Elder Abuse

Life is a really wonderful gift from God, and one of the most essential aspects of it is aging. An individual’s life is divided into stages such as infancy, childhood, puberty, maturity, middle age, and old age. We are all busy in the early phases of our life, discovering the lovely hues of youth, learning new things, and are more inclined toward self-development. Then we approach adulthood and begin to organize our life, whether it’s our employment, marriage, children, family requirements, and so on; the list is infinite. Then there’s old age, which is the most relaxed and serene time of our life. It is that point in our lives when we can sit back and reflect on our lives, our successes, our ups and downs, and feel satisfied.

As we become older, we start to notice certain changes and may develop some impairments that are quite typical for our age. People of this age need to be helped in any way imaginable, whether emotionally, financially, physically, or cognitively. However, the unfortunate fact is that some people in today’s world fail to grasp such basic human foundations. The number of incidents involving children’s misunderstanding of elderly people and their needs is growing, and in many cases, this leads to elder abuse.

Indian Scenario

India is a land of ethics and feelings, where we respect each other’s emotions and believe in peaceful coexistence. In India, where we cherish and accept a value-based, joint family system, old age has never been an issue. Indian culture has always been courteous and supportive of elders. With that in mind, elder abuse was never regarded as an Indian issue, but rather as a Western one.

However, the coping abilities of both younger and older family members are now being tested more frequently than ever before. There are occasions when younger family members exhibit undesirable conduct, which the elder family members see as odd and causes them to feel ignored and discouraged.

People used to regard their parents with the greatest reverence and worship them as gods, but the harsh realities of today’s society are quite different. Children perceive parents as a burden that no one wants to bear. This is why many parents are found in deplorable situations walking around or placed in old age facilities. Today’s scenario is extremely paradoxical and awful, with animals receiving more love and [1]affection than people and humans being treated worse. It’s revolting how brutally parents are abandoned by their children.

They are the ones that work diligently their entire lives to see their children succeed and selflessly offer all within their means to make them a civilized human being. Our parents experience various challenges and impairments as they age, which is quite natural, and all they want is to be loved and supported in the same manner they did for their children, but when the opposite situations arise, these children appear to avoid their duties.

The current generation’s self-centered mentality and steady movement toward Western culture has undermined the hold of traditional values and ethics. One of the other reasons for such conduct is people’s rising greed and desire to be wealthy and powerful. As a result, they participate in elder abuse and emotionally and psychologically manipulate their parents in order to compel them to give up their property and other possessions in favour of their children.

Elder Abuse: Meaning And Types

Elder abuse (also known as elder mistreatment, senior abuse, abuse in later life, abuse of older adults, abuse of older women, and abuse of older men) is defined by the World Health Organization (WHO) as a single or repeated act, or lack of appropriate action, occurring within any relationship where there is an expectation of trust, that causes harm or distress to an older person.

It is not necessarily essential for abuse to be committed by children; it may be committed by anybody, such as a spouse, family member, or any other person on whom an old person is reliant; nonetheless, abuse by children is the most serious issue that must be addressed (including their spouse). The phrase abuse looks to be quite easy, but it is actually a highly complicated term with a wide range of meanings. There are several forms of abuse, including physical abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, and neglect. An old person may be subjected to the following types of abuse:

  1. Physical abuse: Elder physical abuse is defined as the purposeful use of force against an older person that results in bodily injury ranging from physical pain to death.
  2. Emotional abuse: Psychological and emotional abuse are purposeful behaviours that cause an older mental agony, fear, or suffering. Insults, seclusion, humiliation, intimidation, and name calling are all examples.
  3. Elder sexual abuse: is defined as any type of coerced or unwanted sexual encounter with an older adult. Some of the indicators of sexual abuse include anus or genital bleeding, newly transferred sexually transmitted infections, anus or genital discomfort, pelvic injuries, and so on.
  4. Elder financial abuse: is the unlawful, unapproved, or inappropriate use of an older person’s resources by someone in a trusting relationship with that individual. This type of abuse can occur with persons who are unable to grasp their financial accounts or conditions due to advanced age.
  5. Neglect: Senior neglect occurs when the person in charge of the older’s care fails to safeguard the elder from harm or fails to satisfy the elder’s needs in a way that results in or risks significant injury.

Neglect is not an honest accident:

It is the result of carelessness or a lack of regard for the wellbeing of an elder. It may include depriving elders from basic needs like- shelter, clothing, health upkeep or nutrition needs.

Indian Provisions Regarding Elder Abuse:

The point is, what are we doing to address this issue, and do we have any provisions in place in our country? The following acts and legislation have been introduced in this regard:
The Parental Maintenance Act of 2007 – This law has been modified twice, once in 2013 and again in 2018. The original Act stated that sons had a legal responsibility to care for their parents. Following a 2013 modification, parents might file a complaint against their sons, and the boys could be held legally liable for not supporting their parents. Daughters and sons-in-law were also deemed liable for supporting their parents under the 2018 modification.

The Parents and Senior Citizens Act (2007) makes it a legal requirement for children and legal guardians to pay maintenance to elderly people. It enables state governments to establish and operate old age homes in each district. Senior persons who are unable to sustain themselves might ask for a monthly stipend from their children. Children or heirs may be penalized if they do not provide support to elderly people. The punishment may be a Rs.5000 fine, three months in jail, or both.

Whereas it is critical to address the new law that was proposed in 2019 to alter the contents of the previously stated bill. The Parents and Senior Citizens Amendment) Bill 2019 aims to provide for the maintenance and welfare of parents and senior citizens by ensuring their basic needs, safety and security, the establishment, management, and regulation of institutions and services, and the rights guaranteed by the Constitution. It also mentions eliminating the Rs10000 cap and appointing nodal police officers for senior people at each police station and district-level special police unit, as well as a helpline for senior persons.

While many faiths have varied measures to safeguard the rights of older persons, some are extremely specific, such as the legislative provision for parental support under Hindu personal law included in Section 20 of the Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956. Similarly, Muslim laws, Christian laws, and even Parsees laws have similar clauses. The Indian Constitution has provisions to protect the rights of individuals beyond the age of 60. Because these articles are part of Chapter IV of the constitution, which discusses the Directive Principles, they cannot be enforced by a court of law, as mentioned in Article 37; nonetheless, they serve as the foundation for any legislation.

Article 41 of the Constitution guarantees elderly persons the right to work, education, and public support. It also requires the state to protect these rights in instances of disability, old age, or illness. Meanwhile, Article 46 states that the elderly’s educational and economic rights must be maintained by the state.

Conclusion:

Some societal changes are unavoidable, such as raising older people’s understanding of their rights and the types of assistance available under various laws. Furthermore, politicians must broaden their view on the term “NEEDS,” since they frequently fail to understand the social “needs” of belongingness, preserving power, and a position of significance in the family, a set of needs that frequently go unsaid.

Things everyone should do in their 20s

  • Learn a new language
    Learning a new language is always a fun. There are many advantages of learning a new language, it will help you to connect with new people, it will advance your career, will boost your creativity and many more.
    You can learn their culture and after learning new language it will be easy to interact with them, making friends and exploring their culture.
    You can improve your job prospects and travel trough foreign countries more easily.
    You can learn any foreign language by yourself without spending any money.
  • Solo travel
    Travelling alone will completely change your life. In our 20s we all become very busy with our studies, building our career, we completely forget that what matters the most is our happiness, we just have to be happy and solo trips are the best way to give time to yourself, to live your life the way you want to, no one going to judge you, just be yourself. No matter where you go and what you do, it will completely change you. During solo trips you will get to know yourself better, it will boost your confidence and you will learn to rely on yourself.
    The biggest advantage of traveling alone is you are less likely to feel stressed out and of course it’s cheaper compared to other group trips. You can be selfish and its completely okay you need some time for yourself, to love yourself.
  • Sleep under the star
    Don’t have a partner? Ohh its okay make yourself your partner. Grab a bottle of wine snuggle up under a cozy blanket, enjoy the beauty and think about the memories which will make you happy. Under a beautiful sky with millions of stars just you, no shadow, just you the real you. Have a partner? It will    become more romantic you and the one you love, the one who will spent his/her rest of life with you, under a cozy blanket, with a bottle of wine , holding each other’s hand, thinking about your sweet time together.
  • Learn to play an instrument
    Learning to play an instrument will make you more creative and will help you to concentrate. Music is an important part of our life it has a power to change our mood, it helps to erase our pain and reduce stress. Research has shown that blood flows more easily when music is played.
  • Find your passion
    The teenage years (and even the early twenties) are a confusing time when most of us don’t have much figured out. But as the years go by, you should grow a sense of purpose. Figure out what you want to be remembered for and make it happen.

SCHIZOPHRENIA- A CAGE

Schizophrenia is a mental disorder characterized by continuous or relapsing episodes of psychosis. Major symptoms include hallucinations(typically hearing voices), delusion and disorganized thinking. About 0.3 to 0.7% of people are diagnosed with schizophrenia during their lifetime. In 2017, there were estimated 1.1 million new cases and in 2019 a total of 20 million cases globally. Males are more often affected and on average have an earlier onset, although some large reviews have not found gender differences in the prevalence of the disorder. The likely causes of Schizophrenia include genetic and environmental factors. Genetic factors include a variety of common and rare genetic variants. Possible environmental factors include being raised in a city, cannabis use during adolescence, poor nutrition during pregnancy etc.

SYMPTOMS:-

Schizophrenia involves a range of problems with thinking(cognition), behavior and emotions. Signs and symptoms may vary, but usually involve delusions, hallucinations or disorganized speech and reflect an impaired ability to function. Symptoms may include:-

  • Delusion- these are false believes that are not based in reality. For example, thinking that the person is harmed or harassed, certain gestures are towards them, have an exceptional ability or fame.
  • Hallucination- these usually involve seeing or hearing things that don’t exist. Yet for the person with Schizophrenia, they have the full force and impact of a normal experience.
  • Disorganized thinking(speech)- disorganized thinking is inferred from disorganized speech. Effective communication can be impaired, and answers to questions may be partially or completely unrelated.
  • Extremely disorganized or abnormal motor behavior- this may show in a number of ways from childlike silliness to unpredictable agitation. Behavior isn’t focused on a goal, so it’s hard to do tasks.
  • Negative symptoms- this refers to reduced or lack of ability to function normally. The person may neglect personal hygiene or appear to lack emotion. Also, the person may begin to lose interest in every day activities, socially withdraw themselves, don’t get the feeling of happiness and pleasure.

COMPLICATIONS:-

  • suicide, suicide attempts and thoughts of suicide.
  • anxiety disorders and obsessive-compulsive disorder(OCD).
  • depression.
  • abuse of alcohol or other drugs, including nicotine.
  • inability to work or attend school.
  • financial problems and feeling of homelessness.
  • social isolation.
  • health and medical problems.
  • being victimized.
  • aggressive behavior(uncommon).

CAUSES:-

Problems with certain naturally occurring brain chemicals, including neurotransmitters called Dopamine and Glutamate, may contribute to schizophrenia. Neuroimaging studies show differences in the brain structure and central nervous system of people with schizophrenia. While researchers aren’t certain about the significance of these changes, they indicate that schizophrenia is a brain disease.

TREATMENT:-

People with schizophrenia often lack awareness that their difficulties stem from a mental disorder that requires medical attention. So it often falls to the family or the friends to get them help by visiting a good doctor and giving proper medications on time.

LONAVALA

Mumbai’s Heaven

If one thing is known to help you get through a tough week or month, it is travelling. Travelling gives you the much needed break from the hustle and bustle of life. Even if that’s not the case, travelling is very essential for your self growth. It opens up your mind and makes space for new thoughts and adventures. If you are planning your next trip, Mumbai would be the place for you. The city is a combination of beaches and mountains, and there is nothing better than that.

When you think of Mumbai, the first place that pops up in your mind is Lonavala. Monsoon and Lonavala go together like peanut and jelly. Lonavala is a place you think of when you are planning a weekend long trip to unwind from your daily life. This place has something to offer for everyone. The huge landscapes are great for kids to play on, the mountains are a treat for adrenaline junkies, forts and caves for our history lovers and last but not the least a place with breathtaking views for all those who are just looking to relax and sip their drink all day. Needless to say, Lonavala is much more than a hill station. There are several tourist attractions which you don’t want to miss. Some of the best places that will surely make your holiday more interesting are:

  • Tiger’s Leap- Situated near I.N.S. Shivaji Base, Lonavala: This spot is an attraction for people who are into trekking and hiking. The waterfall in the valley is an added advantage. The sound of water rushing down the mountain is all you need to forget everything about your work.
  • Bhaja Caves- Situated in Bhaja village of Lonavala: This spot is believed to be one of the oldest caves in India and has been declared as a national monument. There are 22 entrances to the cave. The architectural design of this place is something you wouldn’t want to miss.This place is a real gem for everyone who is interested in knowing more about India’s trade history.
  • Bhushi Dam- Situated near I.N.S. Shivaji Base, Lonavala: Bhushu dam is just a 15-minute drive from Tiger’s leap. It is a magnificent dam built in the 1860s. It is situated on the Indrayani river in Lonavala. The place is always crawling with localities and tourists and to enjoy your visit it is suggested to go during the monsoon season when there are light rains.
  • Rajmachi Fort- Situated in Rajmachi Village, Lonavala: This spot undoubtedly tops the list of the favorite tourist destination with its breathtaking view. Visitors trek to reach the highest point and all the hassle is totally worth it.
  • Lohagad Fort- Another tourist favorite destination would be the Lohagad Fort. It is 52 km from Lonavla and is close to other sites such as Bhaja Caves and Karla Caves.
  • Pawna Lake- Situated 30km from Lonavala: This spot is best for camping and picnic. Its wide landscape offers a breath of fresh air and much-needed peace and calm.

Lonavala is no wonder the favorite tourist destination. This place is a hot-spot for the localities to escape their daily life and enjoy everything that the place has to offer, be it the nature or the history lessons. Doesn’t matter if you enjoy gazing the stars or watching the sunrise, Lonavala is the place for you.

CHEMICAL HEARTS

ABOUT THE MOVIE:

Richard Tanne’s “Chemical Hearts,” an adaptation of Krystal Sutherland’s YA novel Our Chemical Hearts. The genre is so thick in the film you can barely see through them, and yet, at the same time, “Chemical Hearts” believe in expressing. This makes the film a very unpredictable experience, and it is here that the movie really shines.”Chemical Hearts” suffers from a somnolescent tone, and its mood is often dull and slow, at odds with the high school romance. These things are all undeniable, and yet the thin emotions helps make “Chemical Hearts” a deeply felt teenage melodrama.

THE PLOT:

Henry Page has always wanted to be a writer. In narration, he shares his frustration that nothing has ever really happened to him, and therefore he has nothing to write about. Enter the new girl in school, Grace Town . Grace walks with a cane, reads Pablo Neruda for fun, and has a dark past. Henry wants to be a writer, but other than that he has almost no defining characteristics, except for his love of gluing together broken pieces of pottery. (Later in the film, Grace shouts at Henry, “I’m not one of your vases!” Just in case you didn’t get it.) Grace and Henry are chosen as co-editors of the school newspaper, and forced to work together closely.As Grace begins to let Henry into her life, she shows him an abandoned factory with a pool containing koi fish. He falls in love with her. He follows her one day and finds her at the grave of a man who, judging from the tombstone, died as a teenager. The dead man was Grace’s boyfriend was killed in a car accident and that Grace had been in the car when it happened, causing her disability.

On the anniversary of the car accident, Henry goes to her house and learns that she has been living in the room of her deceased boyfriend, with his mother and father. She finds Henry there and they argue as she is clearly still in love with a dead man. Henry cannot handle this information and they break up. As Henry’s and Grace’s senior year comes to an end, they avoid talking to one another at the school. Grace leaves the newspaper after taking some time off school.Their encounter is an emotional one and they hug, but then go their separate ways.

GRACE POINT OF VIEW:

Since “Chemical Hearts” is told from Henry’s point of view, we see Grace through his eyes, and she is a very intresting figure, so stays cold and distant towards him at first it’s not clear why he keeps pursuing her, and why she keeps allowing it. If she’s so  uninterested in him, then why exactly do they keep hanging out? A mini-montage is employed, showing the friendship blossoming, with Henry cracking jokes and Grace laughing hysterically. Nothing we have seen in Henry up until this point tells us he’s this funny, and what on earth could he be saying that would make glum Grace laugh so hard? Using a montage like this is a cheat, skipping steps that really need to be dealt with, or at least acknowledged.

There are tragedies in Grace’s past, of course, and her disabling injury is the least of it. She doesn’t share her story all at once, and Henry is often left confused and hurt, feeling she has been withholding information. . She is not there to help Henry learn, grow, change. This is part of “Chemical Hearts”‘ subversion. Any idea we may have that Henry is there to help her love again or trust again or heal is completely kicked to the curb once the true lay of the land is revealed. There’s a very messy movie here, kicking around within all the melancholy. “Chemical Hearts” is really about the chaos and confusion of teenage life, of going through experiences love, sex, heartbreak for the first time and the huge impact these experiences have on the body and the nervous system.

The movie really expresses how a person mourn for their loved ones. Even though Grace met a nice guy like Henry, she couldn’t help herself from grieving for her dead boyfriend. I thought that she should have at least tried to give herself a chance for being happy. But in the end she disappointed herself and Henry too.

History of World Baking Day

World Baking Day was created by the folks over at worldbakingday.com, who decided it was high time to spread the joy of baking all around the world, especially to those who perhaps don’t bake too often and are not particularly experienced at it. This day is meant to show people just how much fun it can be to make a cake or some cookies, and baking can be a great way to spend time with family and friends. Not to mention how much fun it is to eat what you’ve made once it’s done!

Baking has existed for over 14,000 years, proving that we simply can’t live without it! In fact, the first bakers in Jordan created flatbreads, which they then wrapped around meat – potentially the first-ever sandwich in existence. Roman times saw the birth of the artisan baker. Lovers of all things decadent, Romans prized the pastry chef, and those that brought new baked goods to the worlds were ever-popular at feasts and banquets. 

In the United Kingdom, by the Middle Ages, baking went commercial, with many trading regulations and rules governing how to bake and sell bread. But everyone’s got to eat, so anyone with an oven was baking bread to feed their families. The delicious, mouth-watering cakes we eat today started to emerge for the upper echelons of society from the middle ages onwards. 

Technology also helped upgrade the ovens to help bring better-baked goods to the masses, especially in the nineteenth century. Food was easier to preserve, too, so many people could order in meats and milk from across the country rather than relying on their backyard cows or chickens. Cans also cultivated a new innovation for baking, as meats and veg could be canned and exported from places like Australia. 

New baking innovations arrived during WWI and WWII. In America during the wars, baking thrived as people moved to the US, and rationing saw the need for increasingly crafty creations. In America, different flavors from across the world arrived, from Italian cannolis to Mexican Tres Leches. When people couldn’t find fat or eggs during the wars, Applesauce Cake was baked into existence, which is still made today and used as an alternative to eggs and fat in vegan baking.

The increase in prosperity after the war allowed baking to flourish into the foods we love today, all culminating in this event. Enjoy the chance to bake, eat, and be merry with friends and family during this day.

Do Fairy Tales Ruin Reality?

“Love doesn’t have to be perfect. It just needs to be true.”

These are the renowned line from the famous the “Beauty and the Beast”. Fairy tales and fables are the most essential part of an every children’s life which ultimately develops his or her imagination level. These stories and fables are something which we all have heard in our life. These fairy tales worlds seemed to be the most beautiful world in childhood for each child. Be it our childhood or adolescence these stories are admired by everyone. These tales tell us meaning of existence, behavior we should follow in life and moral norms which the society praises. Every girl wishes to be Cinderella and every little boy wish to be as smart and brave as Prince Charming was. All the beautiful castle and magic wards is the reason behind making our entire childhood fantastic.

After hearing all these stories and fables we all believe that identifying Prince Charming is very easy were the Prince Charming will always come in a white horse and the Beast will come wearing a black dress. But the reality is something opposite to it, where it is not mandatory that the prince will come on a white dress and the beast will come with black outfit. When we look at the situation of today’s generation we find that true love is pictured and looks adorable only is big screen and not in reality. Truth is money; power and position have successfully overpowered love. Childhood is the most innocent age where kids believe what they see but reality is very much different from it there is a huge difference between real life and reel life. Watching Cinderella with his Prince Charming might look adorable but the reality is if we turn the pages of the newspaper we may find that each day hundreds of Cinderella are burned and raped or is attempting suicide just because the one she thought her Prince Charming was actually a devil with the white horse. Another interpretation of it is since childhood we are taught that our prince will are come to rescue us whenever we are in a problem. This gives an exact mirror of our patriarchal society and out-dated thinking which is the male members always plays the role of a hero and he is the one who will always save his better half. This notion is put up in the minds of the kids since there childhood. Women are always considered inferior in front of society and needs a man or we can say her hero who will always come to save her life whatever the situation is.

I don’t think fairy tales ruin reality but it is the wrong person who projects to be the prince and at last we came to known that he is actually the devil in the getup of prince. What I feel is it is not mandatory to project only the boy as the hero of every story. Now days, girls are no less than man and a times are considered as better than mans. Also, every time a female is only demonstrated as the one who have negative characteristic. Summing up that, having male power is not necessary to be well-thought-out as hero. The one who knows how to tackle a situation and to know give back even more in return is the one considered as a hero.

EID AL-ADHA

Eid al-Adha is the latter of the two official holidays celebrated within Islam. It honors the willingness of Ibrahim (Abraham) to sacrifice his son Ishmael (in Judaism, Isaac) as an act of obedience to God’s command. Before Abraham could sacrifice his son, however, God provided a lamb to sacrifice instead. In commemoration of this intervention, animals are sacrificed ritually. One third of their meat is consumed by the family offering the sacrifice, while the rest is distributed to the poor and needy. Sweets and gifts are given, and extended family are typically visited and welcomed. The day is also sometimes called Big Eid or the Greater Eid.

In the Islamic lunar calendar, Eid al-Adha falls on the 10th day of Dhu al-Hijjah, and lasts for four days. In the international (Gregorian) calendar, the dates vary from year to year, shifting approximately 11 days earlier each year. Eid al-Adha is also pronounced Eid al-Azha and Eidul Azha.

The Arabic word عيد (ʿīd) means ‘festival’, ‘celebration’, ‘feast day’, or ‘holiday’. It itself is a triliteral root ‏عيد‎ with associated root meanings of “to go back, to rescind, to accrue, to be accustomed, habits, to repeat, to be experienced; appointed time or place, anniversary, feast day.” Arthur Jeffery contests this etymology, and believes the term to have been borrowed into Arabic from Syriac, or less likely Targumic Aramaic.

The words أضحى (adha) and قربان (qurban) are synonymous in meaning ‘sacrifice’ (animal sacrifice), ‘offering’ or ‘oblation’. The first word comes from the triliteral root ضحى (dahha) with associated meanings of “immolate ; offer up ; sacrifice ; victimize.” No occurrence of this root with a meaning related to sacrifice occurs in the Qur’an but in the Hadith literature. Arab Christians use the term to mean the Eucharistic host. The second word derives from the triliteral root ‏‏قرب‎‎ (qaraba) with associated meanings of “closeness, proximity… to moderate; kinship…; to hurry; …to seek, to seek water sources…; scabbard, sheath; small boat; sacrifice.” Arthur Jeffery recognizes the same Semitic root, but believes the sense of the term to have entered Arabic through Aramaic.

ORIGIN OF EID AL-ADHA

One of the main trials of Abraham’s life was to face the command of God by sacrificing his beloved son Isaac. According to the new narrative, Abraham kept having dreams that he was sacrificing his son Ishmael. Abraham knew that this was a command from God and he told his son, as stated in the Quran “Oh son, I keep dreaming that I am slaughtering you”, Ishmael replied “Father, do what you are ordered to do.” Abraham prepared to submit to the will of God and prepared to slaughter his son as an act of faith and obedience to God. During this preparation, Shaytaan tempted Abraham and his family by trying to dissuade them from carrying out God’s commandment, and Abraham drove Satan away by throwing pebbles at him. In commemoration of their rejection of Satan, stones are thrown at symbolic pillars Stoning of the Devil during Hajj rites.

Acknowledging that Abraham was willing to sacrifice what is dear to him, God the Almighty honoured both Abraham and Ishmael. Angel Jibreel (Gabriel) called Abraham “O’ Abraham, you have fulfilled the revelations.” and a lamb from heaven was offered by Angel Gabriel to prophet Abraham to slaughter instead of Ishmael. Muslims worldwide celebrate Eid al Adha to commemorate both the devotion of Abraham and the survival of Ishmael.

This story is known as the Akedah in Judaism (Binding of Isaac) and originates in the Torah, the first book of Moses (Genesis, Ch. 22).

SACRIFICE ON EID AL-ADHA

The tradition for Eid al-Adha involves slaughtering an animal and sharing the meat in three equal parts – for family, for relatives and friends, and for poor people. The goal is to make sure every Muslim gets to eat meat. The celebration has a clear message of devotion, kindness and equality.

In the Holy Tauret Book in the ‘Pedaish’, it is written that Allah created human beings in His image. The fruits which are have seeds in them, He ordered them to be eaten by humans, and animals are ordered to eat grass, and other vegetarian food. There is no order to eat meat. If there is any order to eat meat in the Qur’an, then it is not of Allah but is of the angel Jibril. Thus, God created the world in six days and sat on the throne on the seventh day.

However, the purpose of sacrifice in Eid al-Adha is not about shedding of blood just to satisfy Allah. It is about sacrificing something devotees love the most to advance the message of Eid al-Adha. In other words, the sacrifice can be something other than an animal such as money or time spent on community service. There are historical precedences of caliphs sacrificing items other than meat. After all, the animal sacrifice is only a sunnah, which is habitual rather than required. The Quran said that the meat will not reach Allah, nor will the blood, but what reaches him is the devotion of devotees.

Waris Dirie – the desert flower!

When I was a child I said ‘I do not want to be a woman’. Why, when it is so painful and so unhappy? But now that I am grown I am proud to be who I am. But for the sake of all of us, let us try and change what that means, to be a woman”.

The above said words was evinced by Waris Dirie, the Somalian modelist, actress, author and human activist. This blog neither narrates her life, nor discusses about her book. But about; how much daring she is to break the humiliating custom of Africa. Even now, there exists some traditional practice in Africa and in certain Middle East countries in the name of custom and relegion; the humiliating genital mutilation. And mostly female are affected by this. This ritual is taking place in Africa for the girls at their young age, before getting married in order to not to lose their virginity. Waris Dirie had also been through this painful thing. It required for her to stand in the limelight in order to reveal the truth to this world; but it’s defenitely not gonna be possible for all to become a public face to reveal the crime that’s happening against one’s life. Nearly 60 girl children’s had to undergo this harmful thing and 2 out of 4 girls face death due to this ritual. Their life would be filled with pain all throughout the life; especially whenever they consummate their marriage and during their pregnancy.

Waris Dirie, the flower from a cornered desert, was fated to bloom through that painful life and she didn’t even expected that she would become the founder of Desert foundation. It required for her to run 300 miles without even some food or water, and has faced more dangerous humans than animals. Life has offered her some good opportunities to uplift herself to the next level, only when she ran away from her existing place. When she had undergone an operation in her future, in order to cure the circumcision; she had reported that she could pass her urine without any pain. Such things makes me acknowledge how blessed I am right now. And it also makes me realise that life doesn’t offer the things that we desire for, that easily. We come across many suicidal cases and at times we are carried away by the sadness behind those news. Her life made me to realise that one should not give up at any point to end their life.

The greatest thing about her is, she had accepted whatever that is done against her but she didn’t let any instance to change her real self. She can also be termed as the iron lady who remained still at all the bad things that was imposed against her and she tried to grab each little opportunity without any expectations. Now she became the activist and found the Desert foundation. The foundation; along with the UK agencies and World Health Organization is involved in rescuing the victims for such mutilation. She, herself set as the example of how to live a life inspite of all the hardships. I wouldn’t like to convey how she made me feel; but it is definite that she would have made you to realise something that is really worth of your time.

CURRENT SITUATION IN SOUTH AFRICA

What is happening in South Africa ?

Many Indian has been killed recently in South Africa. After Jacob Zuma’s arrest, president of south Africa triggered looting and violence in the country

Why Jacob was arrested ?

Mr.  Jacob was president of South Africa from 2009 until 2018, for the corruption.

Jacob Zuma is first president to be sent to jail in South Africa.

 He was imprisoned for 10 years in 1963 for fighting the racist system of apartheid in South Africa. He also went into exile in 1975. He was also charged with raping a family friend.

 Now, He was charged with contempt of a court made up of South Africa’s most senior judges.

 Jacob said that it is as same as or worst than a death to keep him in jail in this pandemic.

At least 200 people have been killed during the widespread unrest that lasted nine days.

Why Indian being targeted in South Africa ?

The death count of South African Indians reaches almost 270 in South Africa.

Many markets and supermarket have been looted and burned of south African Indian by pro-Zuma rioters.

The issues between South Africa and Indians started with a Saharanpur-origin business family, “the Guptas”. Gupta’s were closed to Zuma and influenced other in allegation of corruption against the Zuma and fled to Dubai.

After this pro-Zuma started attacking Indians. They looted their home and shops. Indian women also receiving threats of rape.

The behavior against Indian and looting their market is criminal not racism between them.

Targeting the whole community due to someone is never be an option not Just.

Amid rising cases of Coronavirus, South Africa is facing humanitarian crises also.

National Human Rights Commission

National Human Rights Commission, a statutory body , was established in 1993 under a legislation enacted by the Parliament namely, the Protection of Human Rights Act, 1993. The commission is the watchdog of Human Rights in the country, that is, the rights related to life, liberty, equality and dignity of the individual guaranteed by the constitution or embodied in the international covenants and enforceable by courts in India.

Composition of the Commission:

The commission is a multi-member body consisting of a chairperson and five members. The chairperson should be a retired Chief Justice of India or judge of the Supreme Court and the members should be a serving or retired judge of the Supreme Court, a serving or retired Chief Justice of a high court and three persons having knowledge of practical experience with respect to human rights.

 In addition to these full time members the commission also has 7 ex-officio members- the chairpersons of National Commission for minorities the National Commission for SCs,the National Commission for STs, the National Commission for Women, the National Commission for OBCs and the National Commission for Protection of Child Rights and Chief Commissioner for Persons with Disabilities.

Functions of the Commission: 

To enquire into any violation of human rights or negligence in the prevention of such violation by a public servant, either suo motu or on a petition presented to it or on an order of a court.

To intervene in any proceeding involving allegations of violation of human rights pending before a court. 

To visit jails and detention places to study the living condition of inmates and make recommendations there on.

To review the constitutional and other legal safeguards for the protection of human rights and recommend measures for the effective implementation.

To review the factors including acts of terrorism that inhibit the enjoyment of human rights and recommend remedial measures.

To study treaties and other international instruments on human rights and make recommendations for their effective implementation.

To undertake and promote research in the field of human rights.

To spread Human Rights literacy among the people and promote research.

To encourage the efforts of NGO working in the field of human rights.

To undertake such other functions as it may be considered necessary for the promotion of human rights.

Performance of the Commission:

The various Human Rights issues taken up by the commission are as follows-:

Abolition of bonded labour.

Functioning of the mental hospitals at Ranchi, Agra and Gwalior .

Functioning of the government protective home (women), Agra.

Issues concerning the right to food.

Review of the child marriage restraint act 1929.

Protocols to the Convention on the Rights of Child.

Preventing employment of children by government servants:Amendment of service rules.

Abolition of child labour

Guidebook for the Media on sexual violence against Children.

Trafficking in women and children: Manual for Judiciary for Gender Sensitization.

Sensitisation programme on Prevention of Sex tourism and Trafficking.

Maternal anaemia and human rights and so on.

Saying “NO”

How often do people ask you to do something and you just reply, “Sure”. And as a result of that, you’re overwhelmed by how much extra work you have to do. We become frustrated even though we were the ones who said yes to help them in the first place. We agree to many requests not because we want to do the work, but because we don’t want to be seen as rude or arrogant.

It worries us that if we deny the someone’s request then they will end the friendship between us or it will lead to an awkward situation the next time we meet them. But this is not the case. The person who we say NO to will not be thinking about how rude you were. They will simply move on to the next person to ask for help. 

Economist Tim Harford said, “Every time we say yes to a request, we are also saying no to anything else we might accomplish with the time”. We compromise the valuable time that we have, to do work for others when we could be productive working to improve our life skills that will actually help us.  

A simple “no” is the perfect solution. We think that this one word will cause a lot of problems but in reality, it can be the most powerful tool. Saying no is an important skill to develop at any stage of your career because it retains the most important asset in life: your time. You need to say no to whatever isn’t leading you toward your goals. You need to say no to distractions. For instance, if you originally planned to do work but your friend calls you for a video game, you have to say NO to him so that you don’t cause trouble to your future self.

Of course, saying a simple NO will not always suffice. They will always ask a follow up question of “WHY?”. Therefore, we need to learn how to say NO without sounding rude.

Some of the kind ways to decline are, “Unfortunately, I’ll need to pass on this”, “I’m sorry, but I will not be able to”, “Sadly, I can’t”.

The examples of phrases to avoid are, “hmm, I don’t know”, “I’m not sure”, “It’s tough to say”, “Well, maybe I could do it. But…”.

Saying no saves you time in the future, whereas saying yes costs you time in the future. No is a form of time credit. You retain the ability to spend your future time however you want. Yes is a form of time debt. You have to pay back your commitment at some point. No is a decision. Yes is a responsibility.

CULTURAL AND POLITICAL FACTORS THAT LEAD TO MILTON’S EPIC POETRY

Renaissance is a religious movement and as such it relates not only to literary revival but it has grassroot connections with political and social movements also. Literature flourished during the period of Tudor Monarch. After the death of Henry VII, King Henry came to power who was a great lover of art, music and literature and love lyrics were composed. As such, Renaissance left a great influence on the social political and religious front. The unrest in England prevailed at large, the authority of king was questioned by Parliament. The existing system with regard to each and every spheres of life was being questioned. Even women intervened in the existing social and cultural status.

John Milton studied deeply the political and social order of his contemporary and wrote a lot about the pathetic state of affairs. He had drawn public opinion on all major or public issues. Milton’s epic ‘Paradise Lost’ is a common theme on Renaissance and reformative course on individual and state. The poetry during the Renaissance expanded into three main channels: the sonnet, heading the lyric and the satire. The literary forms of Milton’s period highlight religious issues and humanist thoughts.

Milton’s poems ‘L’ Allegro’ and ‘II Penseroso’ reveals the fact that the Milton has favoured ‘short lyric’. He also followed classical forms and themes. Thus, short lyric was the major elements in the poetry of Milton’s contemporary. Milton has justified his sense of religion when he writes in ‘Paradise Lost’ that his epic was the ways of God to man. This epic of Milton also has detailed narration of conflicts on the behaviour of the king and the rest of Parliamentarians Milton has also highlighted the issue of women and their individual status by means of his epic and other poetic form.

The use of epic form of poetry in English started with some failed attempts by poets like Patrick Hannay, D’Avenant and W. Chamberlyne. One of the main and important factors that led to the success of Milton’s epic poetry was he used the epic to represent the essence of the age, the contemporary struggle between religion and the state rather than simple reconstruction of the classical matrix.

Another issue which has raised for the Puritan Patriarchy. It not only promoted the issue of individualism but also questioned the women’s individuality and autonomy. Thus, engaging itself in the old age biblical argument of free will and predetermination. These issues are apparent in the conversation between Adam and Eve.

Passengers Trapped Inside Train Amid Severe Floods In China

Soldiers are leading the rescue in the city of more than 10 million people in Henan province, which has been hit by record rains which inundated the streets and the subway.


Beijing: 

Twelve people died after torrential rains flooded a subway in the central Chinese city of Zhengzhou, authorities said Wednesday, as shocking images showed passengers struggling against chest-high water inside a train carriage.

Soldiers are leading the rescue in the city of more than 10 million people in Henan province, which has been hit by record rains which inundated the streets and the subway.

The city has experienced “a series of rare and heavy rainstorms, causing water to accumulate in Zhengzhou metro”, city officials said in a Weibo post.

The post said 12 people died and five were injured, while hundreds were rescued from the subway.

Ola electric scooter receives record 1 lakh bookings in 24 hours

Ola Electric CEO Bhavish Aggarwal announced recently that the much-anticipated Ola e-scooter has achieved 1 lakh bookings in just 24 hours of opening of pre-launch bookings, making it the ‘most pre-booked scooter’ in the world.

Ola Electric had announced the opening of bookings on July 15th at a token amount of ₹499 on its official website.

“India’s EV revolution is off to an explosive start. Huge thanks to the 100,000+ revolutionaries who’ve joined us and reserved their scooter,” Bhavish Aggarwal said on Twitter.

“I am thrilled by the tremendous response from customers across India for our first electric vehicle. The unprecedented demand is a clear indicator of shifting consumer preferences to EVs,” Bhavish Aggarwal said in a statement.

The new Ola electric scooter is likely to go on sale in the country later this month.

Ola Electric has claimed that the scooter will get best-in-class boot space as well. Additionally, the new scooter will get an app-based key for a keyless experience.

Ola has claimed that electric scooter will come with ergonomic seating. The company also claims the scooter will come with “superior cornering” ability as well as “class-leading acceleration.”