to accept responsibility for their own emotional maturity — and that isn’t your burden to bear.